Hey, Tripp Kramer here from Tripp Advice.com. On today's video, I'm very excited because
I want to go into a broad overview of what it means when a woman is selecting a man. In other
words, what does it mean when a woman wants to be with a man and what makes her attracted to a man.
And if you learn this, you're going to understand how you can be a guy that women are attracted to.
I go deeper into this in my Hooked program. I talk about it quite a bit here on the channel.
You can check it out at www.getherhooked.com where I give you a full course on exactly what
to do to be the guy who can attract lots of women in your hometown and I go through it steps A - Z.
It starts right from the beginning of exactly what to do to go out and attract women and what
to do in terms of your personality and the way you look. Which is some of the things we're going to
be going over today on this video. First of all, you have to understand there's almost a hierarchy
in terms of how a woman views a man. And what makes her attracted. It's a lot different for
a guy like you. Guys see women in different ways than women see men. Let's start from the top of
the hierarchy. One of the most powerful ways that a woman might be attracted to or select a man is
this idea of social proof and status. If a guy has social proof and status, this is a way that
a woman might be attracted to him. We're going to go into that in just a second. And the second
part of the hierarchy is your looks. Your looks and all the other outer qualities; your money and
basically what you have in terms of your resources. And then the third thing is
your behavior. Let's go through this and how it all works together. First, starting with social
status and social proof. Let's imagine that you are a celebrity. Let's imagine you're a
celebrity who has it all. Just imagine the most attractive celebrity, whoever you want, Brad Pitt,
Ryan Reynolds, whatever. What do you have? You have resources, you have money, you have status,
you have looks, you have everything. This is the ultimate. Most women are going to be
attracted to a guy like that. But let's imagine that you have status and social proof. Again,
social proof meaning that lots of women desire this man. And because he's got status and lots of
people desire him, women find that more appealing. But let's say you don't have the looks going
for you. You're just like a 7 out of 10. Maybe you're like a mid line actor, but you still have
that social status and social proof. That's still gonna trump everything that because you have that,
a woman can look over the guy's looks and see wow, he's got status and social proof. This
is what's gonna make her attracted to that guy. My point here is social proof and social status
are the most powerful. Do you need that to attract a woman? No, you absolutely do not. You don't have
to be a big time actor or a famous celebrity to attract women, but this trumps everything. We're
going down the line. Let's talk about looks. I like to say that looks and resources, money,
wealth and your behavior, that third thing I was talking about, these interchange a little bit.
It's nice to have a little bit of both. But let's say that you are a guy who is good looking, tall,
you're over six feet, you're completely jacked. Let's say you have that going for you. Obviously,
a woman is going to go wow, that guy's very attractive. But we're now taking social status,
social proof off the table. That conversation is done with. Now you're just a guy who is very
attractive. Big shoulders, big broad shoulders, you have that v- shape in your body, small waist,
strong legs, tall, maybe long flowing hair. This is your typical attractive physical guy. A woman
will be attracted to that and she will sleep with a guy like that. But let's pretend that this guy
doesn't have the behavioral qualities. Remember, that was the third thing.
Let's say you're basically a vapid guy, completely empty, no charisma, maybe even a little bit shy.
Not very good with dealing with social situations, but you are attractive.
The bare minimum can get you laid. It can get you with a woman. The problem with that though,
is it's not going to necessarily go that far. Maybe for a small percentage of women,
a woman is going to be around a guy who is handsome and attractive, a small percentage
will. But it won't last that long. I work with coaching clients all the time who are your typical
attractive guy physically. However, it doesn't end up going too far for them. They can't even
approach a woman. And if they can't talk to a woman or they feel very shy around a woman,
it doesn't get them too far. Which is why I like to add this element in here that I always talk
about here on the Tripp Advice channel is this idea of your behavior, your behavioral qualities,
aka your personality. When it comes down to your personality, this also is one of the most
effective ways to be your most attractive self. Because if you are a guy who doesn't have those
physical attractive qualities... tall, lots of hair, a good looking guy, symmetrical face.
If you don't have those things, your personality can take you far in still being able to attract a
woman. My point of this video to help you out (I just don't want to talk about theory here)
is you can be a more (again personality right now) more charismatic, confident,
social individual who's not that great in the looks category and still be able to attract more
women. You can have that charisma. There are guys who you see all the time. I don't know if you've
seen it, but I see it all the time and I work with a lot of clients where we get them to this level,
where they are social, confident, know how to talk to a woman, know how to flirt with her, and
know how to give her a variety of emotions, which then makes her attracted even though he's not the
best looking guy. What can you do with this information? Chances are, you're watching this,
you may not be a celebrity with social proof. But that's okay. That's the top tier there.
But if you are a guy who's an average looking guy, my advice to you would be, let's just do the best
that you can with your looks. Let's wear clothes that fit and have a little bit of a fashion sense.
If you're super obese, get into the gym, and get down to more of a normal weight.
And work on grooming and the fact that you should have a beard that is not too scraggly and long.
If you feel that you're balding or have thinned down hair, maybe taking that down really tight.
Making yourself look the best that you can and then you're going to be working on building the
skill of attracting women. And the best way to do that is to go out and talk to women
as much as you can. Even if you're watching this and you say I am a pretty good looking guy.
Do not rely on this. Please do not rely on just your looks to be able to attract women. Instead,
you've got to be working on your personality. And you've got to be working on the behavioral
qualities. I like to break that down into 3 qualities – the way that you build tension,
the way that you are entertaining yourself in interactions, aka charisma. And then third,
your dominance in the way that you're assertive and you're always moving the interaction along,
asking her out, going for the kiss, being able to sleep with her, and making those moves. That's my
TED formula. Again, I talk more in depth about that in my Hooked program. There's a link down
below where you can check that out. This is all creating your personality and developing
the behaviors that are attractive to women. You have to understand that your personality
is hard to fake. This is a signal to a woman that you are an attractive guy. And we can even go all
the way back to caveman times where your behavior was the thing that was most attractive. Could you
be someone who could provide? Could you be the one who was courageous enough to go out there
in the wilderness and fight the animals to bring back the food and provide for the family? This is
shown now through you through the confidence in the ability to talk to a woman in a comfortable
way. Being able to give her eye contact, being able to throw a few jokes and being able to
lead the interaction to a place where you guys can get physical. All this are the behaviors
that attract a woman. This is what you need to do to build that personality. And the first step,
like I said a second ago, is to go out and practice talking to a woman. Something I
say all the time on this channel, which is so underrated and I have to say it a lot, is if you
were to never watch a YouTube video again, if you were to never do coaching or listen to a podcast,
or get any information ever again. Let's say the internet was completely gone and you couldn't read
any books on this matter. What could you do? The best thing you can do is go out and talk to as
many women as possible so you get used to talking to women, especially beautiful women. So you stop
putting them on a pedestal and start to build the skill of being able to attract more women. That's
something you can do and take away with this video. Hopefully you understand now this is the
different tiers of how women look at a man and say okay, this is a guy that I am attracted to.
We're talking about social proof. We're talking about your looks and then we're talking about
your behavioral qualities. I hope that helps. Try to use this. Press like if this has helped you and
I will see you on the next video. If you need more help, check out the links below where you
can get full access to one of my programs that can help you dive deeper into this material.