welcome to Landria Onkka on YouTube here to help you break through your fears and live
that awesome beautiful life and it's so time to do that isn't it this looks like huge baby it's the
camera does that alright I should probably move it's distracting who can't get up here if I do
that alright so I've got I'm gonna talk about some different things I want to talk about your dreams
I want to talk about what you really want in your life I want to talk about why you're not going
after it alright let's talk you can decide why you're not going after it let's examine that why
aren't you living the life that you want well I'll tell you there's probably a few reasons because we
get discouraged by others because the traditional way of doing things may not fit into our idea of
dream life and it's difficult to break out of the tradition because somehow we get into jobs and
situations and that dream goes out the window as we go down you know the path of our lives
and get deeper and deeper into it it's tougher it appears to be tougher to get out of that well the
biggest issue too is people want things and then they're just not willing to do what it takes to
get those things that situation that life you've got to remember you can find a 100 dollar bill on
the street if you want to manifest that but how do you get the million dollars it's probably not
going to be winning the lottery right you're going to have to understand in your mind you
have to get this straight before you go after that goal that there will be trade-offs along the way
and that that journey is valuable so if you want the bigger things you have to remember that there
are actions that need to be taken there's going to be effort there's going to be some challenges
along the way to get those wonderful beautiful things that can completely change your life so
the question is are you willing to do those things to get there so many people want that dream and
then they just quit it's easy to not make the effort that's what pretty much the human race
does they just don't make the effort they don't know how to get out or if they do they're not
willing to take that step I see this a lot I see it a lot in my internet marketing when I worked
as an investment banker with companies that was never an issue in fact these guys these CEOs of
business owners I'd have to tell them quit stop it's not working let's change switch gears I was
a different mentality and that's what I was used to for 25 years now I am in a completely
different world with people who quit people who think it's too tough the what the biggest one is
I hear people say well I sign up for these free videos and then they eventually want money I'm
like oh yeah I have that problem too I went to the grocery store and get in line and they wanted me
to pay for it there's this mentality about money that somebody wants something from you when you're
starting a business going after something you love investing in an education yourself whether it's
internet marketing or anything else that mentality of somebody wants something from me rather than
what am i receiving what what am i what value am I going to receive for what I'm investing in whether
it's money or time or anything else you do you know what what am i where's the value where's the
value exchange here even with donating your time and charities there is a value exchange it feels
really good to help other people maybe that's all you get for that well you can't help other people
build a house unless you step out that tour and get to that site and put the work in we want to
do so many good things and we stop ourselves and the first one that we stopped ourselves the first
thing that we do to stop is to talk ourselves out of doing things for us that happens all the time
why because we allow the pressures of the world to come down on us we listen to it we believe
it and even when we get excited about things it's usually short-lived because when the reality sinks
in that no matter what you go after no matter what goal you set no matter what you want your
life you will have to make a change of some kind you have to it's called expansion and yes you can
quit along the way and go right back to the place where you don't really want to be and you can live
the rest of your life there so the question is what are you going to do you have one life now
people get into these situations where they're going for the new job or the new relationship or
that you know they try a business or all kinds of different things that we want to go after to
try and change our lives and then there's some difficulties and they say oh this isn't right I
shouldn't be doing this that's my message from the universe no that's your growth that's your
learning opportunity but we as humans always see this as again as negative which is sort of a joke
if you think about it where did I think was maybe Hollywood did this made us think that there was
some world where everything was perfect but of course in every story there's struggle along the
way and they don't tell you what happens after that happy ending there will be more struggles
and more growth and more achievement and more glory and joy that comes with that challenge
and breaking through it but when you sit back and watch your life go by and you're not totally fully
satisfied you're in the fog you're in the fog of saying this is easier to stay here than it is to
put myself out there and take a chance because God forbid I fail because we tag learning and growth
as failure if that experiment doesn't work the first time you know darn Waldo scientists keep
going hundreds and thousands of times till they find the answer or they get some result but in
the real world we don't operate that way we look at it as you know I have to do this and it has
to be right and then what what happens when it's not right it's a failure I'll go back to what I
was doing and you miss that awesome opportunity of growth and that's why this percentage of the
population is extremely successful and everybody else quits so if you've seen my internet training
you know I'm always promoting it we have an entire community of people trainers mentors that support
each other constantly and the world is going to that the world is going to full disclosure if
you notice that stuff's coming out you can't get away with the bad stuff anymore I worked on Wall
Street I know it's not tolerated anymore yes there's always going to be stuff going on but
the good news is that we're supporting each other in our dreams there are more and more people out
there that are going after what they truly want in life and not listening to the powers that be
that tell you you should stay at this nine-to-five job you shouldn't learn something new you should
have 2.5 kids or whatever this situation whatever your culture is there's always some kind of rules
that stifle who we are or who we want to be and it's time to step past that but the thing
is is that you'll never experience the joys and the growth and the triumphs until you step into
that uncomfortable zone and that's how I've lived my life very uncomfortable in many time you know
many situations get to the triumphant point where I've received those wonderful things or
situations or that dream that I was going after it's more uncomfortable uncomfortable for me to
stay in the mediocre situation where I'm not progressing than it is for me to go after the
dream it's exhilarating to me but not everybody has that kind of personality and I know that and
that's why it's so important for you to surround yourself with supportive people if you have a
