should you follow your dreams or go get a normal job well in today's video
insider this is what I'm going to be revealing to you and today's video may
seem a little bit confrontational it may seem like I'm attacking you it may seem
like it hurts to hear this message but realize all I'm here to do is not to be
a best friend but simply hold up this mirror to show you how great you really
are as a potential you have because I find most people out there they hear
this message they know what they wanna do they know what their hearts saying
and yet they never take action because they like to believe in themselves so I
want you to realize that you're born ready you're born to win today's video how are
you gonna figure out whether or not you're gonna take action on your dream
or get a normal job it's based upon this I call it an LCA formula this is
something that I've revealed now all across the globe when I'm speaking on
stages as well as this is a formula I followed when I began my journey so I
want you to pay close attention to every single one of these points because you
gotta make sure it's in balance now today's video has been inspired by
fellow inside who submitted this question over to us this is what CJ
Buckley said he said my passion is for football and there was a college course
that I want to do that is far away and my parents are against it they would
want me to stay closer to home and do accounting or business which I'm good at
school but I'd rather do the football course
and become a professional football coach which is my dream
any advice firstly CJ I just wanna say thank you so much for submitting your
question over to us and insider if you'd also like taylor device from me
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box below firstly CJ to answer this question I'm gonna be breaking this down
of course but in regards to your parents I want to realize that your parents have
got great intention behind what they're saying they just want you to be happy at
the end of the day so realize firstly you should thank whatever your beliefs
are the universe the world that you've woken up so early because I've spent
time coaching people who been in their career for 40-plus years hated every
single moment and only now they wanna change and they got so much more to risk
because they've left it so late you on the other hand what have you
literally got to lose you don't know also get to the end of
your career having earned all the money thinking of that was a wrong career I
feel dissatisfied I don't care that you know I've got the money cause money at the
end day is not it's not what gives you that fulfillment some people are so
poor all they got is money right so you gotta make sure that you really take this
into account that you got to be thankful that you waking up so early
now bearing that in mind I'm gonna break this down to you so insider make sure to
pay closer attention as well the first thing that you gotta have to be decide
should you follow your dream or go get a normal job is you gotta ask yourself
which one do I love more and if you've ever been into like a grocery store or
you've ever been to I don't know the shopping mall when somebody hates their
job you immediately that they do why because they lack the energy they lack
the passion and you feel like they are like a zombie just kind of like you know basically at
the cashier just zapping your products and they're like oh can I are you paying
on cash or credit and it's just miserable for me to see that because if
you know my story a decade ago I was working as the toilet cleaner I hated
every single moment and yet I did it cause I didn't know better
did I love it far from did I have a passion no because I didn't love what
truly did and Steve Jobs said this best how if you love what you do you don't
have to work a day in your life just like in regards to your partner you
pick your partner based upon love when it comes your career since most of your
life will be spent working it's important you finds what you love to do
write down a huge list of everything you love and you'll find that after a while
there seems to be a pattern and a commonality between some of the things
that you're loving and from there it's giving it indicator in regards to the thing
you're born to do now the second thing is in regards to cash like it or not we
live in a money world if you didn't have money you simply cannot survive in the
world we live in so let's let's clear out the blockage we have in regards to
money because even if you wanna impact people you're gonna make sure you got
the money to to scale your business to be able to hire the team members and so fort pay
for other things right we live in the world where money is important there's
no denying that so ask yourself whatever career looking to pick can they bring
you money now start starting it might not be a lot of money it might not it
might just be minimum salary you're starting with if you're gonna chase your
dream whatever career is or maybe it's entrepreneurship but realize this
superstars and leaders like Elon Musk he realized earlier on this is what he
did he didn't exercise where he figured out what's the bare minimum I can
survive on and he figured out that it's the only couple hundred dollars and this
is the moment he realized there's literally nothing to lose what have I
got to fear yes a ship in the harbor is safe but that's not what ships are built
for we're born to do great in life we're born to just take action on what feels
right the the calling of our life the mission of our life and yet most people
don't do it because they're stuck in the fear and the little voice in their mind
is justifying why they should remain sitting on the nail don't be one of
those people so ask yourself does it bring you cash in fact write a list
of everything that can potentially bring you cash in regards of what you wanna
do now that's the last point you've gotta make sure all of these are balanced
by the way so love cash and last point is alignment have you ever had that
feeling before from your intuition your gut that you're doing the wrong thing it
feels like a drag because this is a sense that you're not aligned with the
thing you're born to do and you'll know it you can feel it
