No matter if you're in a relationship, or you just met a girl for the first time, kissing
is freaking important.
I'm going to tell you a quick story, something that happened to me a long time ago that taught
me this lesson.
This was probably around seven years ago, one of my first serious relationships.
I remember when I was with my girlfriend at that time, there'd be kissing and passing,
kiss on the cheek, forehead, lips or whatever kiss that randomly happens throughout the
day.
I remember I wanted to be very sweet, gentle, and romantic.
A lot of times I'd give her a kiss and it'd be very soft like on the cheek, forehead or
mouth.
I remember towards the end of the relationship, she would say to me, "Tripp, I hate it when
you kiss me like that."
My mind was blown, I said, “What do you mean you hate it when I kiss you like that?"
Why would you hate that?
It's soft, it's gentle.
She goes, no, sometimes, I want you to take me and give me a hard, passionate kiss.
I was like, whoa! interesting.
I completely thought the opposite.
Now knowing what I know about being more masculine and dominant, and that being attracted to
a female, that's an exact example of that, being able to take a girl and constantly kiss
her and follow through with the kiss instead of doing a very soft kiss.
I’m not saying you never do that, there is a time and place for that.
This is tip number one, when you are with a girl, don't just give her soft kiss where
she barely feels your lips.
I want her to feel it.
I want you to know that she has to feel it.
Don't be soft with it.
Don't jab your face into hers, but make sure that she can feel when you're kissing her.
This is whether you're in a relationship or if you are just meeting a girl.
Here's tip number two, I want to give you some spots that men look over that turned
the girl on when you're kissing.
If you're in a big makeup session, or before you guys are going to have sex, what are some
not obvious good places to kiss a girl?
One is around the ear area.
I've talked about this in other videos before.
Maybe this is a repeat, but it's good for you to know.
I don't think I've ever met a girl who has not been turned on by kisses around the ear
area.
I know this is going to be a little counter intuitive or the opposite of what I said from
the last tip, but this might be a place where you do a soft or medium kiss.
This is one of those sensitive spots where you go soft, it's going to turn her on more
because it's like you're teasing her.
These areas you can go a little bit softer.
This is going to be the ear and neck.
Another one is going to be the forehead.
It is a great kiss to do during or before sex, when you guys are first dating, in passing,
and the forehead kiss, I want her to feel that one.
That's not going to be as much of a sensitive area, it’s more of a comforting area where
she can feel it when you're kissing her.
Here's my third tip for you.
There is a time and place for you to go slow, fast and medium pace.
When you're kissing a girl, there's all these different speed options.
A lot of guys want to know like, do you go fast or slow?
You see in movies that go slow, but sometimes it's passionate.
What are you supposed to do?
What are you supposed to know?
Let me give you an idea of how this works.
70 to 80% of the time, I want you to go slow.
You're never going to fault if you end up doing something slow.
No, I don't mean soft.
Remember my first tip where I said you don't want to go too soft.
It's not about being soft, again we’re talking about the pacing.
I want her to feel your lips on her when you guys are kissing.
I want you 75 to 80% of the time, go slow.
This is passionate and sexy.
When you're going slow, it turns her on more because it's a little bit more of a tease.
When do you go fast?
What's that other 15 to 25%?
That's when you guys are right about to have sex or sometimes during sex.
When things are starting to escalate and get more hot and heavy between you and her, that's
when you can go fast.
Here's the thing, I would only do that for a little bit like save those passionate times
for once in a while to make that special.
Then like I said the rest of the time, go nice and slow.
If you combine that concept with some of the places that I told you, you kiss her lips,
then move to the ear, forehead, then also make sure that you can feel it, you're going
to be one of the best kissers that she's ever had.
Along with this idea, I've said this before in other videos, but it's worth mentioning
again, to use the tongue sparingly.
If I give you a ratio here, I'd say that 50% of the time you're using your tongue.
That means the other 50% of the time when you're kissing her lips, you're only using
your lips and doing more of an open mouth kiss.
This makes it more special when you guys are getting hotter, more heavy, and it's when
it's more intense.
I’m not saying that 50% of all the times you kiss her you use your tongue, but in that
moment, in that one kiss that you guys do, whenever that is, 50% of the time you're using
your tongue.
It makes it more special that way.
You guys are tonguing each other, and it's really intense.
If it’s going to be the same, it's not going to be as special so you go back and forth.
This is the dance of kissing.
I go deeper into this in my program called Hooked.
There's a section where I talk about how to turn her on when you guys are in the bedroom
with each other so it makes her want to come back for more so you can be a master with
her when you guys are getting it on.
This is a little section inside of Hooked and you can get Hooked and the whole program
because there's more than just that little section.
It's all about how to attract and meet women.
You can get that at GetHerHooked.com, there's always a link down in the description below
for you to go.
Check that out and learn more about how to turn on women in the bedroom and outside the
bedroom so that they become hooked on you.
Go to www.getherhooked.com and I'll see you on the next video.