Hey guys, so you think you've found
an amazing girlfriend and you're wondering
could she be the one?
Could she truly be the one for you?
Here's what happens,
you finally meet a great girl
and she's like no other girl
or woman you've ever been with before.
She asks about your day,
she knows your favorite meal,
she even respects that you're not too keen on
spending a lot of time with her
rambunctious nieces.
You disagree on some stuff
but she never becomes
a raging crazy lady.
And the physical intimacy is amazing.
Maybe you've even declared
your love for each other
and you're wondering
what the next step might be
whether it's moving in together
or maybe something a little more serious.
Or you might be very early
and you're just wondering
if you should be exclusive.
So, how do you know
if she's truly the one for you?
Now, if you've taken
my wake up to love program
you probably already know
the answer to this question
but if you haven't taken my program
then you need to be careful.
If you've been burnt in the past
you know what I’m talking about.
It's easy to be fooled by our emotions
and fall head over heels in lust
when it's not really love.
And then she turns out to be a psycho
and breaks your heart
or worse makes your life a living
h-e double hockey sticks
and then you spend the next few months
at home in your man cave
trying to muster up enough confidence
and gumption even
just to talk to another girl
because you think they're all nuts.
However, you can avoid
the emotional roller coaster of love
and get things right from the start
by watching out for
one particular trait.
This red flag makes you think
she's the one
yet it's actually a trap
some women are masters at playing.
The good news is,
when you're aware of this trait
they won't be able to play you anymore
and I'll reveal this trait
at the end of the video
so stick around for that.
But for now let's review
the five biggest signs she's the one.
If you're new to my channel
my name is Anna Jorgensen
welcome to just the tip.
Now, you don't have to have all of these signs
but the more you have
the more likely that she truly is the one for you.
So, number one,
you both want what's best for each other
even if that means
it's not staying together.
I know that's a big one
that's a pretty rare one
but if you've got that,
that's a pretty good sign that
she's truly the one for you.
Number two,
you both feel like you're the lucky one
for having the other.
So, she thinks she's lucky to have you
and you think you're lucky to have her
without being needy or co-dependent.
Number three,
this one's important,
you have compatible beliefs,
values, and long-term goals.
It doesn't mean they have to be exactly the same
but they're compatible.
Now, this one may seem obvious
but there's an awful lot of people
out there who get together
and fail to recognize
when they're not compatible
until it's way too late.
You rush in because of attraction and chemistry
and you think that, that's going
to be enough and then you fall in love
and you think that's going to be enough
for long-term success
but it's not.
For example, you want kids as soon as possible
she doesn't even want kids.
You're hoping that she'll change her mind.
What if she doesn't change her mind?
What if it's the other way around?
What if you don't want kids
for another 10, 20 maybe never
but she wants kids like tomorrow?
That's not going to work
and she might even trick you
if you're not going to agree
so be careful.
Another example, she wants to live in the city
but you want to move to the country
or a small town as soon as possible
or vice versa.
Another example,
you've got opposite political beliefs
that are really important to you.
Not everybody is all about politics
but if they are
very steadfast in their specific beliefs
they might not even consider
what the ramifications of that
is going to look like down the road.
Of course if they're not deal breakers
then no big deal.
But these are some of the things
you need to explore
up front and be certain of
to know if she's truly the one for you.
And here's the thing,
so often
I see people go into relationships
thinking they know their deal breakers
and their deal makers
only to discover
that what their true deal breakers
and deal makers
are totally different.
And then they end up breaking up
or having a really tumultuous
and unsatisfying relationship.
Now, if you want to avoid that
then you do want to consider
my wake up to love program
because it takes you through
a step-by-step process
to figure out what
your true deal breakers and true deal makers are
and a lot of times you discover
they're not what you think they are
and that's probably why
you haven't had successful relationships
in the past,
but you can't imagine life
without her by your side.
This is not the same as
you'd be completely lost
and crumbling in the corner
if you broke up.
No, no, if that's the case
then that's not really love
that's neediness, codependency, and insecurity.
And if that's the case,
then you definitely need to work on yourself.
And yes, my wake up to love program
will help you with that
because it will help you learn
how to become the kind of man
who is never needy again.
And if you kind of know you need this
but you don't know where to start
you're going to be okay
no matter what even if things head south,
which is why the next sign
is probably one of the most important.
And then I’m going to share with you
the one sign
that everyone thinks
is so important but could be keeping you
in a relationship that
is definitely not right for you.
Number five, you feel like
you're a better man and want to become a better man
just by being with her.
She inspires you
not because she asks for anything
not because she tries to motivate you
just because your internal sense
of being with her
makes you want
to become your best self.
And this is not to be confused
with feeling motivated to improve yourself
because you actually feel unworthy of her
you actually just feel
you want to impress her
by becoming your best self
without any insecurity
as a motivation.
For example, let's say you are living together
and she wants new appliances
but they're not in the budget
and she's actually working a few extra hours
or maybe budgeting
and cutting back on spending on some other things
so she can get to those appliances sooner.
In other words, she's contributing
and it might be a handbag it might be anything.
Anything she wants let's just use
something that costs money
in this example.
So, you put in a few extra hours
or budget somewhere else
so that you can contribute
to getting those appliances
because you want to make her happy.
It's okay to want your partner to be happy
she should be doing the same things for you.
And if she is that's a good sign
because then that means
she also wants to be her best self
for you.
Or maybe you've developed a covid belly
and even though she hasn't said anything
you finally noticed
maybe somebody else maybe a friend
said hey, you might want to
lose the *** locker.
(Laughs)
So, you like whoa, wait a minute
I don't want to have a *** locker for my woman
she deserves better than that
even though she's not said anything.
You want to improve yourself
or get back to where you were
when she fell in love with you.
Well, a side note for all the guys who've
kind of taken their woman for granted,
stop it.
I know that she might be doing the same thing
but somebody's got to be the ripple
in the pond so start.
Now, if you've got at least three of these signs
that's pretty good indication that
she might truly be the one for you
but let's talk about that one thing,
that one trait
that so many people think
means you're compatible
and she's the one.
Can you guess what it is?
physical intimacy yeah, that's right it's physical intimacy.
So, so many people get together
because of physical attraction and chemistry
and maybe amazing physical intimacy
and that does not make a relationship.
Of course, if you have amazing physical intimacy
with a woman who has
several of these qualities in this video
well, that's a massive bonus
and in all likelihood
the physical intimacy will be much better with her
because you're so connected on
so many different levels.
But if physical intimacy is the only thing
that keeps you coming back for more
that's a pretty major red flag.
And you definitely need to get
my wake up to love program
because you are at high risk
for getting your heart broken.
And you're missing out on finding a great partner.
Because nothing compares to being intimate
with a great woman who actually
ticks all the boxes.
Because then
you won't just be having great physical intimacy,
you'll be having a great relationship
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