what I need to work through is
definitely more in here and more in here
but clean your surroundings decluttering
your surroundings will help declutter
here and here
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hey guys welcome back this is gonna be
another leaning decluttering video you
guys seem to like it the video is just
two weeks ago that was like a tiny and
organizing so I feel like tidying
organizing is putting things back where
it belongs and decluttering like a deep
decluttering which is what I'm gonna do
so what I'm doing in the middle of doing
right now
be pretty clever is getting rid of
things not getting rid of things but
like happily coumarine letting go
grateful ease the things that you no
longer wear to keep things simple on the
first night and to prevent decision
fatigue remember this from the how to
wake up at four is video I chose to
start with the easiest and least
intimidating portion of my closet
hanging clothes that are fully visible
are definitely more manageable than
drawers of unknown and forgotten
t-shirts I swapped my heavy winter
jackets for a lighter summer jackets
tried on clothes to confirm it still
brings me joy this is from Marie Kondo s
book the life-changing magic of tidying
up and I reorganized my tops into
jackets casual sweaters and blouses
figure out what needs to be done today
right now and what can be done tomorrow
later the goal for this night I gave
myself two options keep their shirt
hanging or put it in the tomorrow pile
but tomorrow pile is what I'll figure
out the next day either being dry
cleaning storing away or reselling or
donating because I get easily
overwhelmed and when I'm overwhelmed I
tend to crawl into my cave and do
absolutely nothing I like breaking down
daunting tasks into smaller bite-sized
pieces like the analogy of how to eat an
elephant in the previous video before I
dumped the entirety of my drawers out to
declutter I like to dust and vacuum just
so it's nice and clean from my
conscience and my clothes but really
imagine wearing and packing away all
that dust and letting hang out with you
on your clothes for a whole season
actually started doing this years ago to
stop my mom from nagging me but it's
become a pretty good habit ever since
see mom maybe listen to you by the way
my bet is naked because it's clothes are
being washed
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hey guys checking in for a sec hey baby
hair is there really crazy right now but
it's okay this is the state of my studio
right now yeah so I just took this
drawer from in there pull it out here by
the way this is from a container store
I'll link it down below a lot of you
have asked in my previous videos so this
is usually sports bras bras underwear
this is in the front is a bunch of
t-shirts that I honestly don't even know
I don't know what it's in here because
by moving some of it down here I
couldn't do that during the winter time
because all these sweaters we're in
there this along with a lot of what's
there needs to be dry-cleaned back here
is sports stuff so probably sports stuff
sleep stuff casual stuff will go in one
drawer and then t-shirts will go in this
my mom's always told me I was really
good at taking one pile of stuff and
then moving it to another place and then
moving it and then moving it
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as with most people I moderately
attached to my stuff and I always tell
myself I can save this thing for that
event and I may go to in the future or
that costume party I'll never go to so
here are the two criterion I used to
determine what to let go of number one
if I forgot I own something and or
haven't worn it in six months I'm
probably not going to miss it
and number two anything that's revealing
via showing my back my bra or the double
black diamonds on my chest
I shall let's go up I have nothing
against revealing clothes because I was
all about that nasty guy alive back in
2012 by the way Nasty Gal
is a little brat don't think anything
else but I'm just out of season in my
life where I like to do just a little
more appropriate and elegant
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but tomorrow pal exists mostly to ease
my psychological burden and expectations
for myself as I was deciding what to
keep him when to let go of I didn't take
mental notes to myself for what needed
to be stored away what needs to be
dry-cleaned and what needed to be
donated or we sold so that I wouldn't
have to go through the whole pile again
so when I got to this part it was a lot
easier and of course if possible it's
definitely better to take care and
tackle all the things you want to do
within a day but of course if you need a
couple of days I'm truly fine because I
took this took me two three days to
really get through everything yep all
right
send up the boy saw procession sometimes
you go through your life one way and
then they kind of in your zone living
your own world is this as usual
everything you see great you're living
in your little bubble and then something
pops up and it's like haha like a little
elf or a little notification or whatever
it is it's just like hey you're actually
wrong like the world that you're living
in is actually something completely
different than what you thought it was
so what I'm trying to say is I learned a
lot about the world this past weekend
and I'm really shot at first it really
paralyzed me like I couldn't do anything
I didn't want to do anything I didn't
want to talk to anyone I didn't want to
go anywhere but I realized that's not
the way to go about doing things if I
want to be a light within darkness the
world is a very dark place if I want to
be the light and this is something that
a really good friend of my reminded me
of it's if you want to be the light
focus on the positive and focus on what
you can do so what I can do and what I
have the capacity to do right now is to
do a deep decluttering of my closet and
I feel like what I need to work through
is definitely more in here and more in
here but cleaning your surroundings
decluttering your surroundings will help
declutter here and here so I just want
to put that out there for us much as I
love cleaning for us much as you know
hiding and organizing it's great it's
still an external thing right what I'm
trying to find a solution to its
internal common internal stillness and
internal peace so just wanna leave you
guys or just remind myself as I'm maybe
reminding you guys so this might be a
chiller video I have no idea what its
gonna be how it's gonna turn out but um
thank you guys for joining me I really
appreciate you guys when I
finally work there what's going on in
here maybe I'll be able to share it has
to do with this and it has to do with
this and if it just looks like you emo
just too then so be it if you know what
it means and how scary it is then good
job because it's taken me 26 years to
learn about this and yes you're you're
here ahead of the curve so I'm okay bye
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