- When a man is using a woman,
he will do these 10 things.
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10 signs of a man using you,
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So now without the further ado
let's start with the tip number one,
but just before I will start with the tip number one,
I just want to say, ladies, if you'll watch this video
til we end, til the number 10,
you'll see there a little twist.
So the tip number one, he might promise you the world,
he might tell you how much you have in common
and how he's looking for a wife,
yet after the first few times you have slept together
he will start to say
how he's not ready for anything serious,
he has issues, he has commitment problems,
how scared he is and how he is not in the right place
to have anything serious.
Yet, because he still doesn't want to lose you,
as he has it good with you, he might say,
"Well, but maybe in the future might be different."
Number two, he will pursue you sed deductively, playfully,
and in a fun way jealous before he sleeps with you.
He will be very charming, seducing you into bed.
After, of course, he will be gone with plenty of excuses
why he cannot spend any more time with you.
Number three, he gets in touch with you
only when he is upset over some other woman,
pours his heart out looking for comfort and ego stroke,
then most likely seduces you into bed.
Then you don't hear from him until he is upset again.
Number four, he is flirting with you
in front of his girlfriend.
When a man does this,
most likely it is not because he's into you,
but because he wants to make his girlfriend jealous.
He wants to see will she overreact.
He doesn't care about you.
You are just a Muppet for his game.
And as soon as the girlfriend will leave a room
or will go to the bathroom, he will stop flirting with you
and might even disappear on you.
I mean, what is the point when the main audience
the show was for originally is gone?
Number five, he has deep conversations with you to connect,
charms you, says you are the one and only for him.
He's falling deeply in love,
talks big game how wealthy he is,
maybe even takes you to some posh, exclusive places first,
and then asks you for money as his credit card got frozen
or the police are investigating his company
or perhaps he got scammed, poor him,
and until he gets it unblocked
he just needs a few thousand here and there
just to get by in the next few days.
Ladies, never give a man money,
unless it's your family, of course.
But as a man he should be embarrassed
to ask a woman for money, especially the one he's dating,
especially his other half.
And in return you can say, "Well, if you are so wealthy,
right, maybe some of your wealthy friends
can give you a hand in need."
Number six, last minute requests.
When a guy is not into you for the long term
and only once you at his convenience, he is using you.
Do not fall for the compliments.
If he calls you at 10 or 11:00 PM at night to hang out,
he is using you.
He just wants the booty.
Some guys will avoid your calls and text to hang out
because he might be entertaining another girl
or just with our things that are his priorities.
The minute he is bored
and he knows that you are always willing to be with him
at any cause because you like him so much,
he will take that opportunity to use you,
and only ask you out at the very last minute.
He'll never plan any dates with you ahead of time
or take you out on a proper date,
because guess of what?
If he calls you up and you do show up,
why should he take you out?
Why not take things easy when they are on a plate?
Number seven, believe his actions over words.
If a guy told you a month ago,
that he promised that we can get away
and that he will drive to come and see you,
and he has not followed through with it,
believe his actions and not his words.
Obviously, words are cheap.
Some guys will fulfill your fantasies through words,
because it's easy and women fall for it,
and it keeps the woman hanging around longer.
If this is a common situation for you
and he has made promises with zero action,
it is time to face the truth that he was lying.
A real man stays true to his word.
Number eight, he is selfish.
A guy who only talks about himself
and only considers his needs, he never asks about your day,
doesn't remember your birthday,
maybe you have mentioned to him about your sick mother
and he forgot because he doesn't care about asking
how is she doing, he is using you for his own needs.
If you're sleeping with him, he may even be selfish
in the intimacy area where he only is concerned
about you pleasing him.
He also only seems to call or text
when he needs something from you.
Number nine, the other woman.
If you are not the only girl in his schedule,
he is using you as well as the other women also,
wants multiple women in his life, doesn't commit to anyone,
please know that he will not choose you over the others
if his only aim is to purely use you.
He is using you like a toy and when he gets bored
he has other women to fall on to,
and he will get uninterested in you
as soon as you do not sleep with him after a few days,
because his mission was to have fun with you
and use you anyways.
And here comes the twisted number 10:
you are allowing him to use you,
hoping that he will fall for you
or that it will make him stay with you.
So it can be money, you are willingly offering
to pay for everything, you are splashing your money on him,
perhaps even offering him money,
or it can be sexual,
you're going out of your way for him in the bedroom
and being a pleasing as humanly possible
to fulfill all his fantasies,
hoping that he will get so charmed by you
that he will fall in love with you and will never leave you,
because you are simply the best.
So in other words, you are putting yourself
to be used hoping that he will fall in love
as you are so good.
Ladies, that's not how things work.
And if you find yourself in this position,
please check out my video, "How Men Fall in Love"
and I will drop a link somewhere here
or you can find it in my video description box below.
So ladies, we my 10 tips on how men use women
and how you allow yourself to be used.
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