Uh excuse me Mr.and Mrs Wedmore well the results are in he's slow, he's quite,he's socially
awkward. I'm sorry Mr. and Mrs Wedmore there's something introvert, this is sound like you?
would you rather stub yourself for the rest and go out to a loud and crowded bar keep
spend your nights staying home alone to recharge and read a book well it might just
be that you've been played with the curse of introvert in yourself
but right now my friends we do have a solution and it's coming soon stay tune the
dictionary defines an introvert as a shy reticence and typically self-centered
person this is a load of crap you and i both know that
there are a ton of people who've labeled themself as an introvert
who are not shy and they're not self-centered and we also know plenty
of people whose label themselves at extroverts who are shy and maybe a little
self-centered and then there always people in the middle
who just can't seem to decide and they like to say i'm both, i'm ambivert because sometimes
that's me and sometimes that's not me yeah that's
me so what are you? are you an introvert? or you an extrovet? well the truth is you're
actually neither because there is no such thing as an
introvert or an extrovert, what what the whole terminology of introvert or
extrovert actually comes from Carl Jung who develop these words in order to
describe the attitudes types of different people not to label a
specific person as introvert, extrovert, or ambivert, the word ambivert is actually the
closest word we can use to describe all of us. Jung
even stated that everyone has both an introverted and an extroverted side it's
just simply one is more dominant in all of us now if you're still with me its probably
cause your introverted i'm gonna take you a little bit deeper
down radical and i promise you're gonna work a ton about yourself and why you take if you
were take the Myers Briggs tape indicator test the Katherine
and Isabel Briggs-Myers originally created in nineteen sixty-two after heavy
influence from Carl Jung himself you would be presented with one of sixteen different
combinations of a four-letter sets that makes up your psychological
type today all were focusing on is that first set of letters the
first of these four letters or temperaments describes how
you experience your world either internally or externally indicates how you
receive your energy and how you lose it now if you
came out as an 'I' for introvert for your first letter
you tend to be very inwardly focused and other people were heavy external
stimulate can't easily drain you in order to recharge you often need time alone to be
with you in your thoughts and since the majority of people have a lead extroverted
function they tend do not understand this time that you need alone this leads to these
type of definitions that labels introverted that shy recloses that
are very self-center so weither the first of your four letters is 'I' for introvert
or 'E' for extrovert the most important thing you have to understand is that never ever
difines who you are okay we didn't even deeper so stay with me now once you get the four
letters that make up your type units presented us with
another dimension called functions each of the sixteen
personality types including yours all have four functions none of which are created equal
imagine for a moment a mini van filled with a family of four out
on a road trip in the driver's seat you have the
patriarchal father the father is your primary function he's the one driving the bus or your
life now riding on shotgun is your mother she is your secondary
function it's not as strong as your first function but it's still important and in the
back seat is the older daughter your third function and of course
little baby brother your fourth or smallest function now what all these functions
mean well we can't go into full detail with them for
you here today but you know this your first function is the primary value or need that
you crave in your life and as you go down to this four functions the fourth one the
smallest one is the smallest because it required the least amount
of fullfilment or need from you each of these functions actually
carry on their own extroverted or introverted qualities
which means all of us you included have two introverted
functions and to extroverted functions oohh..so was that people
describes themselves as ambiverts? bingo.. let's take a look now at less introvert four
functions to see who's driving his boss now I'm in INTJ and
that first letter 'I' for introvert forces me to walk around lately myself with introverted
qualities hello..no i can't i'm gonna stay in tonight yeah i i just can't go out hey..what
can i say i'm an introvert you know why i was thinking about it let's go
and rain check on next weekend to so bet take a look at my happy family
and their minivan my for functions myers briggs will tell us that my first
function the one driving the bus is called intuition well actually it's called introverted
intuition in short my primary driving force in life the thing that juices me out and gets
me so excited about life is an introverted function but there are three other family
members on this road trip and they need some love to let's take a
look at my second function it's a bit smaller but it's still very very
significant and this one's called extroverted thinking in simplest terms this actually means
like enjoy thinking out loud and brainstorming
with others so even though i'm an introvert i still enjoy extroverted
activities in fact most people that meet me in public don't even believe
that i'm introverted why well because i'm usually talkative
outgoing and the opposite of shy but i wasn't always this way for long enough i had horbo
social anxeity i never spoke up in class and i hardly spoke to anyone so what happen for
a nutshell i simply developed or strengthened all of my functions first my
introverted intuition my primary function the thing that drives my bus i let
that flourish and the confidence that came with that allowed me to develop my secondary
function extroverted thinking so the next time you wanna become
place with the label and make excuses based on what society tells us think again you don't
have to be limited by the dictionary term of introverts or extroverts
and it's quite easy to develop your functions once you know what they are so obviously
i find all of this myers-briggs and other personality type test quite fascinated and
if you're still watching i'm sure you do as well i've learned
all this information from a good friend of mine Dave Powers and you can
check out all of his videos over his channel right here but if you watched this
entire video asking yourself a question of what the heck
is any of this? have to do with video marketing well the answer is nothing or everything you
decide..