Hey, Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com.
Imagine this, you’re out and about and you approach a girl.
You guys are talking, conversation is going pretty well but she’s starting to give you
some signs that she’s not interested.
And then you politely excuse yourself and walk away and say, you know what, that girl
just wasn’t into me.
However, little did you know that she was interested in you but she just playing hard
to get.
Now there’s another scenario.
Let’s imagine that you get a girl’s number and you’re texting her and she seems to
be a little rude and maybe she’s teasing you a bit and she’s showing some signs over
text message that she’s not that interested in you and then you don’t ask her out because
you say to yourself, this girl isn’t into it.
And again, you blew it because she was actually playing hard to get.
Here’s the deal, this happens all the time.
Guys are not able to read the signals of what a girl is thinking.
And I know a big one here is understanding whether or not she is actually not interested
in you or second one, is that she is playing hard to get.
In this video, I want to go over the slight differences between both of them so you’ll
be able to tell in the future and know exactly how to proceed.First of all, you should know
why does a woman play hard to get?
Now not every woman does that, but once in a while you get a woman that won’t make
it so easy.
The reason why she’s doing this is because she’s testing you.
You see, she’s testing to see if you will actually be persistent in pursuing her and
she wants a guy who is persistent because she wants to know that this guy is interested.
Here’s the deal, if you’re going after a quality woman then she wants to know if
this is someone who actually wants her, not just use her.
You see a pretty girl who’s out there, gets hit on all the time so she wants to make sure
that she’s doing her little filtering process and figuring out who is worth her time.
Now of course, on the other end you should be figuring out the same thing too.
That’s for a different video.
Let’s get into it again, these differences.
A woman who is not interested in you is going to be showing a tremendous more amount of
signs that she’s not interested.
And on top of that she is not going to want to meet up with you.
This is key here, this is probably the most important part of the video.
She will not meet up with you.
A lot of guys think that when the girl doesn’t end up meeting up with them or is too busy
or just has any excuse not to see the guy, the guy thinks oh she’s just playing hard
to get or maybe she’s playing hard to get.
They want to know if she’s playing hard to get.
No, she’s not playing hard to get.
This is the sign that she’s not interested in you.
A woman will meet up with you if she is interested.
Or if you guys are just meeting for the first time, then she’ll kiss you or you guys will
wind up having sex or at the least she will want to continue hanging out with you that
night.
It’s all about that face time, you guys getting together.
If she doesn’t want to have that face time, no not on your iPhone, I mean in person, then
she is not interested.
And they’ll also give you the sign that they’re not interested when they’re actively
not trying to pursue a conversation with you.
For example, if girls are giving you one word answers when you’re first talking to them
or if they’re giving you one word answers over text and if they’re not really adding
much to the conversation this is not hard to get.
These are signs that she’s not interested and doesn’t want to continue with you.
I know it gets confusing because you might think well why don’t they just walk away
or why don’t they just not respond to my text message?
Because it’s complicated.
Women still want to be polite and sometimes they feel bad not responding so they might
send some sort of response but that doesn’t mean that they like you.
I’m going to make this pretty simple for you to understand when it comes to whether
or not a girl is playing hard to get.
Here’s the basic idea.
Again, back to what we were saying before.
If a woman is interested, she will want to see you again, she will want to continue spending
time with you.
However, verbally she might act a little bit different, she might tease you a little bit,
she might give you shit for something, she might be doing some flirting with you in a
way where she’s verbally saying she’s not interested, but she’s still communicating
with you.
Some examples of this are she doesn’t respond to your text messages right away, maybe she
cancels on a date, however she is interested in seeing you again.
That’s very important here.
If she doesn’t want to see you again after she cancels or flakes on a date, then she’s
probably not interested.
Maybe she’s trying to create some sort of jealousy plot line.
She talks about other guys, she talks about exes, maybe she talks about a date that she
went on.
These are other examples of her playing hard to get and making sure that you know that
she is not going to just give it up to you right away.
Now it gets confusing when it comes to sex.
A lot of guys might be thinking, oh if a girl doesn’t want to have sex with me, that means
she is playing hard to get.
That could be true but just know that if a girl is not interested in having sex with
you, then she doesn’t feel safe and comfortable, is not ready to do that with you yet.
But that doesn’t mean that she’s not interested in you.
What you need to understand is that the ultimate sign that a girl is interested is that she
wants to meet up with you.
Don’t listen to what she says or how she says it or if she’s teasing you or if she
flakes on one date.
At the end of the day, if she is interested in seeing you face to face then she’s interested
in you and she’s not trying to play hard to get.
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