- Hey Mom what's the feminism - Fu, fu, fu, honey we don't say this word in our house it's a horrible term
invented by men and ... to make women work pay taxes and sometimes even split
bills - Bună seara din Chișinău! Greetings from Chișinău and that is an absolutely hilarious take by a comedian
Tori love me but there's a lot of truth even if it is put in a very humoristic way
and in today's video we're gonna be exploring why Eastern European women hate Western feminism they
hate radical feminist it is not a big thing here as you're going to find out so let's get into it
Поехали!
I've had clients before have told me horror stories about trying
to be I guess what could be described as chivalrous in the West like I had a client
from Denmark previously and he told me a story about how once he sent a girl flowers in Denmark and she
returned them to him said those tricks won't work with me well I can guarantee you that
has never happened in the history of Eastern Europe that a woman has sent flowers back they
love flowers here it's actually really strong part of the culture also had another client
who's from Canada who told me that and I think it's a story a lot of guys actually have told me
over the years from different Western countries where they're going somewhere and they
see someone behind them and they keep the door open for them which is courteous and proper
manners and then they have some feminazi-looking woman bang through the door as if hey why are
you holding the door open for me I can do everything myself when they probably would have
presumably also held the door open for a man again those things like being a gentleman are
more valued here by women for sure you're going to see that if you ever go out on
a date there's a little bit more of the old school ceremony about it taking
the lady's coat see I even use the word 'lady' I slipped into it a little bit but yeah you take
your dates cold hang it up on a hanger you're more ... you may even hold the seat out for her
um and you were definitely paying the bill because you are the man with the plan in Eastern Europe
and there's no such thing as going Dutch as I've said so many in many videos here that is not a
thing in Eastern Europe if you're out on a date you are the guy who plans everything who organizes
and obviously then you get to choose which is part of the reason why you're the one paying the bill
since you're the one making the decision so be the настоящий мужик the real man as is the expression
here and don't worry about those things the horror stories that a lot of guys endure in the West
in terms of radical feminism not a big thing here not popular I'm not likely to become popular in
the near future so behind me there you got some traditional religious iconography and that is a
segue into my big caveat which is don't fall for the marketing scam that is that
Eastern European women are 'traditional' necessarily they are different and they
have a different history and different set of social norms I would say but for example here
in Eastern Europe the divorce rate is super high it's actually higher than the West in general
virginity rate is low, fertility rate is super low and you have the widespread phenomenon as a
result of that of single moms here in Eastern Europe it could call it a 'pandemic' of single moms
I'm not saying that any of these things whether traditional or not are good or bad and just
pointing out that they're not traditional and you need to be careful not to fall for that kind
of positioning that there are some sort of unadulterated perfect unspoilt untainted women
here in Eastern Europe they still are women and hypergamy is what tends to rule in sexual dynamics
so hypergamy if you don't know is the trend of women to marry or mate across and up on social
socio-economic hierarchies so that is something that we see also in the West but here it's
actually even a little bit more pronounced I would say because while women have less of a tendency to
be emancipated and try and achieve higher socioeconomic status themselves on average than
you're going to see in the West so definitely don't believe that you're going to come here
and it's just going to be a panacea because the radical feminists aren't here and the panacea is
just to come to Eastern Europe not at all you need to be cognizant of the different
cultural nuances here in Eastern Europe in general definitely they're not looking for
Western or radical feminism but at the same time don't forget the basics that are you
know hypergamy and the other regional tendencies like a super high divorce rate and especially if
you're going to take a woman from here back to the West you want to be very cognizant of that because
you're taking women from a society where divorce is super high and perhaps the socio-economic
benefit was being with a Western guy to get to the West obviously with Ukrainians that's less of a risk now
because they can actually go on their own to the West they don't need necessary to marry to do that
but definitely beware if you're gonna change the dynamics because when you get to the West
you're going to have a what I like to call a value gap I have another video in that I'll link it up
above and down below where if a guy was say on the dating market his sexual market value was
say back home of five he comes to Eastern Europe maybe he's even willing to take a single mom and
he gets say a seven here brings her back to his maybe rural town in the US and suddenly
he's back down to a five and the woman looks you know like a nine there because us guys we
are more interested in women for their aesthetics, their looks more than women are in men
for biological reasons and as well you got a massive value gap and yeah quite often it
doesn't end well I actually have a client who told me that in would have been late 90s he was
in Canada and he was in a group who had married Eastern European women Canadian men and 80% of
the relationships ended within a couple of years once they got to Canada and the woman actually had
residency rights and that there was women who had met naturally just coming here the Canadian guys
met the women here in Eastern Europe or they have met them via some sort of matchmaker or
dating site it was kind of the same phenomenon hypergamy is well very hypergamy tends to be so
just be aware of that and you'll do fine so as Tori points out there in humoristic terms
Eastern European women in general are not looking to split the bill going Dutch is not a thing here
they are more interested in focusing on their family than their career in general and you're
going to find in the West and definitely they are up for being approached by men there's none
of this radical feminist shaming as about men approaching women in fact they are very much
in favor of that and you must be assertive and lead as a man in Eastern Europe even more than
in the West have an expression настоящий мужик a real man that is very important to adhere to
in order to be successful in Eastern Europe with dating if you're not настоящий мужик here it will probably end
very poorly for you and yeah do we have anything else to say on this point no I just let the
other ladies speak from Eastern Europe and you can hear straight from the horse's mouth what do
you think of feminism in the in the West? - In the West? - Or feminism here is there feminism in Ukraine?
- I feel like I feel fine about it I feel like of course is it like you should be much nicer
to women's and like to give like for example rights to be like you know some like leader or
directors of somewhere or like to have the same salaries but sometimes it's getting like too much
- More radical feminism, of course you should be nicer you should like be more understandable but not critical
- Not man hating I think that's what yeah what you're trying to express women's
Women are amazing; men are amazing
all the human being is amazing
So if you are looking for a high octane weekend an unforgettable weekend in Eastern Europe
without the scourge of radical feminism to ruin your trip then what are you doing next
weekend because it could be you like it was with my clients who've been recently with me
here in Chișinău in Moldova you could we could be spending an absolutely phenomenal weekend living
the tsar experience in a city in Eastern Europe have been recently also to Kazakhstan to Almaty
I'm making this video in late December I'm filming this clip at least in late December 2022 the year
of the Russo-Ukrainian War became more expanded and I'm not recommending that guys go currently
to Ukraine, Russia or Belarus but there are lots of other options in Eastern Europe also going to
go to Latvia to Riga the capital with a client in a couple of weeks and then probably back to
Kazakhstan so down below there is a link to apply to them for the tsar experience it is
by application only it's not for everybody and I also have a playlist link it up above in the
card down below also in the description for you so that you should check out first got a
few videos there in the cities that I've gone to previously what is our experience so like cities
in Ukraine and Belarus and Russia that we're not going to go to right now but maybe we're
also watching this in the future and is it again possible to go back to some of those cities and
in the meantime I'll be adding to that playlist constantly the new cities that I go
to and document like here in Chișinău I already got a vlog for that also Almaty in Kazakhstan
and be adding to that pretty soon so go check out all of that stuff before you apply for the
tsar experience so you have a better idea whether it is a good idea for you to apply and if it works
out it could be you enjoying an unforgettable weekend here with me on the tsar experience in
Eastern Europe so with that said la revedere goodbye from the capital of Moldova Chișinău! До свидания!