Today, I want to give you two conversation openers that you could literally use anytime. Now,
I was thinking about giving you maybe three or four, I was even going up to five or six. But then
I realized, I don't want you to have that many conversation openers. I only want you to have a
couple because if you have too many, and you see a girl and you're going to want to talk to her,
you're just gonna be thinking in your head, well, which one should I use? Should I use this one,
or this one? And the more and more that you get in your head when you're trying to approach women and
talk to women, the more anxiety you're going to get, and the less willing you're going to be to go
over there and start the conversation. Let's start with the first one. The first one is my favorite
one. And I've been using this for a couple of years now and teaching it for a couple years now
as well. And it's, "Hey, two seconds, I wanted to come over and meet you" or a rendition of that is
"Hey, two seconds, I wanted to come over and say hi." In just a second, I'm going to show you a
quick demo. I'm going to show you some actual live infield footage of me using it just so you can see
what it looks like. But the reason why I want you to memorize this kind of specific line is because
when you see a woman and you want to talk to her, I don't want you thinking at all of what to say. I
want you to memorize this line, and then go over and say it. We call this a canned opener. It's
something that you can use anytime. And that's the beauty of this one. Hey, two seconds, I
wanted to come over and meet you. Pretty much any situation that you would want to talk to a girl,
you can use that exact line. I've even thought of times of like, is there any time that you
just couldn't use that line? And I really couldn't think of any. That's why it's so beautiful. Let's
see it in action. Two seconds. I just wanted to say hi. Where are you from? Hi, two seconds,
I wanted to come meet you. How are you doing? Good. Excuse me. Two seconds, I wanted to say hi.
Is that it? No, I have more to say. Where are you from? Excuse me. Two seconds,
I just had say hi. Hi. Now here's what's really cool about this line. When you say
something like this, as simple as it is, they are not going to even remember it.
I guarantee it 99% of the women who are thinking back to you coming up to them,
they're not even going to remember what you said. They're just going to remember a guy came over and
said hi. And that's it. And so my point in saying that is that when you use something like this,
it doesn't matter what you say. It doesn't matter what the opener is. That's why you can
use something so simple. What matters the most is what happens after that. What you say after that,
how you keep the conversation engaged. I like to use a follow up question that's even more simple,
where you from? Are you from here? And then you can start talking about that. And then you can go
into conversation based on that and let it flow. And one cool thing about what you can do after
your opener is really just talk about whatever you want. Don't overthink it so much. Talk about what
you're doing that day. Ask them what they're doing that day. Talk about what's going on around you.
Mention anything that comes to the top of your head. This is a game of practice. So while this
might be very difficult in the very beginning, the more and more you practice this, the easier it's
going to be. Here's the second one that I want you to use. And this is one that can be used at
any sort of social gathering. It can be used at a social gathering like a party that you're invited
to, or some sort of event where people are there for a specific reason. Not so much a random bar,
but again, just some sort of event that's going on. It could be a concert, it could be at your
friend's party, whatever. You go up to them, and you say, "Hey, what's going on? I haven't met you
yet. Or any sort of rendition of that "I haven't met you yet." This is super confident and it gets
the conversation flowing. And she understands why you're over there. She gets it because if you say
this in a flirty tone she understands alright, this guy is approaching me. Now here's the thing,
at a social event, or any sort of event, you can still go back and you can use that first one that
I said, hey, two seconds, I wanted to come meet you. Hey, two seconds, I wanted to come over and
say hi. But if you really wanted to push it to that more flirty level, hey, what's going on,
I haven't met you yet. I'm Tripp. And then from there you can say where are you from? Or who do
you know here or how are you liking the party so far? And we listen to them speak more so that we
can gather data or intel so that can give us more ammo, so to speak, to continue the conversation.
Now a little story about some of the recordings that you just saw. The day that I went out and
I did that I used that same line - "Hey, two seconds, I wanted to come meet you" probably
around 30 times. I approached about 30 different women and the reason why I did this is because I
wanted to get myself recording approaches for my program called Hooked which you can check out and
www.getherhooked.com. And so that day that I did those approaches I got in those 30 conversations I
got about I want to say 13 or 14 numbers somewhere around there. And then I texted all of them. And I
got about five or six of them to actually agree to then meet up and go on a date. And this was,
by the way, after not having approached in quite a while. I was a little bit rusty at first, but then
I just got back into it. And that one day, I'm just practicing it over and over and over again
made me realize how easy it is to just get into a flow state because in that very beginning part,
you're going to be a little bit nervous, you're going to have those nerves because maybe you
haven't done it in a while or you haven't done it in a week or whatever it is, or you're using
a new line for the first time. And then after you do about five or six times, all of a sudden,
it just becomes part of you. So if you're scared to use the line, if you're afraid of rejection,
if you want to make sure you get this right, then go out today and practice this and just
do it 10 times in a row. The more you practice, the more you're gonna get it. And now if you want
to see those actual full approaches, because I didn't just record me going up and saying hello,
I recorded the full approaches. You can see those again at my Hooked program Get Her Hooked.com. I
also have a program that has more approaches called Infield Breakdown. I'll put links for
those in the description down below. And you can check those out. Try out those two openers,
see how they go for you. And then I want you to report back and let us know how it went.