Very excited! Today I get to once again meet with a Youtube subscriber and
something that I rarely get to do which I like doing more is get to
talk to one of you guys in person. I did this in Vietnam with a awesome guy named
dot you guys wrote in the comments a lot of times you rock dot cuz I told you
that he will be watching this and he by the way told me how amazing it was to
see all those you guys made a difference in this guy's life and on today's video
going over how to have a confident voice I know that a lot of guys struggle with
this you know they're really shy really nervous so when they talk to a girl they
they get kind of choked up let me tell you the first tip and technique in terms
of speaking with a confident voice number one breathing the reason why we
end up being very timid with our voice and very scared is because when we're
scared we're in this kind of flight-or-fight response mode and one of
the physiological reactions we get to that is breathing heavy kind of the same
thing when you jump into a cold pool the ocean or whatever you end up kind of
taking a big deep breath as soon as you hit in and then all of a sudden you're
breathing really heavy the second step is to focus on where you're speaking
from so again we're gonna go back a little bit to the idea of breathing and
air and talk about the fact that you need to be speaking from the bottom of
your diaphragm oh boy look what I found again
just can't get away from it and get away from that Starbucks hey Eric meet
YouTube hi nice to meet you I'm 29 and I have this problem like I haven't met
many girls yet and I feel you know I need to meet more girls before I can
move with my life my last relationship was 5 maybe 6 years long she wanted to
move on like to settle to maybe have a kids to live together but yeah I hate
this feeling I I can't do it I can't do it yet you said to me that you have the
hooks program right many of the programs you have any my program I know it's
online formula okay so you have all those
programs yet you told me that you are still shy and having trouble yeah yeah I
hope I have those programs about I haven't watched them oh are you gonna
watch them all yeah cuz let me guess it feels good to buy it you're like oh I
got it exactly so I know that the problems gonna be solved eventually like
I have the solution to problem put them for whatever reason it's like an
emotional purchase and we're glad we got it but we're just not gonna get to yet
good by the way if you don't have hooked I'll put a link in the description down
below but so back to today's topic which you don't know about yeah but there's a
topic of today's video and I'm gonna help you with it okay so the topic of
today's video is how to have a confident voice oh yeah like literally I don't
have a confident just what I need that's what you need well I'm glad I picked
that topic so we're gonna do some coaching today and I'm gonna train you
on how to have that confident voice my English is one of the problem because
I mean you know it's not my mother tongue I'm not so skilled in English and
this is the reason why I'm traveling to improve my English so it's one of the
reasons I'm speaking to quiet okay so speak to me and and and the guys here
and you da in your most confident voice and your and your native tone and tongue
surgeons at Eastern fam volley mistletoe Mia Macaulay kini lost the way Jose
okay so I don't know what you just said but I'm gonna give you some tough love
right now take it you can take it all right here we go
you sounded the insanity is that I heard no difference obviously a difference in
the language but in the tone of your voice it sounded this the exact same so
you kind of sound a little bit like this you're talking like this where you're
not really fully projecting it out where I can still kind of hear you but it's
not sounding like I'm something right now so what we need to do is we need to
get you talking from your diaphragm you see the difference in me talking from my
chest for me talking from my diaphragm is this
cool that's cool we're gonna teach you we came to a new spot because all that
construction is distracting us so now let's pretend like a big dog coming to
attack me and want me me okay and I had no idea was coming and you had
to tell me trip lookout doesn't even have to be vol
don't focus necessarily on being loud but putting power behind it so I can
hear you trip lookout okay well we're getting
somewhere I feel I want you imagine is a lot of
noise happening around us and so I'm gonna need to hear you and if you don't
speak from your diaphragm and speak in a way that's gonna allow me to hear your
voice in a confident tone then you and me are not gonna go to converse hmm okay
yeah I'm from Czech Republic where are you from I'm from Chicago
oh is it nice in Chicago yes okay maybe with a little bit more confident
speaking in Czech but as you put on your boobies people better that was the best
one I've heard so far but have you put on your blue people again but have you
put on your blue people again but I've given a blue people I know if you can
notice well hopefully the editor does a good job pin this all together but I'm
seeing a little bit difference do you feel a difference honestly don't you can
be honest do you feel the difference in the way you're speaking I can feel the
difference but I'm not sure if I can do it like you know all the time you know
you're already sounding different I don't know if you're hearing him you
already sound a little bit different than we were at the coffee shop dance
because you're speaking with a little bit more authority I was walking on
confident I think it's working oh it's amazing yeah I think I guess okay I
can't feel something do you feel something yeah honestly don't you say
come on VIN no because you're at me be on oh I'm really yeah you know something
yeah good I can feel more confident if you're a little more company and
definitely okay this is an exercise you can do before you go out so it kind of
is a warm-up with your voice and also feeling some of that energy and some of
that power behind what you have to say
hello YouTube my name is Eric
hello YouTube my name is Eric did you feel that difference yeah
did you feel that yeah that was it I'm gonna practice this exercise quite often
all right if you come this far in the video and you support Eric and his
ability to build his confidence Boise and his ability to go out and approach
women then we need to see 300 comments that say Eric Eri Kay you got this and
by the way I want this to be obnoxious in the comments I want people don't go
in the comments about what is going on so when you say Eric you got this put
like 10 to 15 to 20 exclamation points I want to see 300 of these and so does
Eric right yeah so support him please support me Eric you got this Thank You
Man was great awesome and I'll talk to the next video yeah peace