you can't put words to it but you can feel it it's just like how in a
relationship you know when time has come you know when it's time to say hey let's
break up we know it also in regards to our career and yet most people what
they've really good at is allowing this little voice in their mind to justify
why they should remain sitting on a nail if you aren't familiar of the story
there's there's a story of a dog that was sat on the nail screeching day by
day just screeching in pain and one day this guy came out and noticed the dog is
sat on a nail and he knocked on the neighbor's door
that he knew this dog belonged to and asked why is he just sat there why isn't
he moving and the owner of the dog said oh you see the nail hurts just enough it
rather sit on the nail then move most people in life they're in pain and yet they'd
never do anything about it because the little voice talks yourself out of it so
it's important you ask yourself what is it that I'm aligned with what are my
values in life what do I want life to be don't compare yourself to people and
Instagram don't compare yourself to other people you wanna figure out what
is the ideal of life for you I tell you I spoke on stages all across the globe
now I tend to ask you know how much is it that you want to earn most people
would just say oh yeah million dollars why because they've just seen million
dollars is a cool amount and then when I begin to ask what would actually cost
million dollars what would your average perfect day look like they quickly find
out it's not even a million dollar life that they want so they've been chasing
other people's dream you wanna figure out what is it that you want
what's your calling why you're here if you look at the odds of you being born
with talking four hundred trillion to one you were chosen to be here the
question is why did you want to be here so badly so when you really figure out
why is it that your aligned with you'll notice how it's like a river if you're
not aligned you're in the river you're swimming against the current it's hard
life is a struggle day by day but when you're aligned with a thing you're born
to do doors open effortlessly things just
magically happen opportunities land left right and center and that's when you are
aligned with the thing you're born to do and life will give you signs that indicates
what you should be doing in fact when I was younger I remember I was going to
college I hated college of studying computing programming I remember one of
the guys because I was being open then to my online regards to opportunities
and one of the guys turned around to me and said I had terrible taste of music and I
thought to myself ah watch watch it I'm gonna I'm gonna prove you wrong and so I
went home with with and accepted that this is a sign for me to step up and
basically I began to post my mixtape I didn't know how to mix and stuff I just
figured it out I began to post it online and this channel a decade ago got over a
million hits across the globe and I was just blown away we actually
spun all of these views these people were checking out my mixtapes to an
offline events business and I've never felt so fulfilled and aligned with what
I meant to be doing in that particular moment and notice I say that particular
moment because as Steve Jobs says we cannot connect the dots looking forwards
we can only connect the dots looking backwards I meant to have been
doing that in a moment it felt right just like how a river from a sky point
of view if you look at it from a bird eye point of view a river goes left from
right it doesn't go in a straight line so you gotta align with what you're born
to do and be willing to take the steps towards living the life your born to
live so we spun this off into under-18 clubbing events business and I remember
after we'd basically concluded that nights it's about four hours as amazing
it's like a clubbing events experience for under 18 people I've never seen so
many people saying no feeling so fulfilled and feeling so happy and
basically saying to me thank you afterwards it was just like it felt
amazing I felt like I'm serving and afterwards my friend basically came out
with this big clear see-through bag and it's just full of cash is like that big
and we'd earned in that night what would normally take us working a normal job
about three to four months and that's when I realized I love this I love
running this events I love being an entrepreneur and that's when I began to
follow my heart and take action more because had I not gone through that
experience I wouldn't have got into online businesses and so forth so all
the dots eventually began to connect because I trusted where the rivers
trying to take me that's what you gotta do insider so you wanna make sure
you align these three love cash and alignment you've gotta have the balance
between the three so make a list in front of you everything you feel aligned with
because remember it's not about how much you earn is about how you earn that
money that matters and that comes down to understanding you from a deeper level if
you do want me to go deeper into this by the way be sure to let me know in the
comment box below so love cash alignment make a list and you'll begin to see
patterns where they cross over and that's when you know whether or not you
should stick in your job or you should go follow your dream because if your job
fits into life cash in alignment well stay in your normal job if it doesn't
why the hell you're doing it again the little voice justifies realize what's the
purpose of life at the end of day is it for you to get to the end of your life
thinking oh yeah I'm glad I played it safe is it to get the end of life
thinking oh yeah I'm glad I never took risks you're born to do great I believe
in you insider and I'll continue to believe in you more until the day you
believe in yourself at the level I do you're born to do great you're born to
win so do what winners do I hope you found today's video helpful insider
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box below as always insider follow your heart not your neighbor's heart not
your parents are not your family's heart follow your heart and take action and
go live the life you're truly born to live