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>>> OKAY.
>>> OKAY. ARE YOU A FUBER.
FUBER STANDS FOR PHONE SNUBBING.
IT HAPPENS WHEN YOU'RE IGNORING
THE PERSON YOU'RE WITH BECAUSE
YOU'RE DISTRACTED BY YOUR PHONE.
EXPERTS SAY IT IS RUINING SOME
RELATIONSHIPS.
RELATIONSHIPS. THE QUESTION FOR YOU IS ARE YOU
GUILTY?
GUILTY?
GUILTY? CARA KNEER, COMEDIAN HANK DENSON
GET OFF YOUR PHONE.
MANAGING BROKER CHRISTIAN ROSS.
I HAVEN'T SEEN YOU IN A FEW
WEEKS.
WEEKS.
WEEKS. >>
WEEKS. >> OKAY.
>> OKAY.
>> OKAY. >> NOW IT SOUNDS KIND OF A CUTE
GAME BUT ACTUALLY RESEARCHERS
SAY IT'S NOT A GOOD THING.
IT CAN CAUSE DEEP ROOTED
PROBLEMS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
DR. MEREDITH DAVIS SAYS HERE'S
WHY.
WHY.
WHY. IT
WHY. IT MAKES YOU AND YOUR PARTNER
FEEL BUSY.
FEEL BUSY. RESEARCHERS FOUND THAT FUBING
SOMEONE MAKES THEM START TO FEEL
A BIT INSECURE AND EXCLUDED AND
LEAVES THEM FEELING NEEDY FOR
ATTENTION AND THAT'S NEVER A
GOOD THING.
GOOD THING. SO WHAT DO YOU THINK.
HOW MANY OF US ARE GUILTY OF
THIS?
THIS?
THIS? >>
THIS? >> AREN'T WE ALL?
>> FOR SURE.
>> AND IF YOU'RE NOT, TELL US
WHAT YOU DO.
I REALLY WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU.
I'VE TALKED ABOUT IT BEFORE.
THAT WAS A BIG THING AFTER JIM'S
MOM PASSED AND HE WAS PROCESSING
EMOTIONS ONE OF THE THINGS THAT
ALSO CAME OUT THAT I WAS ALWAYS
ON MY PHONE.
>> WOW.
>> WOW.
>> WOW. >> YEAH, YOU KNOW EVERYBODY'S A
PRIORITY AND WORK PRIORITY AND
CHARITIES ARE PRIORITY.
BUT THAT HE WAS.
>> WHAT ABOUT ME.
>> YEAH, SO I HAVE REALLY TRIED
TO MAKE A CONCERTED EFFORT
DURING THIS I'M TRYING TO RAISE
MONEY I KNOW.
IT'S A BIG DEAL IN OUR MARRIAGE.
>> IT'S HARD.
I MEAN, I THINK ABOUT THE FACT
I'M IN REAL ESTATE.
I WORK.
I WORK.
I WORK. I
I WORK. I ALSO ADVISE 60 OF OUR EVEN
TODAY WE HAVE 60 OPEN HOUSES IN
ONE DAY TODAY.
SO IT'S LIKE I'M ON MY PHONE ALL
THE TIME AND SAY LIKE HEY,
HE'S TRYING TO CATCH ME TO SEE
IF I'M LISTENING AND THEN HE
ASKED ME A QUESTION LATER AND
HE'S LIKE YOU DIDN'T HEAR
ANYTHING I'VE SAID.
>> AND ALSO IN YOUR DEFENSE
SOMETHING THAT DOES MAKE A GREAT
AGENT OR BROKER IS THAT THEY ARE
SO RESPONSIVE.
SO RESPONSIVE. SO YOU KNOW THE PERSON WHO PICKS
UP THE PHONE WHEN IT RINGS YOU
KNOW RETURNS CALLS PROMPTLY SO
THAT'S TOUGH.
THAT'S TOUGH. >> RIGHT.
>> RIGHT.
>> RIGHT. IT DEFINITELY IS.
>> CARA, HOW ARE YOU?
>> I MEAN I'M NOT GREAT AT IT.
LEE WILL CALL ME OUT AND I'LL DO
THE SAME TO HIM AND HE'S ON CALL
SOMETIMES SO I UNDERSTAND HE
ALSO HAS TO HAVE HIS PHONE.
