(Trisha Paytas)your own life together get your own living situation together
you're giving this advice in your one-bedroom apartment you know what I
mean like get your own together if you were this genius mastermind like knows
everything Joel Olsteen frigging dr. Laura dr. film you have you a lot more
together call nine-one-one it hurts it hurts so bad being right what is up
everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the problem but
focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel I used to primarily focus
on mental health but a lot of people came after me so I kind of switch things
up and now I just kind of look at the YouTube community and do some commentary
and try to analyze it so if you're into that stuff and if you're into people
being right make sure you subscribe and bring that notification bell and follow
me on Instagram and Twitter at the rewired soul alright so this video if it
is monetized will be donating 20% to Nami the National Alliance on Mental
Illness all right so yeah sit back relax let me catch you all up to speed with a
little bit of a story so like I said by a channel originally started out as a
mental health channel and yeah mental health wasn't getting that many views so
I was like how do I teach people about something they don't necessarily want to
learn about and every now and then I would intertwine like you know youtuber
topics and things like that and I started getting a lot of requests saying
hey you seem to know a bit about borderline personality disorder can you
make some videos about Trisha Paytas and for a long time I said no all right and
plus I wasn't gonna diagnose her I'm not a licensed therapist or a psychologist
how could I diagnose anybody but more and more people started sending me clips
old videos some of them deleted where she said she had borderline personality
disorder so I'm like alright because I learned a long time ago one of the best
ways to teach people I know it's the way I learned
is when people can give me an example of something right so when I was just a
little little tiny youtuber I was like okay what I was trying to do was you
know show different behaviors that Trisha Paytas I'm like these you know
correlate with symptoms of borderline personality disorder if this is what you
have as well see a therapist here are some different exercises and practices
that you could do like dialectical behavioral therapy if you cannot afford
a therapist and I would recommend books and things like that that teach DBT well
during that time too I said that her and Jason Nash had a
pretty toxic relationship and that's something that I'm no stranger to I used
to be in a bunch of toxic verbally sometimes even physically abusive
relationships and I would point to them and say yo if your relationship looks
like this it's a bad idea and eventually Trisha Paytas topwind of my videos and
she made a video really mad at me when she was eating a chicken sandwich in a
car and she said this diagnose someone I think was in the description like Trisha
has by borderline personality disorder I don't so this started a narrative that I
diagnosed her with borderline personality disorder but as I said I'm
not a licensed therapist or psychologist and I don't even know her so I couldn't
diagnose her even if I wanted to so I pointed to Clips like this
no yo-yo if you're in a good mood you're gonna love it isn't that the fun part
though about dating someone with like borderline personality and like you
don't know what mood they're gonna be in are they gonna be happy are they gonna
be mad you're always in a good mood unless I piss you off now that did not
stop a bunch of drama channels and commentary channels from making videos
about me claiming that I diagnosed Trisha Paytas with borderline
personality disorder but today while watching her reaction to the age 3
podcast I realized that she posted this video on World Mental Health Day
discussing how she has borderline personality disorder he was in the
description like Trisha has by borderline personality disorder I don't
and oh my god just like I said I was merely relaying what she had already
said her diagnosis was all right but getting back to things that I was right
about really good at like working things I'm just like talking about it and like
both apologizing when we need to it's my best relationship and it's my best
healthiest relationship honestly that's where I need to go off I've never won
tell someone off more to like say these people shouldn't be together these
people like oh my it literally pisses me off and not a lot pisses me off just so
when I was talking about that relationship being toxic just so many
videos about me and Jason and our relationship as if he's a relationship
expert it's like look we're all right now maybe I know what I'm talking about
say that you follow me for a while you know my intentions are never to hurt
anyone they just aren't and if people are offended and this is bottom line
night I've thought a lot about this in the past few days especially if people
are offended that's really not my business and yes
Trisha I can relate so much to that we have our opinions sometimes they're
gonna make people upset maybe the way that we talk about things and Trisha
Paytas just made a video going off on a three calling them all sorts of names
and going off on him on Twitter so sometimes we are doing this and it
involves other people as well all right but much like Trisha Paytas my intention
is never to hurt anybody my intention is to educate and comment
on things that are out there in the public now some of you may have some
arguments about this for example you say don't talk about another person's
diagnosis but I would refer you to this he has mental illness so he beats women
a lot of people with mental illnesses don't obviously but you know this guy
has gone on record has been died right there that's Trisha Paytas talking
about someone else's bipolar disorder all right now something that she said
quite a few times in her video was this I was like he's such an expert and I
that it's honestly dangerous and honestly unhealthy okay is it really
dangerous when Trisha Paytas does this
and I actually haven't been on any medications and I'm not saying that's
like praying or anything like that I'm saying there are other ways of dealing
with mental health issues without having to take no she's just sharing her
experience and her opinion and like I always say go talk to a therapist a
doctor psychologist or a psychiatrist don't just take my word for it or don't
just like go and Google things now another argument maybe if you're not a
qualified professional you have no right talking about mental health or mental
illness but this is not something that's uncommon look at all these different
news articles that talk about celebrity addiction talk about celebrity mental
illness all right this is something that is part of our society okay
and the goal of my channel used to be to use these things as an example to help
you the viewer but it started raining down hell fire from these hateful drama
channels and commentary channels accusing me of doing something that I
never did alright so this video is about to switch and take a more positive turn
but I need you to do me a favor all right
if you could do me a favor and go out to some various hate videos about me from
the drama channels or commentary channels and ask them if they feel they
owe me an apology for accusing me of diagnosing Trisha Paytas now in all
seriousness I know I'm not you know Trish's you know a favorite person but
the reality is is that I have tried to defend Trisha Paytas alright as somebody
who has worked in the mental health industry as somebody who has had his own
struggles with mental illness I really want people to understand
then it's not just about people being good or bad it's like when we can
discuss the mental illness somebody has maybe we can explain some of their
behaviors I do not think Trisha Paytas is a bad person I have worked with
thousands of people who have struggled with borderline personality disorder and
I understand that they are dealing with something that's often rooted in trauma
so that's why I wanted to make these videos to explain hey all right
Trisha Paytas isn't this evil awful person these are just part of the
symptoms of something that she's struggling with but like check this out
this is the one of the top comments on this video about borderline personality
disorder alright saying that she's using her
mental illness as an excuse but no if you understood borderline personality
disorder you'd understand the various symptoms such as attention seeking
alright insane fear of abandonment the hypersexuality
the substance abuse and the latching on to different identities alright
so Trisha Paytas does talk about you know being misdiagnosed as bipolar and
everything like that and just from my personal experience and you could talk
to you know mental health professionals about this the DSM the Diagnostic and
Statistical Manual it is a framework right it gives mental health
professionals an idea of what symptoms that you're struggling with to get you
the right type of therapy for example when it comes to borderline personality
disorder one of the best therapies for it is dialectical behavioral therapy
with Trish's talks about in her video and why her therapist recommended it to
her alright so again nothing was ever with ill intention but I would never
talk about someone's mental illness unless they publicly discussed it and
all of you out there I hope you recognize when you watch the hate videos
about me there are many many many people who talk about my drug addiction but do
I get heard about it no because I made it
public all right but anyways that's all I got for this video if you like this
video please give it a thumbs up if you new make sure you subscribe and ring
that notification bell and go leave some comments on the drama and commentary
channels making hate videos about me seeing if they're interested in
apologizing to your old buddy Chris alright but before I let you go I want
to send out a huge thank you to everybody who supports the channel in
different ways by supporting on patreon or buying my books or merch and all that
kind of good stuff alright thanks again for watching I'll see you next time