- So something just does not feel right.
In this video I'm going to share with you
five signs that he is using you.
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So, without further ado, let's start.
Number one, he asks you for money.
Please avoid this type of guy at all costs.
If a guy you just met or have been seeing him
for a month or two asks you to lend him money,
he is a big.
No real man will ask a woman for money
or ask a woman to pay his bills
or his part of the vacation.
This type of a guy is a user.
He will use you up until you figure him out.
In the meantime he may charm you and flatter you
to keep you around to continue to ask you for money
and make false promises to pay you back.
I actually have a very good video of manipulative games
and use to get money from women
and I will link that video right here.
Number two, last minute requests.
When a guy is not into you for the long term
and only wants you at his convenience, he is using you.
Do not fall for the compliments.
If he calls you at 10 or 11:00 PM at night to hang out,
he is using you.
He just wants the booty.
Some guys will avoid your calls
and text to hang out, because he might be entertaining
another girl or with other things that are his priorities.
The minute he is bored
and he knows that you are always willing to be with him,
at any cost because you like him so much,
he will take that opportunity to use you
and only ask you out at the very last minute.
He will never plan any dates with you ahead of time
or take you out on a proper date,
because guess what, if he calls you up
and you do show up, why should he take you out?
Why not take things easy when they are on a plate instead?
Number three, believe his actions over words.
If a guy told you a month ago
that he promised a weekend getaway
and that he will drive to come and see you
and he has not followed through with it,
believe his actions and not his words.
Obviously, words are cheap.
Some guys will fulfill your fantasies through words
because it's easy and women fall for it,
and it keeps the woman hanging around longer.
If this is the common situation for you,
and he has made promises with zero action,
it is time to face the truth that he was lying.
Real man stays true to his word.
Number four, he is selfish.
A guy who only talks about himself
and only considers his needs, he never asks about your day,
doesn't remember your birthday,
maybe you have mentioned to him about your sick mother
and he forgot or doesn't care about asking how is she doing,
he is using you for his own needs.
If you're sleeping with him, he may even be selfish
in the intimacy area where he's only concerned
about you pleasing him.
He also only seems to call or text
when he needs something from you.
Number five, the other woman.
If you're not the only girl in his schedule,
he is using you as well as all the other women also.
Wants multiple women in his life,
and doesn't commit to anyone.
Please know that he will not choose you over the others
if he's aimed to purely use you.
He is using you like a toy and then he gets bored,
he has the other women to fall onto.
He will be uninterested in you
as soon as you do not give him sex after few dates.
As his mission was to sleep with you and use you anyways.
Ladies, how not to be used, the best advice is
to take things slow, do not rush anywhere.
Pick a person, observe them, watch what they say,
watch what they do and take your sweet time
before rushing anywhere more serious.
So, ladies, these are my five tips
on how to know that a man is using you.
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