IF I'M TRYING TO HAVE A MOMENT
OR CONNECT WITH HIM I'M SO
THAT'S
THAT'S NOT OKAY. >> I KNOW.
HANK.
HANK.
HANK. >>
HANK. >> ME I JUST LIKE MY PHONE.
I MEAN -- MY PHONE IS MY BUDDY.
NO.
NO.
NO. IT'S
NO. IT'S BECAUSE I DO A LOT OF
SOCIAL MEDIA STUFF SHE'S LIKE
PUT YOUR PHONE DOWN BUT WHAT
I'VE NOTICED HOW THE TREND IS
NOW THAT THEY ACTUALLY IN COMEDY
CLUBS THEY'RE MAKING PEOPLE PUT
THEIR PHONES IN ZIP PACKS SO YOU
CAN'T USE YOUR PHONE DURING A
COMEDY SHOW AND I DID A SHOW IN
NASHVILLE AND THEY WERE SO
ATTENTIVE.
ATTENTIVE. LIKE USUALLY MISS LADY I SEE YOU
WHO ARE YOU TEXTING AND THEY'RE
LIKE PLEASE ENTERTAIN ME I DON'T
KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH MYSELF.
>> I LIKE THAT IDEA.
>> WHAT HAPPENS NOW I TOLD MY
WIFE ABOUT IT I WAS LIKE WHEN WE
NEED EACH OTHER'S ATTENTION WE
JUST NEED TO PUT THESE PHONES
AWAY.
AWAY.
AWAY. YOU
AWAY. YOU SAY WE COME IN THE HOUSE AND
SAY HEY I NEED TO TALK TO YOU
WE'RE GOING TO ADDRESS AND PUT
THE PHONES DOWN.
OUTSIDE OF THAT THAT'S WHAT MADE
US START DOING IT.
WE'LL BE SITTING NEXT TO EACH
OTHER.
OTHER.
OTHER. >>
OTHER. >> YOU GET THE WEEKLY SUMMER
REPORT.
REPORT.
REPORT. I
REPORT. I HAVE BEEN CHANGED BY THAT.
ON SUNDAYS YOU CANNOT NOT SEE IT
AND MINE IS SO MANY HOURS AND
I'M LIKE I FEEL SO ASHAMED.
>> I NOTICED IT WILL TURN THE
TEXT MESSAGING OFF.
IF THAT INCLUDES TEXT MESSAGING.
>> THAT'S YOUR HUSBAND CUTTING
YOUR DATA PLAN.
I'VE DONE THAT.
>> IT WILL BE LIKE TODAY YOU
WERE ON YOUR PHONE 8 HOURS AND
22 MINUTES.
22 MINUTES. DOWN 1% FROM YESTERDAY.
I'M LIKE 1%.
>> I'M USING YOU.
>> IT'S NOT GOOD.
OKAY.
OKAY.
OKAY. LET'S TALK ABOUT WHAT ELSE
FUBING DOES.
FUBING DOES. IT CREATES A CYCLICAL EFFECT.
PEOPLE GOT ON THEIR PHONES.
MORE SPECIFICALLY THEY TURN TO
SOCIAL MEDIA IN A BIG TO FEEL
INCLUDED IN SOMETHING AGAIN.
>> CAN I JUST SAY THIS JUST
HAPPENED TO ME BECAUSE I FORGOT
MY PHONE I WAS AT MY KID'S
BASEBALL GAME AND I THOUGHT
PEOPLE PROEGT THINK I'M WEIRD
BECAUSE I'M LIKE STARING OFF AND
IT'S LIKE AT RESTAURANTS THEN
YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENS I
STARTEDED DOING WHAT WE USED TO
DO EVE'S DROPPING AND IT WAS SO
FUN.
FUN.
FUN. I
FUN. I WAS LISTENING TO EVERYONE'S
CONSERVATIONS.
CONSERVATIONS. >> I PUT MY PHONE DOWN A HOT
MINUTE AGO.
MINUTE AGO. OH, LOOK.
OH, LOOK.
OH, LOOK. >> BUT THAT IS TRUE.
YOU PROBABLY LOOK LIKE THE ODD
BALL IN A SEA OF PEOPLE WHO ARE
LOOKING DOWN AND BY THE WAY THEY
NEED TO BE LOOKING AT THE GAME
WATCHING THEIR CHILD.
