So today's content is going to be a little different today. I'm going to show you guys
video about confidence, confidence. When you walk, it's truly important for you guys
to have confidence when you walk. In your personal life, in your dating life and your
business life. So I'm gonna show you guys some skills that I use in my personal life.
So you guys can improve how to walk in your own life as well.
So the purpose of walking of confidence is so key because
it conveys your message a lot more clear. It conveys a message of what you want to say, what
you're trying to do or where you're trying to get to. So you want to walk with confidence every day.
That's just the mindset. So I'm gonna tell you guys a little bit of a background about me when
it comes down to sales. Uh, I mean sales, most of my life, majority of my life at the same time,
I worked at a lot of companies when it comes into retail, when it comes to door to door knocking,
when it comes into selling gym memberships, even within the gym atmosphere, I
became the top seller across Canada within a month and some other industries as well.
So it was talking about retail. I sold over about probably just over a quarter million within a boat
under a two years with a certain company, not going to see it in the name, but. Working full
time. That's what I did. So I was always on the ball with it. I was always selling to people.
So I'm going to show you guys some things that I personally use that you
guys can improve within your own life, within my own experiences.
So many things that I've changed at the same time. I understood about myself. The thing about this
is you got to define who you are first, and as you define that, you kind of grew up into
what your natural cadence is. For me, I'm a slow talker. I take my
time when I talk. I like to be in the moment. So that's how I personally sell.
Everyone's completely different. Some people can be frantic. Some people can be fast. Some
people can be like really precise. Everyone has their own style. But when you do this,
I want you to define your own style through the process, even to get in the one more
deeper. I like to explain the product. I like to explain why it's important,
why it's beneficial, where it's beneficial, how improves your life, where it changes you
in to see why you're going to see your changes a little bit deeper beyond my peers in sales.
But at the same time, it's the end of the day. It's the message that you're
conveying and how you're conveying it. So this is gonna be fun for you guys as well,
because for me, I'm a big movie buff. I love movies.
So I'm actually gonna suggest you guys, some actors and movies that I personally watch
and you guys can actually do this, watch how they move and how they conduct their body language.
It could pick up cues to like enhance your own games. So Denzel Washington in training day
definitely watched that John David Washington in Tennant.
You can watch that one as well. Um, Daniel Craig, obviously in the double O seven series,
especially when it comes down to casino. Royale was probably one of my favorite movies.
Um, you can also watch fast and furious anything with like Paul Walker as well. He's really good
at body language and how you conveys this message. Very subtle, very precise with it.
Um, you go watch takers, Paul Walker's in there as well. He has it, it has interest Elba. I think TEI
mostly the main actors of takers is what I'll predominantly focus on.
So I want you guys to enjoy those movies. Take some time off for yourself. Have a self-care
day. My days are Mondays that pacifically watch movies on that day. I just chill out.
But watch those movies take notes on those at the same time, let's get right into this content.
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So yesterday I was at the mall, come and watch fixed. Got my glasses fixed as well.
And there's one thing I did notice about young men and how they walked.
So someone you guys are young men, you don't walk with confidence and that's the most
important thing when it comes to it. Or this is personally what I notice when people walk,
some, some young men, they walk like they're new in the world.
Like they're a fresh newborn is so they walk like they're,
they're just exploring the world for the first time. Like, they're, they're scared.
Right? You want to take your time with it. You want to slow down. At the same time, I'm gonna
show you guys some pointers here. So when you watch, you don't want to keep your hands out.
You don't want them just to dangle anywhere, right? You don't want them
to sit dangled by your side. It looks kind of sloppy. It is, it looks unprofessional
at the same time. You want to have your hands in the right placement. So I'm going to explain
every point of this and show you guys how I walk and how you guys can improve your walk as well.
So hand placement is so important. You don't want it to be behind your back.
You got something to hide. You don't want it to be fun. Your crotch. I'm not trying to be seen.
You know, you know, you don't want to cross your hands.
I'm uptight. I don't want you. I don't want to share information. If you,
you know, you don't want to be putting your hands like this, you look bored, you look tired.
