Hello my wonderful friend! Let's talk about how to get a woman to think about
you non-stop. I have three proven ways today that I think are going to blow
your mind. What I share with you today is based on
science. Which if you are so tired of playing games and still not getting the
girl then you are going to be totally relieved and empowered from what you
learn today. Before we get started if this is your first time watching be sure
to subscribe and ring that bell. My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian
dating coach for men and I literally help guys all day every day know how to
get the girl of your dreams so you're gonna want to make sure you subscribe
and ring that bell. Now I recently did this video on how to make a woman think about
you all the time and you guys loved it. I also did this video on the same topic
and again you guys loved it so much that I knew I had to do another one for you.
So how do you get a woman to notice you and to think about you all the time and
ultimately get a girlfriend? Because that's obviously the desired end
result, right? Quick story to help illustrate this. I know this guy and he's
totally awesome and when he was in his sophomore year of college he saw this
beautiful woman. She was so gorgeous and he started crushing on her hard core but
in his own words she was always surrounded by like 15 guys. And he
started asking himself "How can I stand out? How in the world am
I going to get her to agree to a date with me when she can have a date every
day of the week?" Have you ever felt that way too? So he started thinking about it
and he came up with a plan. And his plan was genius. He decided "Well, I just have
to offer her more value than anybody else and then it's pretty obvious who
she's going to go out with." Now this is not a monetary value, although there's
nothing wrong with monetary value. But what he did is he made sure he had a
better offer than any of the other guys. He had more to offer as a person, in
who he was, and also in the time that she spent with him. He made sure that when
she went to went on a date with him she had way more fun
than anybody else and that he paid more attention to her and he was nicer to her
and just more awesome. Well, who do you think got the girl at the end of the day?
He did. They have been happily married for years and have some awesome children.
So the secret to standing out from the crowd, getting a girl to notice you, which
is what makes her think about you all the time, is to add more value than
anybody else. Then quite frankly there is no competition. So is this making sense?
He just made sure he had more to offer than anybody else and that's what got
the girl. And the tips I'm about to share with you are going to help you do just
that. Sound exciting? Okay. Let's get started.
Tip number one on how to get a woman to think about you non-stop is to ask her
out. Okay, guys, I've mentioned before I get hundreds and thousands of
comments. And so often there are guys saying "Well, I don't know she likes me, I
don't know if she likes me, I don't know she likes me." Dude, ask her out. Here's
something you need to know about women. Women need to be pursued. I've mentioned
this before. That increases the attraction, that makes her feel safe.
Basically what she needs from you is she needs to see some initiative from you.
She needs you to pursue her and show interest. So stalking her on Facebook and
texting her once a week, that's not going to do it. At some point just ask her out.
If you are seeing the signs that she is interested in you ask her out. And you
know what that's going to do? That is going to take the attraction level up
dramatically. That is going to make her think about you all the time.
If you want to stand out from the crowd, like we talked about earlier one of the
best things you can do is to make a move. There are so many guys who aren't making
a move so if you're one who does you're going to stand out. And what that says to
a woman is "Oh, he likes me. He thinks I'm like
pretty and he wants to spend time with me." That melts her heart and makes her
more attracted to you. And yes, makes her think about you non-stop.
If pursuing a woman makes you nervous be sure to check out this video. There is
link in the description below, it will help you tons. But basically, dude, ask her
out. That is going to make her think about you on repeat. And we are to our
second tip on how to make a woman think about you all the time and that is that
you have a growth mindset. What's a growth mindset? A lot of people
don't know what that means, right? Basically what that means is you believe
that you can improve and you are willing to do that rather than feeling stuck and
trapped where you are and not improving. So many of us we feel like whatever
we're born with is just how we stay, right? So you have a certain
appearance and certain skills and certain talents and that's as good as it
gets. That's what so many of us have been taught and it's really not fair to us
and it's not right. The truth is, we're God's children, we can improve, we can
grow, we can progress, and that, that is hot. There is nothing more boring or less
interesting than someone who just stays where they are. and she's not looking for
a partner who's like that. So it's very very important to make sure you
are becoming a more and more interesting person. This is insanely attractive. And
to women it's a deal-breaker. She wants a guy who has purpose and drive and who is
always working to improve himself. That right there is super, super hot. That is
going to make sure you play on her mind on repeat. Quick question before we keep
going. Are you enjoying my videos on how to get a girl to think about you? If you
are and you would like me to make more be sure to comment "YES!" and I will know
to do that for you. Now our next tip is to not be too eager.
