- Do these four steps and he will regret losing you.
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those four steps to take so he will regret of losing you,
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So perhaps he has broken up with you
or you have broken up with him
or things just didn't work out,
yet you have some crippling thoughts in your mind thinking,
"Hmm, I really wish he would regret losing me.
What could I do about that?"
And ladies, this video is not necessarily
for you to get a guy back, however,
it would be the healthiest way to get him back
interested in you again.
But you can also use these steps
just to walk away from that relationship
that didn't work out with full dignity, full self-respect,
full self-value and your head held high.
If you would like to feel this way
and also him regret in losing you,
check out my step number one.
And it is do not seek revenge.
I know if a guy has broken up with you,
depending on your relationship,
whether it has been toxic or not, do not seek revenge.
A lot of people, when we are hurt
we want to hurt a person back.
So we try to badmouth them by gossiping about them.
We try to maybe flirt with their friends.
Some girls and guys even try to sleep with their friends
to hurt them, or we have one night stands
and publicize those one night stands just to make sure
that their ex would find out about them
so he or she would feel hurt.
Ladies, do not do that.
Not only that it's a toxic behavior,
but by behaving this way you will also reduce your own value
and worth in his eyes.
And if he is a high-value man, you will just confirm for him
that he has made the right decision in breaking up with you.
Because all of these behaviors that I just mentioned,
it shows that you are hurt,
it shows that you're very immature,
it shows that you're very insecure,
and that you by to really low-value as a person.
Therefore, at the end of the day,
he will feel relieved by breaking up with you.
Now, keep it in mind, I'm talking here about high-value man
that know the difference of what is the healthy woman
and what is a toxic woman.
I'm not talking here about immature guys
or guys that are stuck in Peter Pan Land
who usually behave toxic themselves after the breakup.
However, even if you feel like you dated a guy
even a bit on a toxic side, by not seeking revenge
you will show him that you're taking the high road,
and his respect for you will only increase.
Number two step is do not stalking him.
Ladies, if you guys broken up, stop watching your stories.
Stop watching your stories on Instagram.
Stop watching his stories on Facebook.
Stop watching his TikTok,
liking his post or commenting on them.
Do not show up in the places
where you know that he usually goes.
Do not drive past his house stalking him.
Is he alone after 11:00 PM or not?
Do not start knocking on his door apologizing, et cetera.
Ladies, this is all as they call low-value behavior.
And it just shows that you are not ready to let a person go.
Ladies, when somebody breaks up with you,
the quicker you show that you ready to let that person go,
the quicker you come across as a challenge
and the quicker a guy wants you back.
As this way you are showing,
look, if you don't want to be with me,
if you feel like I'm not worthy of you,
I'm going to respect and value myself.
Therefore I have better things to do with my time
than wast it on stalking you.
Ladies, once you will disappear from a guy's life
like this for a week, two weeks, or a month or few months,
there is no way on earth that he's not gonna be thinking
about you or wondering what are you up to.
Majority of the time you will stand out from his other exes
that have been badmouthing him, have been showing up
in the places where he hangs out asking him back.
Remember, my queens, men love a challenge,
meaning a woman that respects and values herself
has standards, has dignity, and does not settle for less.
However, it's really important to show this
not with your words, because bringing yourself up like that
with your words can make you even look
a bit arrogant and egotistic.
Instead, show it with your actions
and let him see it for himself.
Number three step to take is don't show yourself
as a victim.
Don't send him messages, "Oh, I miss you so much," or
"What you have been up to?",
"I feel so sad, I can't believe you have done it to me,
I can't believe you have broken up with me.
Give me another chance, I am so sorry,"
or start to call him nonstop trying to talk about things,
trying to fix things,
telling him how much you want him back,
how much hurt you are, how much you miss him.
Ladies, this is really unattractive to guys
because they see it as an act of high form of a pursuit
so you are actually behaving masculine.
And they also see it as an act of desperation.
Men are not interested in women that behave desperate.
Full stop.
Yes, he might give you charity, he might help you out
if you are his friend, if you are acting desperate,
or if you are crying over another guy and not him, right?
But if you are crying over him,
he's simply not going to find it attractive.
And if anything, you will lose value in his eyes.
He will even lose more interest in you.
And instead of thinking of how to get you back,
he'll just feel sorry for you.
Ladies, these guys don't make girls into their girlfriends
that we feel sorry for.
You know, they make girls into their girlfriends
when they feel she's a bit out of his league
or maybe she's better than him,
she values and respects herself, or she's a challenge,
not the one that acts low value, desperate,
and you feel sorry for her,
not the one that behaves like a victim.
And the number four step to make him regret losing you
is improve yourself.
Shift your focus in improving yourself and your life.
Get some new hobbies, make some new friends.
Try out some new things that has nothing to do with him.
Create some new memories. Meet new people.
Watch inspiring stories.
And the most important, reflect on the breakup.
Reflect on his behavior and reflect on your behavior.
Analyze it to the detail and work on the things
that made you fail in your relationship
so you can change those things, grow and not do it again.
And ladies, these last few sentences
make the biggest difference because if he comes back
and you guys will get back together,
things will not work out
if you did not reflect back on your failures,
if you are not going to change those things
in a new relationship with him or someone else.
It's crucial to take responsibility for your own mistakes
and to change those things within yourself,
if in the future you don't want to fail at things.
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