So first thing is the hands. So. Having your hands in your pocket is, is a best thing to do
because you want to have that certain balance where you know what you want and you know,
what you want to convey. So having your hands out is a big note. So don't have it all out.
You know, taking up the space, have a least one, your hands in your pockets.
I've usually put my right in my parents. Sorry. I usually put my right hand in my pocket
or my left. It doesn't matter, but it just, whatever suits you, what keep one hand out
one in your pocket and then you just walk straight to your direction. Next point is the face. I don't
want to be sulking. You don't want to look unhappy, miserable, depressed, faces like this.
Like. Shoulders hunched over face dropped,
you know, looking down. You don't want that. It doesn't look inviting. It doesn't look
like someone wants to engage in a conversation of you. You want to fix that? You don't want
to be socking. When you're walking, you got to smile. You have to smell. You gotta have a grin.
Like I said before, you don't wanna look like you're depressed. You don't
look like you're sulking having a smile. Allows a conversation to be engaged. So
make sure you smiling, make sure you haven't grin on your face while you're walking. Not only that
improved your confidence. When you walk up at the same time, it allows people to be engaged.
It's packaging. Your smell is important. Practicing the mirror. If you need to at
the same time, just look at yourself and just give yourself a smile. Give yourself
a smile. That's the best way to do it. Give yourself a smile. Love yourself.
Give yourself a smell. That's how you do it. Just look at yourself and be like.
What's up, man. How you doing, man? You looking good? I know you are. That's what I do. That's
how you improve. So the next one is walking with an intent is some guys will walk with no direction
and where they want to go or what they're trying to do. So
when you want to get to point a to B, want to know where you want to go to
from here to there, you don't want to be sloppy and trying to figure things out.
You don't want to be looking at your phone and trying to. Figure out the directions in
the mall. You want to know where you need to get to and how to get there. Like I said before guys,
point a to B, walking into a tent, know where you want to go to knowing when to get to point a to B
it can be point a B, C, D, whatever, but no, where you need to get to and why you need to get there.
Next thing I noticed about how people walk is some people walk like they're panicking. So you
ever noticed when you're in the grocery store and how everyone panics for those last items
at a same time, it's just like, it's almost an anxiety attack,
how people operate. So next thing I want you to let you guys know is slowing things down here.
You don't want to be moving with anxiety. You get your heart racing, your body's going to start
racing, slow it down, breathe. Find your center. So my favorite fighter of all time is Bruce Lee,
because I really liked him because he's all about the center. He's all about finding that center
piece. So when you have that center piece within yourself, you feel common.
So I want you guys to breathe, breathing
calm. So next thing here is walking your feet. Some people may not notice this,
but I personally do because I seen the changes that I've made
and how it makes a difference. Some people will just walk. On their tippy toes or
their heels are in the side of the feet. And they're kind of off balanced when they walk.
So you want it to walk with a certain direction where you're not feeling off balance,
but you're centered. So from heel to your mid foot, to the end of your toe, I want
you to start feeling comfortable with your whole foot and using your whole foot when you walk. So
walk with the purpose. So feel the whole foot and walk what, keep one hand out one in your pocket.
And then. You just walk straight to your direction.
You're walking with structure, you're walking in the moment. You're walking
with every stride, you know, you're walking with every stride and that's so important when you're
walking, because if you're allowing yourself that you're allowing yourself to slow down
and be in the presence, because you're being conscious about your body language.
Where you're going and all that stuff I've been saying before, practice, practice,
practice define your walk. As you define your walk, you become more of yourself. So
at the end of the day, guys, it's not the clothes that do it. It's not
the accessories. It's not what you drive. It's not where you live. It's all in here.
It's all in here that makes the conviction of your confidence. So I want you guys to practice that.
And so most important thing, guys, like I said before, let me know. If you guys seen a difference
within this, I want you guys to practice these skills at the same time. Let me know your
feedback. If you guys apply these methods into your practice, let me know how it goes for you.
Let me know how you feel internally, how your environment reacts to you.
Are you noticing people are seeing me differently? Are you seeing yourself differently? Let me know
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