Hi everyone its Agnes, I've got another relationship success story for you. So it's from
D - as in the letter 'D' coz she'd prefer to be anonymous. So I am from India my name is D, I'm 32
so I've never had a stable steady relationship in my life when 'N' showed up. I was so elated for me
this was 'it.' He meant the world to me and vice versa but both of us didn't have stable jobs since
I'm a freelancer and he as well and he wanted to get a stable job in order to take the relationship
to the next level. As I was too excited and told the whole world about it, he was a little hesitant
in telling people but his parents did like me a lot and we were insisting him and were they were
insisting him to get married to me. We used to fight a lot since he wanted to get more stable
and since I'm 32 I wanted to settle down. In India girl is generally married by 26 and he
is three years younger so he wanted to work on his business and with me around he couldn't do
it. I used to complain that he's not paying enough attention to me, plus he was depressed because he
was unable to get stable. So he called it quits. I was deeply hurt, I pinned him for three months - I
think you mean pined - I was deeply hurt and I pined for him for three months. We broke up in
September. After that I kept getting job offers one after the other through the jobs and they were
very tiring. I took it in order to keep myself busy. In October he messaged me on my birthday
saying 'I didn't want to message you because I don't want to ruin your life and you're better
off without me and I thought you should find someone who is stable who will keep you happy.' I
told him that I still loved him and he was shocked that I didn't move on, so we did start exchanging
texts once in a blue moon. And at that time I was doing your meditations - meditation for self-love,
meditation for 1st Best and the whispering technique, meditation to radiate love to
your special person, meditation for 1st Best in a romantic evening with a specific person,
Abraham Hicks 'practice what you want by ignoring it' - I'm not sure exactly what
that means 'practice what you want by ignoring it' I guess it's ignoring the negative situation of
not being together, I think that's what you mean - create your future by Amanda, everyone is you
pushed out. I mostly listed to your self-love meditation as I was concentrating - listed,
that think meant is supposed to say listening - I mostly listened to your self-love meditation as I
was concentrating on my self-love. And I did yoga, zumba, lost weight, kept the meditations going,
healing myself, meeting friends, going out for parties. In January he called to wish me a Happy
New Year for the first time in ages, I did not feel like a clingy thing to him as I was okay.
I had left everything to the universe - if he was mine he would come around and I knew I deserved a
strong person who could take care of all my needs and also be stable. Right enough on the 14th of
Jan he told me on a text that he still misses me and he still loves me like crazy. He also told
me that he started his own business and he was feeling much confident and he noticed certain
changes in me that was positive and he wanted to see me. Now I had scripted this that he would come
to my house and we would have a nice dinner and some wine and guess what? Everything I wrote came
true, every word. He came home with a bottle of wine, flowers, food. I called him 'Santa' - note:
he has never given me flowers ever while we were dating so he did not believe in gifting flowers.
I was about to lose consciousness with the amount of love he was showering on me. We had an amazing
evening, he was supposed to leave early in the morning to go back home but he did not want to
leave he stayed back that day as well. I was overwhelmed. Now we are officially dating, I'm
also doing yourself love meditations and sending love to your specific person meditations. Thank
you Agnes, you don't know what you mean to me you are a godsend thanks a million. Fantastic D - D I
just want to say one thing, there is something you said here this is why I was a little bit hesitant.
'I deserved a strong person who could take care of all my needs' okay be mindful of that - someone is
not there to look after all your needs okay, you are. Okay I just want to say that because if you
come from that place it ends up that you put too much pressure on someone. It doesn't matter if
you're married, dating, engaged it you just please be mindful of that okay. People you have to meet
your own needs because you're adults okay, it's fine if someone gives you stuff but be mindful
of that little thing okay. So I just couldn't let that one go today. All right so I also want
to say Quana who I interviewed she I did YouTube sitting helping her set up her YouTube channel,
she's got a lovely song I'm gonna put it down the description and she's singing 'Ain't No Sunshine'
by Bill Withers. So that is there for those of you that want to listen to a viewer doing
her creative thing. All right lots of love and I will see you as always in the next YouTube.