Are you new to the world of vibrators and would you like to learn how to use them properly? Or
have you had your vibrator for a while and you're not sure if you're getting the most out of it?
Or does your partner use a vibrator and you want to know what to do with it too? Stick
around to get all the answers! My name is Helena Nista and I make videos that help you have the
best sex of your life. And today we're chatting about 7 fun and creative ways to use a vibrator.
Vibrators... so much fun contained in a small or not so small vibrating toy. When it comes to
choosing your own vibrator, it really comes down to personal preference. There are many
different types: vibrating eggs, bullets, dildos, rabbits, wands. massagers, etc. So if you're
not certain what to buy, have a look online first to see what looks most appealing to you.
I've tried many different vibrators in my life and they all have different qualities and benefits.
But today for the presentation purposes I'll be using my faithful vibrating wand. If you've been
following me for a while, you'll recall that I recently published a video about the benefits of
putting your vibrator aside. That video was made for anyone who relies a bit too heavily on their
toys in the bedroom and who would like to overcome that reliance (or addiction) and create new, fun,
powerful ways to orgasm without it. You can check out that video up here. And for everyone else,
here are my seven awesome, fun, creative ways to use your sexy device. The simplest thing to do is
to apply steady pressure to a sensitive area of your body. Specifically for ladies, applying the
vibrator in a steady way to the clitoris or around the clitoris and simply holding it there, making
sure that it's creating pleasure and pleasurable sensations. Here, what I would advise is not to
so much push the vibrator into the body but apply very, very gentle pressure so that the vibrations
can actually have the best benefit for the body. When you push the vibrator into the skin too hard,
the vibrations are going to be reduced and the sensations are going to be less intense. So here,
you simply need to find an area that feels wonderful to touch and simply
hold the vibrator to that area for as long as it feels good. Another fun thing to do is to apply
the vibrator in a pulsating manner. Now, this can be applying the vibrator in kind of slow
pulsations or more faster ones. What I really like about this one is that when you're applying the
touch and the stimulation with the vibrator, it's creating this yummy level of pleasure and
sensation and arousal. But when you take it away, it's like a teasing sort of sensation because this
area wants to keep being stimulated, wants to keep building up the pleasure and sexual energy
so you're kind of teasing yourself or your partner when you're taking the touch away
and then bringing it back for a shorter or longer while. And then taking it away again
and just pulsating in this manner. Moving the vibrator around your genital area is another
wonderful thing to do because you don't only have one sensitive spot on your genitals. You have many
and you might be surprised with what you find when you allow the vibrator to simply wander around and
move and caress different parts of your vulva, of your of your genital area, allowing it to
maybe stay in different sensitive spots for a little bit longer or move it and add that kind of
friction to the vibrations as well. And just really playing and being curious and staying for
as long as you want in whatever places that feel good to you. An extra point here for the gentlemen
is that the vibrators don't only work well on the vulvas on female genital anatomy but also on the
gentlemen: on the penises and scrotums and anuses, etc. So men can also enrich their own sexual
experiences, together with a partner or solo, by adding a vibrator to their bedroom repertoire and
by stimulating themselves in different areas with the vibrating toy. Once you find a really yummy,
delicious spots that really enjoys the stimulation of the vibrator, you can circle or spiral around
it, meaning that after staying on it for a little bit you can actually move the vibrator around.
This is also a very teasing stroke because this spot in the middle there, the one that
you are at the moment trying to avoid, is the one that is actually screaming for the stimulation,
that is really wanting it and enjoying it. So you can make circles and you can sort of spiral
in closer and closer and closer until you tease that spot a little bit more.
And then you can move away a little bit longer. This will also make the stimulation last longer
because you're not gonna take yourself over the edge of the orgasm too quickly. Which brings me
to edging. Typically, when we use a vibrator on the clitoris or around the clitoris, we can make
ourselves come really, really quickly. This kind of quick orgasm, quick release can be fun but it's
not usually typically very satisfying. This is why edging or prolonging the experience can bring us
much more fulfilment and sexual satisfaction. So how you would typically use a vibrator on edging
is to bring yourself to high states of arousal by stimulating your most sensitive spots,
and then when you feel really highly aroused, move the stimulation somewhere else so that you don't
make yourself come too quickly. Move the vibrator around, which will still bring you pleasure but
won't build up your arousal as much. And then, when you feel that that arousal has dropped a bit,
you can again bring the vibrator to the clitoris or around the clitoris
and bring yourself up higher towards the orgasm. And when you are highly aroused, again moving
the vibrator away into other spots and areas can be really, really delicious. Playing like that:
going up and down, and up and down, and up and down, before you finally allow yourself to orgasm
will create much, more fun for you and the orgasm will be much more powerful at the end.
For some extra added fun, you can combine the stimulation with the vibrator with internal
stimulation. While you're stimulating yourself or your partner with the vibrator externally,
you can insert your finger or a dildo, or an egg, or a vibrating bullet, or anything else
inside of the vagina so that you're blending the stimulation, external stimulation of the vibrator
with the internal stimulation of the vaginal canal. And finally, don't forget that your
vibrating toy can work wonders not just on your genital area but anywhere on your entire body.
You can use it and be really, really creative with it. You can use it on your skin, on your chest,
on your nipples, on your belly, on your thighs, on your feet, on your neck, on your face... anywhere
you want. Some people claim that stimulating the anus externally with a vibrating toy can
induce particularly strong trance-like states of pleasure so be playful, creative, explore
and allow your entire body to be your sexual, erotic playground. Once you feel complete and
satisfied, it's time for the last step, which is something really important and crucial for
any self-respecting vibrator user: cleaning your toy. The simplest thing to do is to simply wash
your toy with soap and warm water. You might need to remove the batteries for the sake of safety
or if your toy has a cord, make sure that the cord stays away from any water. Make sure to
also dry your toy properly after washing it. Most sex shops offer special products for cleaning and
disinfecting the toys but it's completely up to you if you decide to invest in these products.
I used to buy the cleaning sprays years ago but now I just rely on soap and warm water. Last point
I want to make is about sharing toys. Some people ask me if it's safe to use someone else's toys or
to play with them together. As a general rule: no, do not share sex toys. This kind of devices
are very personal in nature and they touch very personal parts of your body. So it's safest to
use your own toys on your own body. If you want to play with someone else and if you're fluid bonded,
it's fairly safe to play together with the same toy since you're exchanging bodily fluids anyways.
If in doubt, you can always put a condom on the toy for the health,
safety and mental comfort of everyone involved. I hope that this video helps you and supports
you on your sexual journey and more specifically on your adventure in playing with vibrating toys.
If you like this video, please leave me a 'Like' and a comment below: do you use a vibrator in the
bedroom or outside of it? Thank you so much for watching and for sticking with me till the end.
I wish you a wonderful week full of sexy, vibrating fun and orgasms. See you next time!