What a lot of guys don't realize is that there are some things that you could do that are
so easy that make for a better sexual experience for both you and the girl.
And some of these are actually scientifically proven and I'm going to be sharing them with
you today on this video, but let's clean up a little bit first.
Okay, there we go.
That's much better.
On today's video, I'm going to be giving you 7 tips that are gonna make your
sexual experience 100 times better.
And if you're not having sex with anyone right now, or you're not in a relationship, I would
still watch this video because you never know the next time that you will be with a girl
and these tips are going to be amazing for you.
And they're going to work like a charm.
A lot of this information is coming from either my own personal experience or some scientific
studies that I've read about on the internet, or actually talking to women and then telling
me what their experiences are like and how they can be better.
So let's dive in.
The first thing is a lot of guys they have trouble with finishing fast because it's very
sensitive, especially when you're with a girl that you're very attracted to.
Right?
So here is the tip.
You need to masturbate before you end up meeting up with the girl.
If you're in a relationship where you're dating a girl, you know that sex is going
to happen,
you don't want to finish too fast,
you want to masturbate. Why this works so well is because you masturbate before you
see the woman.
So say it's in the same day, which is what I'm talking about here.
You do it earlier on in the day.
And then you end up seeing her later on at night.
You are desensitizing yourself sexually.
Because you know that if you haven't masturbated or been with a girl for a while you're
that much more sensitive because you haven't experienced it in a while.
Okay.
So make sure that you do that.
So it desensitizes you.
Now, it doesn't help in every case. This is not the end all be all.
If you do that, then boom, you're completely desensitized and you're not going to finish
fast.
You still might, but I promise you, if you do it that day, it's going to be a little
bit less sensitive and therefore you're not going to be finishing that fast.
Here's something you have to understand about female anatomy and the brain. Her brain is very much
connected to her pleasure.
That means that if a girl is stressed out, if she's anxious, if she's not feeling safe,
it's going to be hard for her to feel turned on.
So this next tip is about dirty talk, but not just dirty talk in the way that's going
to turn her on, but make her feel comfortable.
A lot of the times it takes a woman a longer time to finish and have an orgasm than a man
especially if she's in her head.
So it could take her a while.
Whether you guys are having sex or having oral sex, either way.
So one thing you can do to make her comfortable is to let her know that it's okay that she's
taking a long time. Say these words, "I love doing this,
I could do this all day."
Maybe you say this during oral sex or maybe if you're using your fingers for stimulation.
Either way you say I love this.
I could do this all day because the longer it takes her if she's in her head about it,
it could take her longer because she's thinking, oh my god, this is taking so long.
I hope he's not annoyed or bored or thinking different of me.
So you let her know and reassure her.
It's okay that you love doing it.
And that will help her bring herself to climax.
Another tip I got was from my friend Jonathan Asley who is a dating coach for women.
And I had him on a podcast, maybe like a few years ago, we talked about this, and this
is really cool.
A lot of guys, when they're going down on a girl you're having oral sex, they use
the tip of their tongue.
So instead of using the tip of your tongue, which is intuitive, a lot of guys think oh,
let's just use that because that is licking the clitoris, which is small.
Using the tip of your tongue, which is also small, so a lot of guys will do that.
However, it should be the opposite.
Use your entire tongue, use all of it, to lick her clitoris.
Use that entire thing because there's so many nerve endings in and around there that it's
going to feel much better.
So make sure that you're doing that to increase the stimulation when you're having oral sex
with her and that will give her a lot of pleasure.
All right, let's call my friend Caitlin V who is a sex expert for men in terms of the
next tip.
What's up Caitlin?
How are you? What are you doing?
I was trying on makeup.
What you doing?
Oh you know just recording a YouTube video right now as we speak. You're on the air.
Right now.
Okay. Say hello to the hundreds of thousands of people watching this video.
Hello everybody. Caitlin V, the best sex coach in the world.
So I called her because I know that she's got a great tip for you guys.
So Caitlin, I know this is a lot of pressure but in under one minute, just off the top
of your head,
and I'm sure you get this all the time.
It's probably an annoying question because you got to really dive deep here.
But what is it one of the best sex tips you have
for guys. Literally anything just go. One of the best sex tips for guys okay. Well I'll
tell you what's been on my mind lately because of some fun that I had over the weekend.
How's that sound?
Go. I love it.
This is a little bit on the kinky side but I think it'll still appeal
to a wide audience Let me tell you that much.
So this is the tease and spank. So I love this. I love a good spanking. I'll be
the first to admit it. I think a lot of women enjoy spanking so obviously this is a tip
for if you know that your woman is at least like okay with spanking. Maybe you don't
pull it out the first time you have sex but you could. You might be able to depending
on the kind of girl you're with.
Anyway.
This is what you do.
You have her either bend over, you're behind her, you're at home, she could have her clothes
on or they could be all the way off.
But anyways, she's looking away from you, you've got a clear range of her behind her
booty.
And this is what you do.
You give it a little circle, gentle little rub like you're warming it up to spank it,
okay, like nothing,
sucks worse than getting a spanking just out of the blue.
I want like a little rub right on the skin little gentle pressure.
And then you reach back as if you're going to spank her ass.
But then you don't do it.
So you rub, you pull back and you can even move forward, just like not actually make contact
with her.
The anticipation is, it is so much more like arousing and delicious than actually getting
spanked.
So you pull your hand back and then you don't do anything.
You don't actually do anything.
You let her think that you're going to spank her and then you don't actually spank her.
It's like, oh my god.
I was there.
