sometimes my optimism of people really comes back to bite me in the what is up
everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul when we talk about the problem but
focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel my channel is all about
mental health so I try to pull things from the YouTube community and try to
teach you how to improve your mental and emotional well-being
so the end of that kind of stuff make sure you subscribe and wing that
notification bell so I just got a DM and it was like yo did you see the new nerd
city video I'm like yo I didn't even know he had a new video I turned it on
and I lost my mind because I was in the finale of the series
Shane asked Jake to respond to the criticisms in our last video there's a
video right now that a lot Jake said that concerns about advertising to
children are ridiculous that his kids to be happy and he does not take advantage
of children you people which makes sense but if you are all are watching this
thank you so much I love what you're all doing but anyways let's talk a little
bit about the lives of Jay Paul the new nerd city video there's a few things
that I want to touch on with this so one of the things is is like you know some
of you might be like oh crap this is some more drama no this is something
that you Tony we got to be better judges of character so why like in one of my
previous videos I can't it's for one that they use a clip from
but I mentioned like hey maybe maybe he actually thinks he's giving value and
all these other fingers right but no like I I appreciate you know people like
nerd city and news organizations that are out there put out all the
information like I'm not into like drama culture and expose culture and your
canceled culture culture but like as consumers or even as people we really
need to like know who were hanging out with who are putting our faith in is
this a good person is this somebody I want in my life right so we need to look
at these things and I I'm not gonna kick it with Jay Paul anytime soon but like
when people like nerd City make a video like this it helps me see who they
really are for example you know it helps you like know like what companies do you
want to back and things like do you want to put money in their pocket I'm not
gonna lie I'm not gonna lie like Christina I had talked and it's it's
really changed the way I do things like there's certain TV shows that I don't
watch anymore because of what one of the main characters did in their real life
we're talking about like you know physical assault and abuse and all sorts
of things I'm just like whoa I don't want to support this this is just me
like you don't got to do that but like for me I appreciate knowing about these
people you know because we're part of the problem but we're definitely part of
the problem with Jay Paul like all of us like my mom and I talked about it like
we reinforce that and especially especially as parents when we're
allowing our kids to watch this who this guy who is not a good example like we're
the problem like we create people like Jake Paul we create people like Logan
Paul like I'm all about you know like you know obviously those laws it gets
like advertising to kids and all that by the way inner-city they did a great a
great little plug for Squarespace amazing amazing transition block
beautiful executed perfectly number three if you want to make an ad make it
clear it's add so that the dumb kids watching can
tell the difference you need an example you want an example of what that looks
like we're gonna give you a 1 we're gonna tell you about Squarespace now we
also need to take responsibility as a parent my kid is going to like steal my
bank card and go buy a bunch of Jake Palmer's
we need to know what they're watching how they're being advertised to and all
that but let's start talking about line okay like a lot of you don't know me a
lot of you have met a very good version of Chris you've met a version of Chris
that you might want to hang out with that you might want to subscribe to that
you might even want to ring the notification bell on right but you
should not be a great person I used to lie my face off right and again like I
made a video about hashtag sorry Shane I think Shane knew all this stuff right
like Shane I don't think he was to invest in this I think he knew Nikki
knew Jake and all of them were just full of crap right but anyways like I said we
have to look at this and say like are we lying are we gonna get caught in lies
because man I used to lie about everything everything I was a type of
guy where you would say hey how long until you're gonna be here I'm like oh
I'm only five minutes away I'm around the corner but I hadn't even left my
house yet I would lie about the dumbest things and if any of you struggle with
anxiety let me tell you let me tell you okay you're lying is causing a lot of
your anxiety right whenever I would like is somebody I had to learn how to cover
it up and did I say something that contradicted it especially now that I'm
growing as a youtuber like the last thing I want is for nerd city to expose
me about some stuff you know what I'm saying
so like I learned that I caused a lot of my issues with my lives all right it
causes my anxiety it causes people not to trust me it causes people not to like
me either so now I tell the truth I tell the truth so much it would blow your
