Oh, by the way, to the midnight hour.
Yo, Yo, yo!
Can you hear me?
Nothing yeah, I got a little bit of covid, but I'm so over it.
That's good.
What's up?
Oh, really?
is she blacked out?
Oh, good.
Having an awesome time?
It's gorgeous.
I love it.
Beautiful great Ubah!
How many guys did you already turn down?
They don't know.
I'm going to turn them down.
I want to wait until the 13 midnight.
You're like.
You still have a chance till 11:59 PM.
Go Wow.
She's giving me Iman right now, actually.
She nailed it.
That's a wrap.
Woo!
what's up?
Would you like one?
No, I don't want anything without a top in our room.
Do you want this one?
OK come here, babe.
Hey, girl.
Oh, I was just burping.
So glad I caught you mid burp.
What are you doing?
I just got home from the Craft Studio.
I got to tell you about this lunch
that I went on with Jessel.
It was so awkward.
I'm going to sit down for this.
I think it's going to be a long one.
Stop Hi.
How are you?
You look so glam.
I got some flowers for you.
You're so sweet.
Oh, Brandon's here.
Oh, hi, Darling.
I was hoping to see you.
It's so good to see you. So good to see you.
What are you whipping up?
Thank you.
Oh, just a little snack for you guys.
Oh, my god, you're so good.
What are you doing this weekend?
I'm working, and then I go to Scotland on Sunday.
Yeah, I was invited by a brand, and they
are flying me out and doing, like, a spa weekend
in an insane countryside.
I can't wait.
Are you excited to go to Scotland?
I'm so excited.
It just looks like gorgeous.
Do you understand their accent?
Not a word.
I have this really good friend, like who
lives there, who actually lives, like, right down the street.
And every time I'm like, what's this?
It's like Ubah.
You need subtitles.
I can't believe I'm going to miss couples night.
I know you guys are going.
It would be really great to do something like all the husbands
and just like a couples event.
So bring a date or what?
Or even just a friend.
And we're going to go to swingers,
like a restaurant that has mini golf speaking of couples night,
we did the deed.
Wait, seriously?
Yeah, I know.
Oh, my God.
I can't justify why it took so long.
I just think that there was something
emotional in both of us that just, like, couldn't.
I'm so proud of.
Thank you.
Oh, they had sex Yeah she's like, Yeah.
It took me 25 minutes to warm up down there.
Wow I'm like, are you [bleep] oven?
Does everybody need to preheat you like he
went down on her or something?
It's the kids there.
I don't want to see this Yeah let's wait for the kids
to get out of here.
No, there's no slime in the house.
Go downstairs and please give daddy the slime.
So happens when you have three kids.
I know this helps.
The psychology behind all of this.
It's just it's not Black and white.
Everyone's so afraid to be honest
because people are judgmental, like, what's wrong with you?
Something, you know?
And it's like, well, that's what Sai.
I mean, I had lunch with Sai, and the reason
why I wanted to have lunch with her was to I
felt like there was tension in Anguilla between the two of us.
I mean, sure you saw and I just wanted to address it.
I was running late and I felt so bad, like, how late were you?
15 minutes late at 11.
She's here at 11:35 or 11?
40, 40 minutes late.
That's really rude.
Doesn't even call me.
So then she brings up my freaking mother.
Oh, god, I'm nervous.
She's like, you know, you brought
up the situation with your mom.
I, you know, I related because my uncle is an alcoholic.
That is so insensitive to compare that to your mother.
I just think she's trying to find
something that's relatable.
Yes come off because she skirts around,
like tries to compare these, like little, like excerpts
of things that don't really connect with any of us
because they're not really the same.
It is close.
It's crazy town.
My uncle that I was living with, he was an alcoholic
and I thought if anyone would understand,
it would be her just because she had the same
or lived the same reality that I did.
I mean, I think that she understood
where I was coming from.
But she also said she doesn't care.
Sounds like it's more meaningful to you to be understood,
and I think that's what you were looking for.
And doesn't sound like you got it Yeah often times people
want from people who won't give.
That happens a lot.
The person that won't give you what you want
is sometimes the person you go after the most.
I can see it in you.
When you feel out of sorts, you start to backpedal
and it's like you don't have to defend.
Like, it's really OK.
I really, truly appreciate that.
I have to constantly prove myself.
I think, like, you don't.
I don't.
I know that her intentions were good.
I know she was just trying to connect and relate.
But your mom is your mom, and it's
really different than anyone else on the planet
as far as I'm concerned.
I said everything I needed to say,
and I'm not going to beat a dead horse.
You don't have to be best friends with everybody.
I will obviously put my best foot forward always,
but if that doesn't resonate, then I'm not going
to sit there and cry over it.