Tripp Kramer here from
www.trippadvice.com. Welcome to another video.
Today we're talking about how to meet
and seduce those kind of hard to get
women. The ones who are a little bit more
stuck-up, who have a little bit more of
this kind of like shield on them and
it's kind of hard to penetrate. Meaning
when you first go up and talk
to the girl, she's a little bit cold.
Maybe you're getting this vibe that she
thinks she's better than you.
That kind of girl. First of all.
I want to say this; sometimes guys make
mistakes and they go and they talk to a
girl and she is a little bit cold and
she appears very stuck-up but in reality
this girl is actually very shy.
There is a difference here. Either way if
she is shy or if she is kind of stuck up
or she's kind of maybe snobby or acting
like she's better than you, there is one
technique that works very well.
In fact, this is a technique that should be used
no matter what. It's not even so much of
a technique as it is something that you
should be doing when you are talking to
a girl. Before I get into it, let me tell you a
little story. Years ago I was out and
I was coaching a client of mine and it was
in Canada. And I remember I saw a couple
girls and I went to approach them.
But before I did I was talking to my client
and he said wow those girls look
kind of mean.
They had some tattoos, they weren't
smiling, they felt very stuck-up, very
cold. And I said all right well let's
just go see what happens. I went over
there and I approached them and actually
we were right. They were snobby,
they had a bit of an attitude.
It was hard to break through.
So what did I do? And this is what I want
you to do. I don't want you to give up.
Meaning you want to stay in there.
Here's what happens with these kinds of
girls and even by the way the shy ones.
Whether they're shy on one end
of the spectrum, the other end they're
stuck up. You want to stay in
there longer. This is known in
the pickup community as plowing. Meaning
that you're not gonna give up. You're not
gonna leave too soon because with these
girls, whether they're shy, whether
they're stuck-up, they're
probably used to a lot of guys hitting
on them and doing it poorly. And then
having very bad experiences. So what it
takes with these types of girls is you
staying in there and them getting to
know you a little bit better and getting
to know your personality. Now of course
they might reject you. If they do
fine you know you move on. But sometimes
it just takes more time for them to feel
comfortable around you. For them to say
hey this guy's not so bad. Most guys will
leave early because what happens. You go
up to a girl, she's not very open with
you, she's not giving you much, she's not
responding a lot so you just
think you're rejected and then you leave.
But something you have to understand is
you are not rejected until the girl
says goodbye or see you later or I have
a boyfriend or whatever it is that's
obviously motioning you to leave.
Until that happens, you want to stay in there.
Stay in there and continue talking to
them. So what ended up happening in this
story was that's exactly what I did.
I just stayed there for a while, kept on
making conversation,
kept on trying. Now I know it
sounds like oh well it sounds really
desperate. You're just sitting in there.
Well the conversation wasn't just me
trying to pry things out of them. I was
trying to include them in the
conversation and get them talking.
And after a while it took maybe like 10
minutes which is kind of a long time.
10 minutes in there, finally they
started to open up more.
It's about staying in there and
eventually you're gonna say hopefully
something that's gonna make them be like
okay this guy's not so bad he's actually
kind of cool. So then it worked out. We ended
up getting their number and voila.
Of course that doesn't happen every single
time but that is one of the best things
you could do. So whether they're shy or
they're stuck up or whatever.
They're not giving you the type of
reaction you're looking for,
it is in your best benefit to be
able to practice this stuff and stay in
there as long as you can. Continue
talking to them until until either they
reject you
or you're just honestly bored. But I want
you to be very honest with yourself.
Don't just leave or leave just because
you said you were bored. Really
give it your best shot here and stay in
there until that point. Let's take this
topic a little bit further. I'm gonna put
a link down in the description to my
podcast. The podcast is called "How to
talk to girls" and the episode is called
"The secret to seducing 9's and 10's."
I want you to go in there, click on
the link, listen to that episode so you
can get a little bit more information on
what to do when you are going up to
these very attractive women who tend to
get hit on by a lot of guys and maybe
you're a little bit more potentially
stuck up. Go there and listen
to that and then write in a comment down
below. Let me know what you think.
I'll see you in the next video.
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