One comment I have received a lot lately goes something like this, “Wake up! Stop wasting
your time with relationships. The end is near, God doesn’t want you to get married now!”
Is this true? If we are living in the end times, is it pointless to even try to date
and then marry someone? Here are 4 points to consider.
1. The New Testament Instructions on Getting Married and The New Testament Teachings About
Marriage Were Written After Jesus Warned Us that the Time Is Short
Among Christians, the views vary widely about when Christ is going to return and how the
order of events will happen. My goal in this article is not to add to that conversation.
Rather, my aim here is to answer, “If we are in the end times, should people still
try to get married?” In short, my answer is yes, I do believe people should keep getting
married until the day Jesus returns. One reason I believe this is because of the
order in which God has given us certain truths about the end times and about marriage. Throughout
the New Testament Christians are given instructions about how to get married, who to marry, and
how to honor the Lord in marriage. But all of these instructions were inspired by the
Holy Spirit after Jesus already told all of us to live as though the end could happen
at any moment. For example, in Matthew 24:36-39, 44, Jesus said:
“But concerning that day and hour no one knows, not even the angels of heaven, nor
the Son, but the Father only. For as were the days of Noah, so will be the coming of
the Son of Man. For as in those days before the flood they were eating and drinking, marrying
and giving in marriage, until the day when Noah entered the ark, and they were unaware
until the flood came and swept them all away, so will be the coming of the Son of Man. . . . Therefore
you also must be ready, for the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect.”
Jesus clearly said none of us will know exactly when he is returning. So he tells us the solution
is to always live as though he could come back at any moment. It’s unbiblical to say
that because you feel the end is near you should start living differently. Jesus said
you should always live like the end is near because you won’t know when it happens.
Therefore, to say that people should not marry now because the end is near goes against what
the Holy Spirit inspired the authors of the New Testament to write. Even though Jesus
told us to live like the end is near, the Holy Spirit still had the New Testament authors
give Christians instructions about relationships and marriage.
So even if we are living in the end times right now, it’s clear that all the biblical
instructions about getting married and how to be a godly wife or husband still apply.
2. Marriage Is a Witness to the World About God’s Love, and We Are Called to Be a Witness
Until Jesus Returns In Matthew 24:6-8, 14, Jesus said:
“And you will hear of wars and rumors of wars. See that you are not alarmed, for this must
take place, but the end is not yet. For nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against
kingdom, and there will be famines and earthquakes in various places. All these are but the
beginning of the birth pains. . . . And this gospel of the kingdom will be proclaimed
throughout the whole world as a testimony to all nations, and then the end will come.”
When talking about marriage, in Ephesians 5:32 Paul said, “This mystery is profound,
and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church.” Through a biblical marriage
where a husband lays down his life for his wife and a wife willingly follows her husband,
the world gets a picture of how Christ loves the church and how the church is to follow
him. Marriage is supposed to be a Christian witness to the lost world.
1 Peter 4:7-8 says, “The end of all things is at hand; therefore be self-controlled
and sober-minded for the sake of your prayers. Above all, keep loving one another earnestly,
since love covers a multitude of sins.” Marriage isn’t the only way to show love,
but it is a very important way to show love that was created by God. Even though the end
is near, we are called to keep showing love. And if you want to help support me and this
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happening here every time I post a new video. 3. Marriage Helps You Live a Holy Life, Which
Is What We All Should Be Striving For Until the Day of Christ’s Return
In Matthew 24:42-46, Jesus said: “Therefore, stay awake, for you do not
know on what day your Lord is coming. But know this, that if the master of the house
had known in what part of the night the thief was coming, he would have stayed awake and
would not have let his house be broken into. Therefore you also must be ready, for the Son of Man
is coming at an hour you do not expect. Who then is the faithful and wise servant, whom
his master has set over his household, to give them their food at the proper time? Blessed
is that servant whom his master will find so doing when he comes.”
Jesus didn’t say to stop doing what God has said to do because the end is near. Jesus
said make sure you are extremely careful to do exactly what God has said because the end
is near. God wants us all to live a holy life, and for some, God has called them to marriage
so they can be better equipped to live a holy life. As 1 Corinthians 7:2 states, “But
because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each
woman her own husband.” Sexual temptation doesn’t stop just because
the end is near. Again, because the end is near, Jesus told us to make sure we are the
types of servants still doing what Jesus told us to do before he left this earth so when
he returns he finds us living in obedience to his words.
4. Marriage Isn’t Ultimately About Us. Ultimately It’s About God’s Glory
I believe many people think they should stop trying to get married during the end times
because they wrongly think marriage is primarily about human happiness. Certainly relationships
and marriage can be turned into something worldly and sinful. But from the beginning,
God created the husband and wife relationship in marriage to bring himself glory. Genesis
1:27-28 states: “So God created man in his own image, in
the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. And God blessed them.
And God said to them, ‘Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it
. . . .’” This command by God does not change if we
are in the last days. For in Matthew 24:46-51, Jesus said:
“Blessed is that servant whom his master will find so doing when he comes. Truly,
I say to you, he will set him over all his possessions. But if that wicked servant says
to himself, ‘My master is delayed,’ and begins to beat his fellow servants and eats
and drinks with drunkards, the master of that servant will come on a day when he does
not expect him and at an hour he does not know and will cut him in pieces and put him
with the hypocrites. In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.”
When Christ returns, he wants to find us glorifying him and obeying his word. And marriage is
a part of what God tells some Christians to do in his word and marriage is ultimately
about glorifying God, which is what Jesus wants to find us doing when he returns.
For these reasons, people should still pursue marriage even if we are living in the end
times. Don’t forget to give this a video a thumbs
up if you found it helpful. I’m mark from ApplyGodsWord.com. Until next time, God bless.