Hi everyone, it's Agnes and I have got a viewers question today
from Mark about letting go and dropping it. So I'm going to share with you Mark's question and then
I'm going to share with you what has actually worked for me over the last three decades in
relation to this question okay. So Mark says, if you are looking for video ideas I would love a
video on letting go and dropping it. But not the normal one type as everyone says drop the need,
drop the wanting ,drop the timing etc. I know you made this type of video before - but now
the how part. So explaining do you continue to affirm? Do you continue to visualize?
Do you stop scripting? Do you take down pictures of vision boards, of desires etc? So when letting
go as Hicks mentions to go general in relation to in this case a specific person. So it would be
great with a video with more of a game plan - self love concept 80/20 yes I know about that thanks.
Okay Mark very good question and I do think you know we hear lots of different things. I'm going
to share with you what's worked for me okay, not the theory but the experience. So in terms of
affirming, in terms of visualizing, still reading a script and looking at a vision board -
what does that mean to let go the how? All right I personally - I still did those things,
why? Because I enjoyed it, because it's fun to connect with your desire
through affirming, through visualizing, through scripting, it was a fun process. I basically
disregarded the letting go and dropping it, as in I continued to do the practices - but I will say
I let go and dropped it while I was in between these particular activities. So when at work,
when with friends, when with family, when exercising, whatever - I would drop it
unless I was out for a walk and I was affirming and walking okay. So I think it's important to
not get obsessed because if you're doing something 24/7 there's a whole bunch of need behind that.
It's fine to have a desire but to continue to be like a dog with a bone and never let it go that's
I think using all the processes to force okay. I don't think dropping it is something that I would
suggest - why? Because I know that I enjoyed doing it. Now in terms of manifesting the three
cars that I've had since I first started doing the law of attraction and using the law of attraction,
Neville's work you know all the other teachers to create these things that I wanted,
I enjoyed looking at my vision board it was at the bottom of my bed and I could see it.
So I wake up in the morning and it was there and it was the first thing I saw so it put in
my mind the solution of everything that I wanted. So it really worked for me to still see that every
morning but did I stand in front of it all day? No. I would go off and do other things,
so I would let it go in between. When I wasn't on my walk and affirming I would let go of
affirmations. When I was in meditation I would do my imaginal scene and then when I'd go and
do the dishes I would do something else. Now if my mind started to go on to something negative then I
would use the ho'oponopono I wouldn't just try and keep affirming or keep visualizing or keep - there
was some element of using the ho'oponopono to stop the mind going into ;I haven't got, I haven't got,
I haven't got.' Now as many of you know that have been around a while and have heard my story,
you know that I've manifested quite a lot of things. I have used this focusing - I wouldn't
drop things for a month, no. I would drop them for periods of time during the day but I would
always go back to it because it was enjoyable to think about the desire. So I have created
as said the three cars, the being free from a boss, now um having a laptop lifestyle as they say
and moving around to different countries and and traveling and taking my work with me and also
having the best relationship I've ever had with my specific person. So if you can use what is said
but then test it out in your own life with your own experience and see what works - don't always
just take what people say but test it out. Like when I was reading all these different authors
they would be sometimes contradicting each other and I'd be thinking okay I'm a bit confused then
I thought okay hang on a minute let me try this and see what happens, and I would try things out.
You can not get any better evidence than your own experience- even someone else's experience
isn't as good as yours. Because you have to prove it to yourself that it works you see
okay. So I will put uh down below and also up in the in the corner here the
list of the manifestations that I have created, my personal ones around work, around meaningful work,
around money, around my relationships, around travel, around breaking free of having a boss
and there have been lots of weird and wonderful other little quirky things
happen along the way and some big things too. So if you want to actually hear that
in more detail so you understand the background of my manifestations to help you a little bit,
the play the playlists and the videos links the to the YouTube's will be there
for you. So also one more uh YouTube that I will recommend - '1 Tip to Power Up your Manifesting,'
this is something that's really helped me as well and the link is down below. Lots of love everyone
and a big hug to you from London, England today and I will see you as always in the next YouTube.