Hey there this is Clay with relationshipinnergame.com.
And in this video we're going to be talking about five signs that a guy is into you, but
would never admit to... a juicy topic here.
OK so the first sign that the guy is into you but would never admit to is that he waits
about three days before calling you.
OK.
So this is really common for a lot of guys is that they don't want to seem too eager
to let you know that they're really into you.
So they'll wait two or three days before they call you.
They ask you out before they follow up after that date or something like that you know
whatever your last interaction was the wait two or three days before that.
And so this is something that is sort of like hard grained into a lot of guys psychology.
OK.
I'm not talking about pickup artists I'm not talking about anything else.
This is just like your average guy.
Right.
They'll just wait approximately two or three days.
And a lot of guys don't even realize that they're doing this they're just kind of doing
it right.
And that's definitely a sign that a guy likes you.
You know if he didn't like you he wouldn't be doing this whole three day thing.
He would just either call you right now which again could also be a sign that he likes you
or he would just you know wait a painfully long period of time.
But usually if a guy likes a woman and wants to go out with her and wants to see her in
a romantic context if you look for the 2 to 3 day thing that's that's a pretty good sign
right there.
Now the second sign that a guy really likes you is if when the two of you get together
and meet up for a date for coffee for whatever, he's dressed better than when you met him.
Ok so I don't know where you met him.
At the club.
He was just out doing some errands.
Maybe at some sort of class or group or something like that.
But if he meets up with you and he's dressed better than whatever he was wearing when he
met you, that means that he's probably trying to impress you, trying to win you over, trying
to show how suave and sophisticated he is.
That's sexy devil.
But keep an eye out for that.
I know you women like to keep an eye out for how a guy dresses anyway.
So keep an eye out for that.
And, if he is kind of upping his fashion game a little bit, then that's probably a sign
that that he cares a lot about you and is very interested in impressing you.
You know not all of us guys are very fashion conscious but if you do notice an improvement
maybe not super fashion model style attire or anything but if you just know an improvement,
a step up from maybe where it was before, then you know he's trying to impress you OK.
The third sign that a guy is really into you is that he either, one way or the other, he
either rush really quickly to set sort of sexual romantic tone.
And guys do this because they're afraid of being put in the "friend zone" so they want
to make sure that you see them as a romantic prospect they might do this to flirting or
or something like that.
But they'll typically try to rush to set a romantic or sexual tone...
Or they might really awkwardly avoid that sort of thing.
OK because there are some guys out there that just don't feel comfortable expressing their
sexuality.
They don't want to come across as one of those sleazy club guys or something like that.
So they want to, rightly or wrongly, they might be trying to do the whole "nice guy"
thing, trying to really win you over and take it slow or something like that.
And so they might awkwardly avoid this whole sexual / romantic sort of thing.
I'm not talking about just like not touching it or something like that but they're like
kind of like really...
Their body language says they're into you, how they're behaving says they are into you,
but when it comes to actually vocalizing or actually making physical contact and some
sort of classy sort of way.
They're not doing it, right?
And it's kind of awkward because everything else is pointing there.
That's that's a sign that he likes you too.
OK.
The fourth sign that a guy is really into you is that he spends his prime time with
you OK.
And by "prime time" I mean Friday night or Saturday night kind of time, OK?
These are often reserved for dates or for people that are really important to you.
If he's a typical guy who has a Monday through Friday kind of job, or if he has some sort
of flexible schedule, or it changes or something like that, irregular schedule it would be
whatever his Friday and Saturday night might be, right?
And these are like prime spots in his schedule because they are downtime.
He can stay out as late as he wants to, relax, sleep in the next day, all of that stuff.
He doesn't have to get up and go to work.
So these are prime times for him when it comes to spending time with women or friends or
whatever.
And so if a guy is allocating the amount of time, this block of time for you, that's really
a sign that he likes you a lot, OK?
Now obviously I'm not talking about the 2:00 a.m. booty call kind of thing.
I'm talking about the you know "Hey you want to get together at 7:00 p.m. on Saturday night"
kind of thing, right?
"I'll meet you at this restaurant.
Wear a red dress.
I promise I'll try to be nice."
You know something like that.
That's what I'm talking about, OK?
I'm not talking about the kind of last minute, "Oh hey, I didn't have anything else to do.
You want to come over around midnight.
We can get some Netflix and chill."
I'm talking about real prime time kind of stuff here.
Actually going out to a dinner place or something like that.
That's what I'm talking about.
And the fifth and final sign that a guy likes you but probably would not fess up to is that
he talks about non-serious women in his life.
OK.
So.
This might be a little bit counterintuitive for women out there because I know that there's
kind of this double standard when it comes to this sort of thing.
But sometimes men will talk about the the women that are in their life, that maybe are
attracted to them, or maybe that they've dated in the past, or maybe that there's been some
sort of romantic thing in some sort of non-serious way between them or something.
They might do this just to sort of frame it so that you're seeing them through a romantic
lens, like "Hey, this is a guy that that other women like.
This is a guy that other women have expressed interest in.
This is a guy who is desirable.
This is a guy who has dated a bikini model before."
And so kind of thing is what's going to drive a lot of guys to basically impress you to
try and say, "Hey, other women dig me."
And that's something that some guys will do.
Now they won't be doing this, like, "Yeah, man, I've been dating this girl and she wants
me to be her girlfriend and I really like her."
So that's that's all friend zone stuff right there.
But if he's telling you "Hey, there's this girl at my at my office, she's a secretary
and she has this crazy crush on me, but I don't really like her that much."
That could be something where he's just basically trying to impress you by saying that other
women like him OK?
Understand the difference there?
All right, so I hope this has made it clear to you whether or not the guy that you fancy
might actually fancy you as well.
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