- February, the month typically known for love
has also generated many comments from the girls
about should we let their boyfriend go.
And most importantly, how to do this.
In this video I will answer for you both of the questions
in my five tips, so stay tuned.
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on where you should let him go,
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So without further ado the tip number one.
Have a timeframe.
For example, if your intention is to get married
you need to put in a timeframe to avoid wasting your time.
If you have been dating for a year plus
and you still have not met his extended family or friends
then this relationship is not growing
but instead staying stagnant.
The danger of staying in such a relationship will mean
that you are blocking yourself from the other man
because you are hoping and waiting
for your partner to step up.
Realistically for a man to know that
he sees you as a wife takes a less than a year
if you have been behaving high value.
It is important to have a timeframe, but make sure
to set it in from the moment that you have been behaving
as the best of you and see what is happening
in your relationship after a year.
Ladies if you will behave as the worst of you,
meaning low value, you may not see any improvement
even after five years.
Number two, watch his actions.
Is he using words like, "I will marry you next year"
but when next year comes and there is no mention of this
he needs to be showing you through his actions
that he's serious about you.
For example, talks about marriage
and the future need to come freely from him.
Be initiated by him and not you because as a man
he needs to be taking the lead towards this.
Essentially his actions will also help you discern
if you want to spend the rest of your life with him.
For example, if you're not happy right now in a relationship
with him then why spend the rest of your life with him?
Do you think you're gonna be happy with him
when you're married?
I don't think so.
Number three, let him go.
As I always say short-term pain for long-term happiness.
It may hurt when you let him go
but you must think long-term.
Staying in a stagnant relationship will only
make you unhappy because over time,
same things with no growth get very dull and boring.
And that's when men actually started taking women
for granted and started playing many, many games.
If he's not stepping up
let him go by cutting all of contact with him
as you break the news to him about calling it quits
might actually come after you to see will you take him back.
And at this stage it would be the best to see what he does
in terms of stepping up.
However, if he brings you the same old promises
then obviously it's the best to cut it off completely
and not entertain this joker anymore.
Let me just share quickly a couple of tips
how to get over the breakup.
One of the key things is focusing on something
that makes you happy and makes you grow
as a person gives a lot of meaning to your life.
Keeps your mind really busy and interested in that thing
and that is not related to him anymore.
But if you do not have, let's say a goal
or ambition or a dream that you can work on
which will bring meaning to your life
then being busy and taking on bigger responsibilities.
For example, helping others will move your thoughts
away from him.
Number four, Is this Deja Vu?
For example, he chases you like crazy, you take him back.
However, after a couple of weeks his actions revert back
to the same old behavior meaning there is no progression.
What's that?
Well in this case you gave it a chance to get
that what if out of your system
and you can now fully move on without wondering this.
You now need to stick to your word and leave it for good
for your own sake and happiness.
Number five, moving on.
You must give other men a chance in order to move on.
Date multiple men so that you can decide which one
is best for you.
You may feel the need to compare with your ex
but this becomes much easier when the guys you are dating
are better than him.
And let me share a bonus tip.
Ladies, very important.
If you have not been high value or the best of you
as I would say, you could be in a five-years relationship
with a guy with no progress as he will just
not see enough value in you to take things further.
So before letting a man go, I would really recommend to try
and be the best of you for at least six months and then see
are things improving or not.
And if they are not, well, then at least you will know
that you tried your best.
So you will not be thinking, What if I had been high value?
The key is to understand is if you are not being the best
of you and are expecting him to treat you with value
and respect, well, it's just not going to happen
as you're not showing any value or respect for yourself.
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