so how do you make him chase you and do it in a way that sets you up for a long-term healthy
relationship no games no manipulation just straight authenticity keep watching
number one is i want you to keep talking to other guys until the relationship is exclusive hey
there my name is adam lodolce i'm the founder of lovestrategies.com and we have built the leading
love education company in the world for one simple reason i'm a bit of a romantic honestly to a fault
my natural tendency when i was dating a girl and i really liked her i would focus all of my attention
on that one person i'd go on one date with a girl and it was like laser beams completely focused on
her and she was all that i would think about which as i learned decades ago before i became
a love strategist and started love strategies and all the good stuff we do here i learned
that was just a total turn off because i gave her far too much unearned affection so the way
i combated this back then was when i met a woman that i really liked and i went on a date with her
i was even more intentional after the date to fill my social calendar i needed to keep myself
busy so i would give her all of my energy and what this did is it kind of just reminded me that hey
if it doesn't work out with this woman i'm gonna be okay there are plenty of other women out there
so what does this mean for you beautiful women if you start going out with a new guy but it's not
yet exclusive get your beautiful behind off of the couch and go meet some people when
our clients get to what we call little love step number three we have some really core principles
and that basically is that until a relationship is exclusive and we've had that dtr define the
relationship conversation then you know what we are by definition still single and so many of my
clients when they get those laser beam eyes i have to remind them that hey it's at that very moment i
want you to continue exploring other options even if you really like this guy and that's great i
want you to be reminded that there are other fish in the sea this strategy keeps guys pursuing you
because we kind of know as men that we have these spidey senses that if we don't keep pursuing you
that we're going to lose that beautiful behind to a man who actually stepped up and did keep
pursuing you number two is make social plans that don't include him and this is true regardless
of whether you're single or in a relationship i believe that it's really difficult to have a deep
intimate relationship when you both spend all of your waking hours together i remember even during
the pandemic i found this the case with jessica and i'm sure she would say the same to me is that
when we spent all of our waking hours together behind closed doors we couldn't leave the house
i mean the spark was just it's just harder to maintain because you don't have your independent
lives to even talk about and then i remember once the world started opening up again i went
on a business trip for about two or three days i don't remember and i remember coming back and i
had things to talk about i had a new perspective i had new stories and so did she and we went on a
date together and suddenly that spark just erupted again so always remember this no man wants a life
with you unless you have an incredible life without him do you ever fall into that trap of
when you start dating a guy or you're certainly in a relationship with a guy when you kind of
lose yourself a little bit leave a comment right there below and finally the third way to keep a
man chasing you is to have what i call a p.o.d day a pod day now pod stands for phone off day and i
recommend trying to have at least one pod day once a week are you as accessible as a 911 operator get
a freaking life try turning off your phone for an entire day or at least be on do not disturb
for an entire day so you are not completely responsive the moment the guy reaches out to you
it could be a pod day or it could be called i get a life day and live it in the real world seriously
though if you're the type of person who just lives with their phone it's really actually gonna
help your love life to create a little bit of separation and it surprisingly will make men chase
you even more pods are good for so many things they're good for your emotional state they're
good for your relationships and dating life pods are literally good for your physical health pods
keep guys chasing you because sometimes you might take that day off and they're gonna be trying to
reach you and wondering what is she up to on that day now sometimes you'll use these strategies and
it'll close the gap and get guys chasing you again other times it's not going to close the gap and
he won't start pursuing you and if that happens then we say that magical four-letter word which is
next and move on to the next never forget that you are beautiful and you deserve having a guy chase
you so follow these small steps i talk about this video let him come to you space is your friend
don't always try to close that gap let him do it be patient and he'll come to you