>> IT FEELS GOOD, THOUGH.
BECAUSE I KNOW SOMETIMES IF I'M
EATING BY MYSELF I MAKE AN
EFFORT TO PUT MY PHONE IN MY BAG
AND JUST CHECK MY WATCH AND
CHECK FOR ANY CLIENTS OR
ANYTHING I'M MISSING BUT IT
FEELS GOOD AND YOU'RE RIGHT
PEOPLE DO KIND OF LOOK AT YOU
FIRST OF ALL WHEN YOU'RE BY
YOURSELF EATING AND WHEN YOU'RE
JUST NOT ON YOUR PHONE.
>> MY TRAINER SAID WHEN YOU'RE
ON YOUR PHONE YOU EAT LESS.
IT TAKES 21 MINUTES FOR YOU TO
DIGEST YOUR FOOD.
IF YOU'RE FOCUSED ON YOU'RE
CLOOENGING THAT PLATE.
BUT IF YOU'RE ON YOUR PHONE.
>> I THINK WE'RE OPPOSITE.
>> OH.
>> OH.
>> OH. >>
>> OH. >> I WOULD BE INTERESTED TO SEE
WHAT THE RESEARCHERS.
>> TRY IT.
>> THIS SHIRT IS AN EXTRA LARGE.
YOU HEAR ME.
>> IT LOOKS GOOD.
>> YOU'RE FILLING IT OUT GOOD.
NEXT ONE IS FUBING ACTUALLY KIND
OF SOUNDS ODD IT MESSES WITH
YOUR OVERALL HAPPINESS.
DR. DAVIS FOD IT'S A BAD HABIT
WAS A POTENTIAL CONTRIBUTOR TO
DEPRESSION AND MADE CHANCES OF A
FIGHT MUCH MORE LIKELY.
HAVE YOU EVER SPECIFICALLY
GOTTEN INTO A FIGHT?
>> WELL YEAH.
>> NOT EVEN THAT.
THEY PUSH MARITAL.
YOU EVER SEE AN ARTICLE DOES
YOUR HUSBAND NOT DO THIS AND
YOU'LL GO HONEY AND GET OFF THAT
FUN.
FUN.
FUN. THAT'S NOT TRUE.
>> SCIENCE.
>> SCIENCE. >> RIGHT OR YOU'LL SEE SOMETHING
THAT THE KARDASHIANS DID.
WELL THAT'S MY HOUSE.
YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN AND THEN
KIDS IF IF YOU LOOK AT THE
PERCENTAGE OF NUMBERS OF WHAT'S
HAPPENED WITH CHILDREN AND
PHONES BECAUSE THEY'RE SO NEW.
THEY CAN'T EVEN SEPARATE WHAT'S
FAKE, WHAT'S REAL, WHAT TO HOLD
ON.
ON.
ON. WHAT
ON. WHAT TO TAKE IN SO IMAGINE WHAT
A PHONE IS DOING TO KIDS WHO DO
8 HOURS OF CELLPHONE TIME
COMPARED TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP
WHERE YOU'RE AN ADULT AND YOU
HAVE STUFF TO DO.
>> WE NEED TO DO A STORY ON THIS
FOR SUMMER BECAUSE I HAVE IT SET
WITH OUR LITTLE DISNEY APPARATUS
AND I'M FORGETTING THE NAME.
CIRCLE.
CIRCLE.
CIRCLE. I
CIRCLE. I HAVE IT LOCKED SO I KNOW
EXACTLY WHAT THEY'RE DOING IN
THE HOUSE.
THE HOUSE. >> YOU'VE GOT A BIG BROTHER.
>> YEAH, DO I.
I MEAN IT'S A CRISIS NOT JUST IN
RELATIONSHIPS BUT WITH OUR KIDS
AS WELL.
AS WELL.
AS WELL. SO LET'S TALK ABOUT SOLUTIONS.
LET'S FACE IT.
JUST PUT THE PHONE DOWN.
DID I MAKE A FUNNY.
SHOULD I TRY THAT TONIGHT AT THE
COMEDY CLUB.
COMEDY CLUB. YEAH.
YEAH.
YEAH. OKAY.
OKAY.
OKAY. BUT
OKAY. BUT I MEAN AT WHAT POINT.
OKAY FOR YOU.
YOU GO BACK TO YOUR BUSY
SCHEDULE.
