Tripp Kramer here from Tripp Advice.com. Recently I put a post on my Instagram (by the way, if you
want to check me out, you can follow me there Tripp Advice) and I talked about the difference
between men and women and how they experience attraction. One of the things that I said was
that a woman needs context in order to sleep with a guy or feel attracted to a guy. Context, meaning
she won't just see a guy who's attractive and then go sleep with him. I got a lot of crazy
comments responding back, like, "No! What you're talking about? A girl will sleep with a hot guy
just off the bat." No, that's not true at all. In fact, people were even proving my point in
some ways. But the idea here is that a woman won't just sleep with a guy for looks. Now status is one
thing. If a guy has high status, he's a celebrity of some sort, then yeah, she might sleep with him
faster than anyone she'll ever sleep with if you had to go over the hierarchy of different things
that are really important. Because a guy like that has social proof. For that, it's fine. But even if
a guy is attractive, she still needs to spend a little bit of time with him. Like, even if it's
like half an hour or an hour. And for a guy that she maybe doesn't find super physically attractive
at first, she also is going to need that time - She's going to need time to feel attracted within
the context. The context is normally about a man's behavior. A man's behavior goes a lot further than
a person who doesn't have attractive behavior, but is just good looking. A woman needs a few things
to be able to want to sleep with a guy. She needs comfort and she needs attraction. Now
attraction... yes, of course it's everything. It's his looks, it's his behavior, and it's his status.
It's all that stuff. But remember that when you're with a woman, it's not just the looks because we
have behavior, that's part of attraction, but also this part called comfort. Let me zoom out again:
You have comfort plus attraction. A woman needs to feel comfortable with a man, meaning she needs to
feel safe on some level. She needs to make sure that she's not going to get hurt by this guy,
or physically, or emotionally hurt and feel judged. A woman never wants to feel
slut shamed. She never wants to feel like society is judging her for sex. And she wants to make sure
that she doesn't die or get hurt by another man. She needs that comfort. She needs that safety.
Now, of course, do women in 5 minutes, go and sleep with a man or meet a guy at a club? Yeah,
but she's drunk. What happens when you're drunk? Well, alcohol lowers your inhibitions so you're
not thinking in the same way that you would if you were not drunk. That is an exception.
But beyond being drunk at a club, a woman's going to need that context. She's going to need to know
that, okay, this guy is safe, I feel safe around him. But then that's not everything.
She also needs to feel attracted. By the way, I go really super deep into this into my Hooked
program. If you don't have it, you should get it. It's my 8 to 10 hour video course that teaches you
how to build attraction with women, how to meet women, and how to be able to find a girlfriend
or find a casual relationship, depending on what you're looking for. It goes over that in great
detail, it even gives you infield examples and me doing approaches - it teaches you everything
you need to know - check that out; get her hooked.com. You have to learn... and what I go
over in that course, this formula comfort plus attraction. Attraction is about your behavior
plus your looks. So obviously, you want to look your best, you want to be well groomed,
you want to make sure that you don't look like a complete disaster or a neck beard or something
like that. But also you need this behavior. I like to describe attractive behavior with an acronym
called TED, which is tension, entertainment and dominance. And remember, it's not just
the three of those separately, it's the way that they all work together to build attraction with
a woman. There needs to be tension, which is flirting or sexual tension. There needs
to be entertainment - she needs to be having fun in the conversation, it can't be boring,
Then there needs to be dominance, you need to be the one who's leading the way because she's not
going to lead for you for multiple reasons. One, she doesn't want to look like a slut. And two,
she doesn't want to lead because it's really not in her essence. She's feminine. She wants to be
led. She's not necessarily a natural born leader. And she wants to see the masculine presence of a
guy who's going to lead; again, this is called dominance. All this and more detail on exactly
how to do it in my Hooked program. But the point of this video is to help you understand that
what a woman needs is more than just looks. And I know I'm going to hear it - you guys are
going to say it in the comments. I get a lot of trolls who say it. But let me tell you something,
I don't care how good looking a guy is, she won't just sleep with him automatically. She needs
something, she needs some sort of behavior, even if it's like a 15 or 20 minute conversation.
Now, I know I keep repeating this over and over. But you have to understand that that's
different than you and I. Men don't need that. Men don't need that. They need about 30 seconds,
literally, they'll see a girl thinks she's cute and if they have an opportunity to sleep with her,
and he takes the opportunity, assuming he's courageous enough and dominant enough to take that
opportunity, hypothetically, he would. In this hypothetical situation, if a woman knew for sure
that she could sleep with a guy, she wouldn't take it that fast. She would not take it in 30 seconds,
she still needs to spend a little time around him to make sure that she gets that comfort and that
attraction. If this is resonating with you hit that like button right now. And if you're new
here, what are you doing man? Subscribe to this channel, a lot more is coming and we're getting
just started. I talked about comfort, and I talked about attraction. But what does that mean when we
put it together? Like, what's this formula? It's not just comfort plus attraction. But it's comfort
plus attraction equals compliance. That means that when you make her feel comfortable and safe
around you, and that's just going to be usually by spending time around her, that 30 minutes that
hour talking to her, a couple of dates with her, making her understand that you're a cool dude,
it's fun to be around you, you're not going to hurt her, you're not going to be judging her.
She gets that, and then she gets that attraction. So she's able to feel attracted to you,
not just physically, but emotionally in terms of your behavior. She starts
to get that - that equals compliance. Now, when you're leading her, she will respond.
So when you get comfort and attraction, she'll say yes to giving you her phone number,
as opposed to like her social media. More personal phone number. She'll say yes to a date.
She'll show up to the date, she won't flake. She'll kiss you back if you go for a kiss.
You can take her home and you guys sleep together. All those things will happen when you have comfort
and when you have attraction. You get compliance; her compliance, her saying yes to your advances,
to break it down simply. More of this in the Hooked program www.getherhooked.com. Check
that out. Leave a comment down below. Even though I know you will already, let's have
a conversation about this. Let me know what you think. And I'll see you on the next video.