My daughter, Becky, doesn't see the issue
of talking to older guys online.
Becky was talking with guys that were 18, 19, 24,
and I was not okay with that.
Her social media name
was something like Daddy's Little Girl XXX.
She acted like a four year old
and was role playing with guys who had fetishes.
Becky is addicted to online game.
She doesn't see the issue
of talking to older guys online
or sending and posting nude photos of herself.
He doesn't respect you. He doesn't have
the kind of respect for you that he should have.
I think that's bull crap.
As of now, Becky has not met
this online boyfriend in person.
And I hope she never does.
It a month, Becky says she's moving cross country
to be with this guy.
You think you know him-- You think you know somebody,
but you really don't know them
until you've spent a lot of time with them.
No matter what you guys say, I'm moving out.
I have my bags packed.
Becky's boyfriend has zero respect
for me and my wife or our rules.
We are at our wit's end.
Well, Cheryl's mom, Loretta,
says it's all her daughter's fault
for allowing her granddaughter to misbehave.
If I was in Cheryl's shoes,
Becky would not be doing on all of this,
and she might not have met her online boyfriend.
Cheryl should've slapped the (bleep) out of Becky
when she found Becky was posting naked photos online.
Loretta's whole thing is that we didn't spank 'em enough
or smack 'em.
For misbehaving. You didn't spank
'em enough at all.
That's not our parenting style.
And you see where it got you.
I believe 99% of Becky's problems are 'cause of my daughter.
You're not her friend, you're her mother.
You are the boss, and she's not.
I don't think I try to be her friend.
I try to talk to her and put her in timeout.
I don't believe in timeout.
But even from a-- What do
you believe in?
A good smack.
My main concern is Becky wants
to move across the country and live
with some guy she doesn't know.
Who knows what her boyfriend's done?
You don't know what he has in store for you.
You wanna be a whore?
No.
Well, that's what you're gonna be.
On the news, you see these kinds of guys
locking girls up for years.
It's disgusting.
Too many perverts out there, too many nuts.
You go back there, he gives you some drugs.
You're gonna go out there and sell your ass for drugs.
Why would I even take drugs
in the first place? Who knows?
He might accidentally give 'em to you and not knowed.
She needs someone else to help her straighten up
other than her mom, dad, or me.
I want Dr. Phil to make Becky see the light
and show her that she doesn't know or need this guy.
Cheryl wants to see the rainbow at the end of all of this,
but there's a tornado coming.
Okay, so, how concerned are you?
Is this just that there's an unknown here,
or do you have reason to be concerned,
specific reason to be concerned?
What do you know about him, if anything?
Specific reasons, I mean he, in talking
back in forth with her, he's controlling.
He's insecure, he doesn't want her
to go out with friends or go on family vacation.
And he gets mad at her for changing her mind.
She decides to go to a school event, and he gets mad.
"Well, you said you weren't going."
But then she went, we made her go, and she had a good time.
And he's mad 'cause she lied to him.
I definitely get a bad vibe from him.
He's extremely controlling and argumentative,
has absolutely no respect for our rules and.
Have you spoken to him?
I have spoken to him.
Yes, and I've spoken with him and texted back and forth.
And I mean, he pretty much says, your rules are ridiculous,
and Becky can go to sleep whenever she wants
to go to sleep and-- We don't need to follow
your rules 'cause they're just stupid.
Okay, have you talked to him?
I talked to him about a year and a half ago.
It's just snowballed, I'm mad as hell.
I think it's their fault for the new technology,
that they let them just play.