are you feeling stuck right now do you believe there's more to your life but
you're trying to move forwards but you feel stagnant almost like a hamster on
a wheel have you tried everything under the sun it
just does not seem to be working out and as a result you feel low if so this
video is for you Cindy sent over this question and that's
why decides to actually create this video for you so firstly let me show you
the clip from Cindy hi Tim Cindy Caron here quick question what do you what
does a person do when they are feeling stuck in life no matter what they do no
matter how much they know about spiritual principles they can't seem to
elevate their selves into the next level thank you so much for this opportunity
to be able to ask you a question and thank you for your videos have a great
one just want to say Cindy thank you so much for sending over the question and
inside it if you like to send me a question as well I'm gonna Chuck a link
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without further ado Cindy in order for somebody to feel unstuck in life this is
what I recommend I will recommend three steps to doing that
okay so insider if you're watching this and you really want to get unstuck as
well be sure to take plenty of notes the first thing I would recommend is a
process I recommend quite a lot it's called the pattern interrupt you see
right now when you're feeling stuck the last thing you want to be is a new old
routine because it's your current routine that's bringing you the results
that you're getting you will never change your life until you change the
things you do daily as simple as that and so what you got to do is you've got
to get yourself to a vantage point where you can really observe your your
patterns the only way you can do that is by getting yourself out of the old
routine you know one of the ways for example is to do something differently
on the weekends if currently you're working 9-5 job do something differently
in your free time or if you're an entrepreneur right now I want you to
maybe take a take a trip away and just really just have time to think where are
you going what have you been doing how has it been has it been serving the
community have you been serving your family because at the end of this
journey I truly believe it's not about you
it's about whether or not you can really contribute and make a difference that's
what drives me every single day and whenever I step back I'm asking myself
these questions have I been really serving have I be really been helping
others and if I find like I haven't I know that the fact that I've got to
change something and so one of the things I want you to firstly realize is
if you do feel stuck in life it's actually a great thing because you see
feeling stuck means you are wanting to grow there's a great quote always liked
to say on the success insider's show strongest trees don't grow in the best
soil they grow in the strongest winds and so whenever life is wanting to grow
you it will come up with these emotions like feeling stuck because it knows the
fact that you are trying to get to that next level and so really really just
embrace out that and you got a pattern interrupt that you got to do something
differently that way you get to the vantage point and you're able to really
see what is going on in your life it's almost like for example if you are here
not the best at drawing by the way so imagine you are here and you're trying
to solve your own problems down here at this level well actually as Einstein
says you cannot solve a problem from the same level thinking it was used to
create it and so where you're trying to get to is here the vantage point that
you can see what's going on and sometimes that's why it helps to have a
coach because a coach comes from with it without the bias that you've got to to
your behavior right now because sometimes it's hard to get to a vantage
point and even if you do get to a vantage point it's much easier to have a
coach or mentor that's guiding you and that's why all the successful people
they have coaches by their side in fact every single month we give away ten free
coaching slots if you do want a chance to have free coaching from a success insider
verified coach I'll chuck a link above me right now and we can basically
get you assigned to a coach is an application only basis but if you're
serious and you're wanting to change we're most likely to pick you so be sure
to get involved and so that's why I recommend a coach you got to
basically have somebody who's coming from vantage point or you've gotta
pattern interrupt your current behavior so you can really
see what's going on so that's the first point it's a pattern interrupt now the
second thing I would say is to embrace
you see I truly believe life will never serve us a card that we truly don't
deserve you know life consists of polar opposites the up and the down the
masculine and the feminine the north and the south and so what you got to realize
is whatever you're going through right now it too shall pass so if you embrace
it and realize this is the area of growth like I was mentioning earlier this is
how you're going to grow into the stronger tree and when you fully fully
embrace it I believe you can find the gift within
that because knowing the fact that life consists of polar opposites what if you
made your bad times your best times well then your life will be totally
pleasurable because I believe there's a message to every lesson we go through
and you know the reality is is you don't grow when you're sitting on the beach
sipping your margarita you grow when you test it you grow when the storms of life
come in you know I'm sure you have been through storms in your life that's
tested you I certainly have and when I look back at that all I'm thinking is
thank goodness I went through that otherwise I won't be here when for
example you know my real father left us when when I was age 2 that growing
up without father really upset me for a long time and I used to rebel in fact
that's actually one of the reasons why I was so violent as a teenager but then I
managed to really just pivot that the way I think I realized you know what why
am I using this why am i doing this to hurt others why can't I use this as a
reason to never leave my children when I finally have children why can't I just
use that as a reason to serve so I just changed the reasoning and I embraced the
moment that's why I recommend for you embrace this moment yes it's difficult
yes it's tough but if you can really reframe this and embrace it it will
change everything for you and that goes on to the third point
number three so before I go on to number three I want you to really take action
on this it's important because I believe so much so many people know so much but
they do so little that's the problem with today's society we're living in an
Information Age where advice is being chucked around left right and center and
thus people are just watching on more videos more videos more videos it's
about taking action this is what success insider channel is all about
and so pattern interrupt I want you to plan right now exactly what you intend to do
as a pattern interrupt write it down and put it into your freaking calendar
action this stuff it'll change your life trust me number two learn how to embrace
it when are you gonna go off and embrace it when are you gonna do this is it
gonna be in the morning are you gonna do it right now I'm gonna do in the evening
spend some time embracing this moment now if you're ready for the third point
after you take an action on that this is the third point it's to silence silence
the mind you see one of the things I always say at the end of the success
insider show is follow your heart and take action and go live the life you're
born to live I truly believe there is a life we are born to live but the problem
is we cannot we cannot live that life unless we're following our intuition and
this is why Steve Jobs is often quoted saying you know follow your intuition
follow the gut field this is why Warren Buffett all of these top you know
successful entrepreneurs they talk about the gut feel they're not talking about
follow your heads and take action they're saying follow your heart and
this is why I often say to you follow your heart but the problem is is you
have to realize that from the traditional education system from the
moment we are born we are brainwashed into what reality really means thus we
don't really know what our feeling is a heart because our head speaks in
languages that we're used to listening to but our heart speaks in feelings it just
knows there's an inner knowing the head will always be louder because we're
always tuning into this first and so you have to silence the mind how do you do
this meditate go on a holiday just read just detox from everything
just silence the mind you know you the best silence your mind that allow you to
tune into that feeling that's the guiding star in your life that's the
reason why you've I'm sure you can think of that some past decisions that was
amazing that's brought you the results you want that is all heart driven so
you've got a silence your mind first and that's how you begin to tune into your
heart and so that is the third point I hope this video helped by the way and
this is how you can get unstuck and truly truly live the life you're born to
live insider if you like to send over your question by all means follow the
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just want to say thank you so much Cindy and I wish you all the best getting
unstuck keep me posted and as always insider follow you heart
my friend and take action and go live the life you're born to live see you on
the next episode soon take care my friend