So I don't even speak to you.
So I know you just speak about me.
You fight behind my back the most because you're not
I've ever seen.
You're literally nuts.
That's really nice.
Yeah, you're nuts.
You know, I'd rather be nuts than boring.
Amanda, did you ever have a problem with Lindsay and Carl
dating?
I never had an issue with them.
Dating I want all the best for them.
They're going to figure out their own journey,
whether it works or not.
Thank you.
OK, I want to move on.
So you all have solidified a wedding venue?
Yes and can you tell us where?
Can you tell us when?
Mexico great.
November destination wedding in November.
This November.
Years from now.
So coming up quickly.
Yeah who of your housemates will be invited?
Should I ask you that at the end of the night?
I mean, we have an invite list we're working on,
but I haven't sent we haven't sent anything out yet.
Nothing out yet.
We only want the people there who support our relationship.
And there's definitely some people sitting up here today
that are going to be there.
I just really hope that we can find a way
to remove some of the deep rooted anger
and hate and try and figure out a path forward.
And I thought today would be that chance.
So we'll finalize the invite list, hopefully soon.
OK well, over the past six Summers,
we watched Kyle and Carl build an unbreakable bond.
But this summer, work, conflicts and personal strains
had us wondering if this house share could be their last.
So there's, like, 100 girls and three dudes.
Hey, man.
Just wanted some cool guys to hang out with.
Can see you, man.
I'm going to have to have a conversation.
The vibe that I've been picking up
is like he's on the verge of, like, just quitting.
Like, I'm burned out at Loverboy.
I don't feel like I'm valued sometimes.
What is different is Lindsay is here saying you're invaluable,
you're not being appreciated.
You're this or that.
I'm like, are you kidding me?
What you're dealing with here, you are a master manipulator.
Good luck to my best friend because you're psycho.
Psycho I can't believe this is the question I'm leading with.
But what is the current status of your relationship?
Clearly, there's a change in the friendship, let's be honest.
You know, it's been complicated when you work with friends.
It's hard when you're changing your lifestyle
and adjusting things and trying to figure
out your career path and.
You know, it came to a head.
And I take a lot of responsibility
because I didn't actually open up to Kyle
as much as I should have.
Coming into last summer, he's given me a lot of opportunity
in life and as a man and to grow up
and he's someone that's super important to me.
Kyle, fair assessment of where you guys are today?
Yeah, I knew the work stuff was getting challenging.
I mean, look, his role was already
kind of shifting into a much more like events
and market driven role as opposed to VP of sales.
And it was more just like I was doing my best to give him
insane leeway while he tried to figure
out what he wanted to do.
And last year, I practically felt taken advantage of.
Kyle why immediately blame Lindsey's influence
for Karl's unhappiness at work?
You know, there was one thing after another,
and it was kind exactly when, like, their relationship
was hitting its stride.
I can understand how you might see that Lindsay is in my ear.
I just it really would.
Well, got worse if you want me to finish.
But we I come home and I vent and she sees things,
but I made the decisions that I've made.
And please do not put it on her.
Can I please?
I complained about your son, and I've said this to Kyle
at my job when I was really stressed
and I was complaining to Kyle about it.
He's hearing my side of the story
and he's giving me advice to support my needs,
not knowing what my other, like, employees or bosses
are actually going to appreciate that.
Right? so I've tried to explain this to him, too,
that Carl's venting.
Karl's frustrated, and you're trying
to give him advice based off of the information
that you correct.
And guess what my advice was?
My advice was, you need to talk to Kyle.
And he goes, I'm just going to quit.
And I said, no, you're not. Word for word.
I said, you will not blindside your best friend.
Me being in his ear was, you need to talk to Kyle.
You need to talk to Kyle.
I appreciate that.
And I can relate.
Maybe when I was trying to apologize to Lindsay.
I apologize for pinning that on you.
So Lindsay was not in his ear.
OK Thank you.
So I'm sorry.
Again, it was me trying to take a very complicated nature
and simplify it, but it got down to the point
where even I was like, yeah, I know it's not Lindsay.
Right well, fortunately, Kyle did vocalize his frustrations
with Karl early on.
Unfortunately, he did it for an audience that
did not include Karl himself.
He showed up one day so coked out,
he didn't bring his computer to work.
All right.
The world needs to know.
What you're saying right now is very unfair.
If you want to say something to me.
Come here. Let's go for it.
You are so wrong.
It's laughable.
All right, dude, I don't want to do this.
If you had any clue what actually goes on Monday
through Friday, come talk.
The second.
What was it like when you heard Kyle
air all of your dirty laundry when you weren't there
to defend yourself?
I don't really have a lot of words
other than I showed up to work coked up and forgot my laptop.
Out of my mouth.
I wish I would have had the opportunity
to say that not you.
But I am incredibly ashamed and embarrassed about my past
and I really hope I try to repay you guys with hard work.
But for my addiction to be brought up.
So publicly, it really hurt when you said that.
Because I forget sometimes about my past.
And I felt. I felt like the dirtiest
guy in the world for even just when it came out of my mouth.
Should I have brought it up and done it the way I did?
Oh, my God.
It was so I'm so ashamed and so embarrassed.
I just knew it was going to be a knife to the heart.
Look, it can only I think I had for years, just
done my best to deal with the challenges
of some of his addictions.
And quite frankly, early on, I don't
think I realized to the extent.
That he was struggling.
And I felt so bummed and frustrated
and it was like me and my worst.
I mean, this guy is my best friend and I can't grasp what.
He's had to go through.
And for me to just, like, rip that Band-Aid
off again, like a year later.
It's like if I'm a hug.
I I've never felt more ashamed and more sorry.
You don't need a reminder.
You've already you've already gone through that.
And I'm sorry for bringing that up.