mind and if you new to my channel just now watching this I don't have your
trust yet but eventually I will oh I remember when me and Tristan first
started dating screwed me over so now I tell the truth as often as possible
right and she's like yeah sure you know what baby girl we've been together for
like two years call me out call me out on some lies cuz
you can't do it but like it gives me this freedom right like if you're
somebody who lies about this stuff like like just start working on it so working
on it a little little increments like I had this freedom like Tristan can pick
up my cell phone any time go through it ask me about things all of that like if
I even feel myself about to lie like I sit down I'm like woah why am I going to
lie about this why am I going to tell these laws but like it's really
important that we start looking at this stuff because we often think the whole
world so I literally just made a video about how you have to like walk the walk
you can't just talk the talk and by the way let's talk about manipulation real
quick let's start with a big lie I don't think a kid would actually believe that
and be like wow not cool if I don't have this and like hey mom like I need this
to be cool will you buy this for me well Jake if you didn't believe that then why
did you speak at a conference just a few months ago to brag about having that
power over your fans what Jay Paul did to Shane Dawson was textbook
manipulation here's why you act offended I can't believe I cannot believe you
would even ask me if I'm taking advantage of children I cannot believe
that I am out of here right like you might be
someone who does that or you mother been around someone who
used to do that right like I mean usually the people who get the most
offended and this is just a broad statement but you got to be curious a
lot of people who who get that upset about being accused you've got a wonder
you've got a wonder are they really guilty why did you cheat Maya is
freaking out we have to question you have to wonder and say okay why are they
freaking out so much again I don't think that Shane's responsibility but it's
like us as consumers like all of you are sitting here watching my YouTube video
right you're watching my YouTube and I value you know my integrity right I want
you to see my my actions they align with my words I don't just say these things I
do these things wait one thing that kind of bugs me is
how these influencers hate the word influencer right except for Jake Paul he
said it like a thousand times but they do influence people they influence
people a lot actually on a podcast over on it's called Breaking Bad
I'll actually link it down in the description it was like two hours but
like something that we were talking about is like I think a lot of people
back certain creators because it justifies their poor behavior right so
for example somebody backs what Jay Paul's doing it justifies their own bad
behaviors in their lives but like to think that Jake is any any any semblance
of like altruism is absolutely bonkers okay
the last thing I'll talk about what this video is the devil the devil that's my
boy other people do this because I can't just hop on here and talk smack but if
if children are your target audience you need to do certain things right like one
is say that isn't had but the other one is
everybody was trying to Erica is this Savior like Erica is extremely extremely
complicit and everything that's happening right like with Jake filming
her and like they're being like you know partial nudity like he knows that kids
are watching his hell he's bringing children into his channel you know what
I mean so to think again to think that Erica is some kind of saint is bonkers
like we all really need to be better judges of character we need to sit back
and look at this and say okay Mike wait am i neglecting certain pieces of this
toy I talked about that in my first nerd city video about Jay Paul like we are
forgetting things I think no city just did an excellent job showing all the
contradictions between what he said to shame and what he's actually doing I
mean and they pointed out that Jay Paul tells us one thing but he tells like big
business magazines another thing right he talks about how it's all about making
the money making the money making the money even in their in his courses where
he's trying to teach people how to become an influencer he's trying to
teach people how to do the same things he does in the shady tactics thing he
does right so anyways videos Jay Paul is still kind
of a d-bag and I'm kind of glad that they pointed out like you can't blame
your parents for all this stuff like you have free will start making better
decisions and it kind of breaks my heart that what everybody feared is probably
happening a that some of us are you know like you know sympathizing with Jay Paul
but B his channel is growing and he's getting more exposure but people like
nerd city are out there to help us make better decisions about who we're gonna
watch and who we're gonna subscribe to you know what I mean anyways let me know
in the comments below are you somebody who who causes your own anxiety because
of your lies if so how are you gonna work on it let me know down in the
comments below alright anyways again thank you so much moon city for hooking
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