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is jump I don't need this story is actually one that has me puzzled to this
day to this day when I was a little girl I was sick now I didn't have any chronic
illness or anything like that but I was one of those children and I actually
feel that way as an adult I just learned to cope better but I was a child who my
emotions manifested into illness I don't know if you've ever experienced that but
if I was emotionally upset in the strike then I would be physically ill so it was
a real illness to me I would really my hand would really hurt my stomach would
really hurt you know I was really hurt so as I got older I realized that a lot
of my ailments were because of emotional things that I'm going through what's
going through as a kid now um not to really get all into that kind of thing
of what you know precipitated a lot of the emotions that caused the illness but
I will say that you know it was it was so this story begins with like the
typical the typical thing for me I was I was not feeling well and this
incidence my stomach was hurting I was in elementary school I had to be in like
the fourth or fifth grade because I was in upper elementary I don't know they
designated lower and upper elementary like they did what I was wrong but it's
like a lower elementary there was an upper elementary so I was definitely in
upper elementary school because I I remember my principal and so I was not
feeling well and I told my mom like you know my stomach hurts
she hadn't ever realized that a lot of my stuff was you know emotions so she
took him to the doctor and I had been to the doctor many times I miss about time
because I was always sick so many whom I went to the doctor I'm in this you know
I loved this doctor I would not name his name he's actually passed away but I
will steal my name is name um but I really don't know why he he the chose to
do with me anyway um went to the doctor you know told that was going on they
need my vital signs to the triage and everything and this doctor decided in
upper elementary school and student up let me suppose duty now which means I
was with you and I'm just like like 9 or 10 yeah you like naughty between 9 and
11 I'll say he decided that I needed aid
I didn't even know what a pelvic exam looks so I'm like and my mama was like
okay now you know she knew I'll be sick all the time
I don't know and be honest you know I get a lot of comments from women saying
that they are adults and their moms or dads or whoever their Guardians never
taught them like about hygiene about nothing about that feminine situation so
that's actually kind of comment I'm I'm not saying it just because I'm saying
that my mama allowed me to have a pap or a healthy and such a young age I'm
saying it because it's honestly true I get that a lot that they're women they
just never was taught these kind of things it's because I am going to do a
series on hygiene that is coming yeah been asking me for it for awhile I just
didn't want to keep saying the same thing that everybody else was saying so
I wanted to come with something new and I think I have got that under wraps so
you know looking out for that um so yeah my momma was an older mom she was older
than all of my friends mom so I'm just acting on this one but she didn't know
she wanted to find out what was wrong with her baby and if the doctor is
playing that's what we need to do that's what we need to do as far as she was
concerned so like I said course I had no idea was when I had been until he left
out the room and I still remember this vividly to this day walks out the room
and you know the nurse comes right in with the gown you know with the little
situation when you've got to get a pelvic exam and my mom is like okay you
know um you need to unroll let me take you fishing for oh of course I wasn't
sexually nobody even asked no nobody else mom nobody asked
so not what I know now I know that I didn't even offer you at that time
because my stomach was hurting my stomach my stomach
yeah okay see my stomach but I'm pointed to my stomach was hurting not my lower
abdomen not even like held this no no that was all right I want him under
Chardon whatever money so anything that's my little ring um I'm like why
she like a news about me gonna check these gonna be alright
and I'm like okay of course I got no idea and then he gonna actually like put
something what I'm trusting my mom I do it on table you know I took my shorts
shorts and stuff off and I am laying there you know he'd come in he like look
now mom like and she like okay um then papers needs to start to do this exam he
like you know you're gonna be a little uncomfortable night you know a couple
don't sound when I'm comfort on me pain but so okay yeah my mama right here and
she okay we um he tries to it's a speculum
and he's having a difficult time of course because I am a child of course
it's hurtin I'm screaming to make a long story short he did that exam through my
discomfort and my tears he did that exam through my discomfort in my tongue it's
about two years he got the sample it was done he left out of there and I'm caught
I feel violated what just happy I'm a mama has to console me and she liking
are you okay they tryna see what's wrong but I blah and I had my first pelvic
exam as a child in a very rural town I'm not trying to make excuses for nobody
because everybody now I'm a nurse I know that we have to have continuing
education you have to keep your skills up you have to keep learning
um right head up that was just I just could not imagine now my children are
not that age they're older and my girls are and I just could not imagine the
doctor time but we need to do a pelvic exam
you ain't got no really valid reason not to do so and but then also I have that
experience of having had one done so had it done I believe of course from that
from a couple of days for a couple of days and I'm just traumatized
I'm just traumatized ain't tell nobody I just stuff so violated and I did not
understand and my mom was the kind of mom that really didn't give you no
explanation when she told you to do something you didn't ask no questions
yes my question is didi you next questions usually in trouble so it was
just a source of me being confused for quite a while and even now to this day I
don't know why he did that I don't know what he did
so oh wow I had nothing to do with that
so anyway this one time was a little traumatic I hope you all are okay out
there just make sure that you're not letting
dr. Swain your decisions because they the doctor I will say that because
that's definitely a lesson that I learned you know to be a advocate for my
children in myself when it comes to the medical field because what they say is
that always that is phone and this is coming from a nurse okay all right that
is the end of this story I hope you enjoyed it if you're not traumatized
like for real for you cuz I am okay I am okay I am okay we're gonna I'm good
my mom's good we're good everything but anyways I will put a link to my other
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