SCHEDULE.
SCHEDULE. AT WHAT POINT DO YOU FEEL
COMFORTABLE REALLY PUTTING IT
DOWN LIKE DON'T TELL ME BEDROOM?
>> I LITERALLY HAVE TO PUT THE
TIMER ON AND MAKE SURE IT'S AWAY
FOR AWHILE AND I COME BACK LOW
AND BEHOLD ALWAYS I MISSED
SOMETHING.
SOMETHING. SO I'M JUST TRYING TO AGAIN LIKE
WE ALWAYS TALK ABOUT PRESENCE
AND BEING THERE.
LIKE IS IT THAT IMPORTANT.
I'M NOT DOING SURGERY.
I NEED TO CHILL.
>> THAT'S IDENTIFYING HOW
SERIOUS IT IS WHAT'S GOING ON ON
MY PHONE.
MY PHONE.
MY PHONE. YEAH.
YEAH.
YEAH. >>
YEAH. >> AND CARA WHAT ABOUT YOU YOU
TACKLE A LOT OF TOPICS HERE ON
THE SHOW.
THE SHOW.
THE SHOW. WE'RE DOING RESEARCH.
IT'S TRUE.
IT'S TRUE. >> I'LL STEP RIGHT INTO THAT
TOPIC.
TOPIC.
TOPIC. I'VE FOUND IT'S EASIER FOR ME
NOT TO HAVE MY KIDS AND THEN IT
GETS INTO AN ARGUMENT WITH THEM
SAYING CAN I PLAY WITH YOUR
PHONE AND I'M LIKE I DON'T HAVE
TIME FOR THIS SO I JUST PUT IT
UP WHEN I GET HOME BECAUSE I
DON'T WANT TO HAVE THAT FIGHT
WITH THEM.
WITH THEM. >> OR GET AN APPLE WATCH.
YOU CAN YOUR IS OF ON INSTAGRAM
ON APPLE WATCH.
SO THE BARE NECESSITIES IS WHAT
YOU NEED RIGHT THERE.
YOU CAN PAY FOR STUFF.
YOU REALLY CAN NEVER TAKE YOUR
PHONE OUT.
PHONE OUT. >> I CANNOT IMAGINE THE
NOTIFICATIONS.
NOTIFICATIONS. >> WELL YOU CAN SHUT OFF THE
NOTIFICATIONS.
NOTIFICATIONS. >> OKAY.
>> OKAY.
>> OKAY. >> ANYWAY.
>> ANYWAY. BUT WE JUST WANT TO MAKE SURE
THAT WE NOTIFY YOU OF A COMEDY
SHOW TONIGHT.
SHOW TONIGHT. PUNCH LINE COMEDY CLUB.
THIS GUY'S GOING TO BRING THE
HOUSE DOWN.
HOUSE DOWN. >> THAT'S ME IN THE CORNER.
>> WE CANNOT WAIT.
THANK YOU FOR VOLUNTEERING YOUR
TIME, YOUR ENERGY.
YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH IT
MEANS.
MEANS.
MEANS. >>
MEANS. >> FUNNY IS ENERGY.
ENERGY IS HEALING AND WE NEED TO
HEAL.
HEAL.
HEAL. >>
HEAL. >> HOW ABOUT THAT SWEET LEVI WHO
LOST HIS DAD TO CANCER.
ONE OF THE THINGS I'VE LEARNED
ABOUT BEING ON THE BOARD IS THAT
THERE ARE A LOT OF THESE NEW
TRIAL DRUGS AND PROTOCOLS THAT
ARE BEING USED IN TREATMENTS FOR
OTHER CANCERS.
OTHER CANCERS. SO MAYBE YOUR FAMILY WASN'T JUST
AFFECTED BY LLS THESE DRUGS ARE
ALSO BEING USED A LOT OF THEM
NOW WE'RE FOCUSING ON LLS BUT
ALSO CHILDHOOD CANCER BUT IT'S
JUST A LOT.
>> PLUS DON'T YOU WANT TO COME
SEE AN EMMY-NOMINATED SHOW LIVE.
>> WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO WEAR?
>> I'M GOING TO WEAR THIS SHIRT.
>> I'M GOING TO TAKE THIS SHIRT
OFF HANG IT UP.
AND PUT IT BACK ON AND GO