I did this to a woman over the weekend.
I did this on Saturday.
I had her permission. We talked about it before.
Yeah.
I reached up on her and pulled her hair and I said can I spank you she said yes, we were already
playing around a little bit.
And I did that I reached my hand back and then I just flicked it forward.
I didn't make any contact with her butt at all and her knees literally went out
from underneath her. She almost fell over. Caitlin V. Check her out.
Gotta give her a plug because she gave us such a great tip go to www.caitlinvneal.com
if you need any help with sex advice for you. Check it out.
The next tip I'm going to attempt to explain in under 15 seconds but basically it is giving
the woman a G spot orgasm, aka making a girl squirt or have a squirting orgasm.
Why you should be doing this is because this is a very pleasurable, pleasurable move to
do with a woman and it will make her really want to come back for more.
So basically, what you're going to be doing is you're going to be using these two fingers
right here, you're going to insert them in her vagina just about to this knuckle right
here.
And then you make a come hither motion, which hits the G spot and you do that for
as long as it takes to then have her have a G spot orgasm.
That is a very simplified version of it.
If you want to learn more
what you can do is well actually hold on one second.
Check out Magnetic because in Chapter 7 of this book I go and dive into exactly step
by step how to do it and how to make it extremely comfortable for her and also easy for you
to be able to do it.
So check it out in the Magnetic book which I'll put a link down below. You can get this
on Amazon. Lots of guys are getting it they're seeing a lot of results.
Not only does it talk about the G spot orgasm, but also full details on how to attract her
from beginning to end.
Get over your approach anxiety and get a girlfriend. The next tip is what you want to do is make
sure that she has an orgasm before you have an orgasm and I tell you why.
So of course you want to be able to have mutual orgasms mutual pleasure when you're with a
woman.
And so here's the thing, it might take a little bit longer for her to have an orgasm generally
speaking, it does because again, like I said, women are kind of in their head and especially
if you're new with a girl it takes a lot longer.
Well here's what happens.
If you have an orgasm before her, what happens to the guy is they become very sexually uninterested,
right, it's like they had of their orgasm, they're kind of done you kind of just lay
there and just kind of hang out and roll over and maybe cuddle a little bit if you want
to.
But some guys are just like, I'm done, I had it, it's kind of the sexual energy has been
unleashed and out of me.
So it kind of is hard for you to want to be there and have more of a sexual experience.
So it's better to try to make her have an orgasm first.
And then you and of course you can make her have one first what ends up happening is she
can have more and more and more because she's already had one. Women are, it's easier for
women to have multiple orgasms versus a guy. The next thing and this is coming from a lot
of women who I've talked to. Whether it's the first time you're going to have sex with
a girl or the hundredth time, make sure that when you guys are starting to have sex,
that you don't just boom, shove it in. A lot of guys will think like, oh, I can just
like put it in there and she just wants it so bad because I want it so bad.
But female anatomy is different.
It's very jolting when you just shove it in.
So make sure that you go very slow, it's going to feel better for her, it's going to make
for a more central experience.
And then of course, after that, you can go faster, slower, whatever you want to do.
But in the insert, make sure it's nice and slow.
Also, it makes you look less desperate.
So if you're just trying to like shove it in and get it done, it's like, wow, this guy's
so eager.
It's like, why can't he just take this time?
It's sexier when you take your time.
Last tip is this there was an actual study done that showed that when a woman has her
socks on, it's much easier for her to reach orgasm.
Okay, why is that the case?
That's because when people have their socks on, they're ultimately more warm.
Okay.
So if they're more warm, they're more comfortable.
And when they're more comfortable, especially for a woman,, she has to be comfortable,
she has to feel safe.
She has to feel out of her head more in her body, then it's easier for her to reach orgasm.
What I want you to do is the next time you're going to have sex with a woman especially
if it's hard for her to orgasm,
make sure that she's wearing socks, or at the very least make sure wherever you are,
you're in a temperature controlled place
so she's not freezing cold or even too hot.
You got to have the nice right conditions.
So how do you make this work for you?
Well, here's what I propose.
What I want you to do is just focus on one of these at a time and really try to nail
it down because if you're trying to do everything at once
it's not going to work.
So whoever you're with right now, maybe it's a girlfriend or a girl, you guys are just
having sex casually, whatever the situation, use one, use it well, work on it
and then after you put it into your into your routine and it's more habitual
then use the next tip.
That's how you're going to get actual results from this.
Now I know a lot of guys who watch the channel leave comments and they say, well, why is
it always about the girl?
Why is it always about her?
You know, it seems like a lot of these tips are about pleasing her.
Well, here's the thing.
It's up to you to learn how to please her.
It's up to her to please you. If she's not pleasing you then this is not a good sexual
partner for you.
You don't have to be with her.
You can always move on and be with someone else.
Or you can communicate to her what you like.
So that's another big important thing here is she might not know what you like, communicate
that to her.
Tell her.
Hopefully she's reciprocating after you're doing all these great things in the bedroom.
You're pleasing her.
Hopefully again, with the law of reciprocity
she's reciprocating and wanting to do those things with you and wanting to have sex more
with you.
So it should go in a circle.
That's the whole thing is you don't have to stay with anyone, be with anyone, to have sex
with anyone who is not up to your standards.
Remember that something to think about.
Don't forget to pick up a copy of my book Magnetic which is on Amazon right now that
can help you and again, Chapter 7 is the one you're going to want to go to.
Check that out.
I'll leave a link in the description below.
Leave a comment for me.
Let's talk about these tips in there, and I'll see you on the next video.