spouse or somebody that doesn't want you to go after that's their insecurity because they want
to stay in that safe place because it's good for them don't you change jobs you know what what if
steady paycheck stops coming in I like where you are we may be struggling but it's safe because
that person came from them mentality I know my parents drilled that into me it didn't stay it
went drills in and went back aside because I've done everything but it's played it safe especially
about money and it can be very stressful because the world tells you you should have a bank account
with X amount of money but guess what banks are going down the economy tanks people have lost
money there's no security in anything ultimately except for what you create and that will take a
decision and a commitment and for you to step out of your comfort zone and never stop you know I
have a video called never quit don't you quit if you want to go after something you go do it find
the people to support you if you aren't like me if you aren't like that woo going out there I've you
know I'm the person that pulls the other people along says we can do this I know that that's a
unique personality trait of mine so people like me support other people we're the ones that say
you can do it you know why cuz I have and I know it can be done and show you how to do it surround
yourself with those people you know what the one common thing about mentor uh about successful
people is they have mentors billionaires have Mentors yeah I know because I know some of them
and all of them have somebody else that they go to for advice or other billionaires where they
get advice because everyone that's really really smart about this knows that they're probably going
to need some assistance and you can accelerate your growth in your goals if you surround yourself
with successful people who've done it before who can show you the way so you don't have to
struggle like they did and that's the key that is the key to going after your goals you don't
have to be afraid if you have that day where you're questioning yourself about what you're
doing they'll be somebody there to say you need to do this you need to do it you will never know
what the end result will be unless you go after it and guess what what if it's not exactly what
you planned and it's greater that has happened for me I'm doing things I never expected and
I'm being pushed through manifesting to go into some very uncomfortable zones right now because I
have these dreams in my head and doggone if stuff isn't showing up to make it happen I'm going oh
I'm gonna actually have to do this Wow and guess what it involves work but I I'm doing what I love
so even on the days when I'm exhausted I'm still it's feeling good because I'm doing what I love
and sometimes the stuff that I don't love doing I know is getting me the things that I really
want the way I want to live and I live the life that I dreamed of traveling freedom working for
myself automated businesses because I had internet training I learned I went into a space that was so
uncomfortable so unknown to me but I knew that it was something that was going to bring me the
things that I needed in my life and I stuck to it until I made it work and I surrounded myself with
the other people who are doing it that tell ya block out the negative thinking if this is what
you want go for it we're gonna be there to help you you can find that you can find that place
now if it's whether it's my internet trainings I know some of you are doing that or anything
else in your life whether it's another job or you want to start a business or there's always going
to be a support group out there because we are so connected now it's so easy to get online and find
those people that will surround you that'll help you and don't ever doubt that for a moment you're
connected to everything everything is connected and you are that power that you have available
to you to attract whatever you want but you have to really want it and go for it don't question
it and yes yes you'll have doubts along the way that's that's part of being human but I'm here
to tell you that if you're willing to go after the six and seven figures instead of the $10 or $100
bill that you want to find on the curb that's not really going to change your life you have to be
willing to do what it takes and you have to take the action and you have to see the value in things
and you have to be willing to give in and bust in yourself no matter what that is invest in changing
how you're working how you're living how you're thinking changing how you operate every day to
become that person that you envision yourself as and it starts there and when you envision that you
start to operate like that successful person like that wealthy person like that happy person maybe
it's just happiness you're going after you're not feeling happy why aren't you feeling happy
something's got to change and that's not a bad thing change is going to happen no matter what
whether we welcome it or not it's there so why not choose that change and choose those challenges and
see them as valuable learning growing lessons you can do it there's nothing that I have or
anybody else has that you don't have and if you're not going after your dreams then maybe the only
thing that's missing is your commitment to it and your desire to put in and take the action that's
required to have that dream and that journey is a wonderful one it will challenge you it will
take you to new heights at the end of the day you're gonna say wow I'm a different person now
I'm more knowledgeable I have experience I have an expertise I'm somebody different and new and
I can just go up from there and get closer to my dreams and you'll realize you're living it along
the way it's not something you have to get to you start to become that that successful person
who's expanding who's finding joy because you're going after things that you're passionate about
even if it's learning something that creates the foundation for you to go pursue that passion like
I did I can sit and write all day if I want to I can do other things because I have an online
business I created the foundation for that life that I wanted we have a lot of options in this
world right now don't miss them and surround yourself with powerful positive people when it
comes to going after your dreams and you don't have to share those dreams with those that you
know are going to criticize you it's okay they're stuck in their traditional thinking that's what
they were told and that's what they believe and hopefully they'll come out of that someday to go
after the things that they truly want in life so are you willing to commit to your dream no
matter what you're going to find it to be the most exhilarating incredible journey and at the
end of your life when you take your last breath you're gonna say wow oh wow like Steve Jobs did I
don't know what he saw but it sounded pretty good and that man no matter what you think about him
he went after what he wanted he lived a life I'm undeterred of what the outside world thought and
you could do the same thing so what are you gonna do you get to decide this life is yours to create
you get to choose whatever you want never doubt for a minute that you can achieve those things I
never stop until you do that alone is worth making those commitments knowing that you're going after
it and it feels really great and you're going to help a lot of other people along the way I'm
sending you light love health wealth prosperity of all kinds and of course joy and peace namaste