My advice to the two of you,
just to put a button on this,
y'all barely know each other.
You know, you're not a bad person.
You're certainly not a bad person.
That's not true, I know this woman.
And to be honest with you, you're right.
I do need to be honest with her.
Yes Angela, there was multiple girls.
Not multiple, there was that other girl
I did cheat on you with.
Before, before, when I left.
And I wasn't honest with you.
Can you accept though,
that the best part of her,
said that you're not the right fit for her today?
(sighing)
So, you truly believe that? Yes.
I accept it, I mean, if that's what you-
Look, you two don't know.
Look you have no idea
what goes in to building a solid relationship.
Before anybody decides
that they're right for each other,
you've got to figure out where you stand
on religion, geography, division of labor,
what you're gonna do with money,
what you want for kids,
what you would do in-law wise.
All, you've got so many things
that you would have to go through
to build a relationship on solid strength.
And right now, what you have
are a bunch of histrionics yelling and screaming
that you devised for television.
And that's not what a relationship is built on.
You don't know each other
and the fact that you think you do tells me
you don't know as much as I thought you did.
But that doesn't mean you can't.
If you wanna to get to know each other,
you can do that.
But you need to do it
with serious, serious controls.
And you're either lying to her,
or you're lying to yourself,
but it doesn't matter.
You need to decide what you're entitled to.
And you just stepped into the role
of yourself five years from now,
and gave yourself the advice don't settle.
Require someone that treats you
with dignity and respect,
and require from yourself to behave maturely.
This is not all him,
that this relationship isn't working.
This is two immature people functioning
at about a 13 year old emotional age.
Both of you need to grow up.
I'm just not sure you need to do it together.
But, you've heard what I've had to say,
and you, you're either gonna be honest or you're not.
And you can play semantics
about whether I've never cheated on you
when we were together.
We've been on 30 breaks,
but when we were together,
that's, that's not what a healthy relationship
is built on and you guys
can discuss that or not.
But you know what you need to do.
And I hope you two will take a step back
and discuss this maturely.
(applauding)
I'm angry, and I'm upset.
I feel like I didn't get my point across.
We didn't work anything out.
I came on this show to salvage my relationship.
I made plenty of mistakes, I'm not perfect.
When Dr. Phil asked me that question,
"Have I cheated on her?"
When we were together,
after we left Ex on the Beach, I did not cheat.
Yes I DM'd and flirted with girls,
but that was it.
That's what I considered cheating,
and I lied about little things.
But nothing physically cheating on you,
no I did not.
Yes, I still do wanna be with Angela.
I love that woman.
I'm never gonna see him again.
Nelson is out of my life forever.
I found out a lot of stuff that I didn't know.
My gut instincts were validated.
He cheated on me more than that one time.
I just want Nelson to know that he lost
an amazing, smart, beautiful woman,
and that's something he'll have to live with
for the rest of his life.
(intense music)