You're telling me that two weeks after this man
raped your child with an object,
you let him have visitation with her.
I did not let him have visitation.
Did he have visitation with her?
Might have had it with me, but not by himself.
He did have supervised visits for a long time, Dr. Phil.
He had it with me, supervision,
with his mother's supervision.
For six months, not two years.
Right, this only came out with the evidence
that we've got.
I had to take something versus nothing
with the parenting plan
'cause you weren't willing
to give an inch. Anthony.
You drink and do drugs-- You know damn--
You drink and drive.
Stop talking.
Listen, I'm not interested in talking about his
alcohol and drug behavior.
I don't care if he's a falling down drunk and meth addict.
That's a whole different story.
What I'm interested in is somebody explain to me
how a mother who believes
that a man has raped her child with an object,
two weeks later, with her or without her says,
"Yeah, let's go."
I didn't know what to do, Dr. Phil.
I was unsure how truthful it was.
I really didn't know.
And I was wrong for waiting so long,
I know I was.
You were unsure how truthful it was?
I didn't know if children lied about
that kind of thing, I really did not know.
Once I found out--
But now, you're sure?
Yes.
Her story has not changed one bit.
God, you need help.
You need help, Anthony!
She is not, she keeps talking about it
like it was yesterday.
Let's continue the timeline.
Then, five days later, you filed an order of protection
against Anthony.
And you did not include in the statement anything about
the use of an object.
Someone has raped your child with an object
and when you file an order to limit him,
you don't mention that.
It wasn't an object, it was his object.
It wasn't a stick, Dr. Phil.
She keeps putting things in my mother and me,
and, "Don't worry, it's not gonna tickle.
"It's only gonna tickle, it's not gonna hurt."
She does this on her own.
Nobody's coaxing her.
Nobody's telling her to do these things.
She's doing this on her own.
You don't seem to understand that I don't
take deflection.
I'm not deflecting.
That's really how it happened. You're trying to.
No I'm not. You're just not.
That's really how it happened.
You're telling me--
(applause)
You're telling me that 19 days after
your daughter tells you she's been raped by this man
with a stick, you're telling me now it's not a stick?
It is his (beep).
She said stick.
And we don't argue with her,
we don't question her what kinda stick?
How was it, you don't do that.
We just let her speak and she speaks.
That's all.
Her therapist asks all those questions, not me.
It's what she hears in that household.
Really Anthony?
Come on, Anthony.
Really Anthony?
Think about what you're saying.
Well, either way,
you don't mention that when you file this order.
I'm pretty sure I did.
I don't know.
Dr. Phil, if I knew about that--
They just left that out.
If I knew about it, I had to have said it.
I know I wouldn't have not said it if I knew about it.
It has been two years since all that happened.
You told us that's what she said that night.
It happened, that's what she said that day,
that her Daddy hurt her pee pee, yes.
Her Daddy (beeping) and it really hurt is what she said.
So she did say it.
Yes.
And then you didn't say it when you
filed the order.
(applause)
I don't know how that would've happened.
If I would've known that, I would've said it.
I wasn't with you when you filed it.
You didn't say it because it didn't happen.
Anthony, it did happen.
It did happen and I know it happened
and I know you did it to her.
She wouldn't lie about it.
You are her father.
You said if I had known about it,
I would've said it.
You knew about it.
So, if I knew about it, then I had to have said it
and they might not have put it in the order.
You didn't know about it then because you didn't say it.
And the reason you didn't say it here is because
she didn't say it here.
Is that what you're telling me?
She did say it there.
Then you would've said it here, according to you.
If she'd have said it here, you'd have said it here.
So if she didn't say it here,
you wouldn't have said it here.
It has to be in the report somewhere in that report.
It is not.
Well, that's a pretty odd thing to leave out.
Yeah, it is.
It is.
My two and a half year old daughter has been raped.
I forgot to mention that.