This can be hard to do especially when you're like infatuated and they're
really cute and you want to get to know her better. But being too eager
pushes people away. Now again, if you've been watching my channel for a while you
guys know I never teach you to play games. Ever. Quite frankly they do not
work. Not if you are looking for a long-term relationship. So I would never
teach you to play a game. However being too eager comes across as very desperate
and it pushes her away. Nobody wants to feel like they were just good enough or
just settled on, right? None of us want to feel like "Oh my goodness, I'm so desperate
to find someone and I guess I'll just take you and make it work with you."
Nobody wants to feel like that. We all want to feel special and important and
treasured and valued. So if you come across as too eager you're either one
going to make her feel super lame because she's like "Wait, he's just
settling on me?" Two she'll feel really awkward because she won't know what to
do. Or three it'll just creep her out and it's over. So be careful that you don't
send her millions of text or nag or hover around her or try and dominate her
time. Being too eager is going to push her away. Some of the things that are
going to help you with this is the growth mindset like we just talked about.
A growth mindset is really about focusing more on you than desperately
trying to get a relationship. You're so passionate about building who you are
and becoming the person God wants you to be that you're not obsessed with finding
someone else. That is a very, very healthy place to be. You're obviously looking but
you're not obsessed. So that's going to help you, but also building your
confidence is going to be a huge, huge lifesaver. Honestly guys, if I could only
give you one tip it would be to build your confidence and increase your
confidence. When you do that everything else falls into place. This is actually
why I teach my clients about confidence so extensively is because it is so
insanely powerful. If you haven't yet seen this video I did a couple weeks ago
on how to be confident there's a link in the description below. Be sure to check
that one out. So increasing your confidence is going to help you not be
too eager. It's definitely something you want to avoid and it's definitely going
to help you play on her mind on repeat because it's very attractive to have
someone pursue her but not be too eager. Now I do have a bonus
for you real fast. Have you heard that older men are attractive? If you have
heard that it is actually true. Many women if not most women actually
prefer men who are older. Now that could be just a few years older than her or
for some women it's actually more than that. But women are attracted to men
who are older than them. Why is that? Well women actually, we like to feel safe, we
like to feel protected, we like someone who's very reliable. And women tend to
mature earlier than men do and so she's looking for someone she can count on.
There are some very, very attractive traits about men who are older. So let
yourself be mature. Look to men who are older than you and see their positive
traits and start incorporating them and turning those into habits. Now I know I
have a lot of followers on here who are 50 and older and you guys are awesome, I
love you, thank you for being here. And I know that sometimes you reach out to me
with concerns that you think maybe that's a weakness. The truth is, there are
things that maybe you're self-conscious about that are your like superpowers
and rock them. So there are so many good traits about older men so
use that and rock that. I'm actually thinking about doing a video on tips and
dating tips for men over 50. If that is something you would like me to do in the
very near future be sure to comment "OVER 50" and I will know to do that for you
ASAP. And there you have some incredible tips guys that are backed by science. Is
this making sense? Can you see how by offering more than the next guy
it makes her think about you all the time and crush on you and ultimately
helps you get her girlfriend? Is that making sense? Now you have a couple of
ways to do that, but I actually have an entire guide with 17 ways. Guys,
these 17 things are what Christian women want most in a man. Which only stands to
reason that if you have those traits you're gonna be super, super hot. Check
out the link in the description below. It will ask you for your name and your
email as soon as you enter that information I will send you this free
guide right away. Trust me, you're not gonna want to miss it so
check out that link in the description below. Thank you so much for watching my
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much again my amazing friend and have an amazing day. [blooper beep]
I have three proven ways
that... are proven. [laughter] Okay.
[fluffing hair] [laughter] That was funny.
Half of the show is just going to be me
fixing my hair today because it's bugging me.
Quick question for you before we keep going... [laughter]