Heart, if it is hurt, will tend to remain an introvert.
Heart, when it is joyful, there are moments when it would try to express itself
Some of us can be an introvert at times and sometimes extrovert
That also depends on our heart’s condition.
Broken heart, I mean, or heart that is hurt, it always happens to all of us.
Breaking of the heart, it only means that it hurts me at the emotional level
Something that I expected from someone, it did not happen
“I showered my love, but you see what I have become. She ditched me.”
Or, “I trusted my business partner with all, everything.
I gave him my signatory powers and so many other things, but you see what has happened.”
But that is your goodness, that is the goodness of your heart that you did all these things.
But let us see a person who says, “Oh, I gave all my love to this person and that person broke my heart
I got involved with the other person, that person also broke my heart
Does that mean that I should stop loving?” No, keep loving
because if someone breaks your heart and you say, “Not again, never again,
I shall not love anybody else, ever again.”
Then what will happen there? You are punishing yourself. Love is like a river flowing all the time.
The moment you make a dam, it will become a pond and it will start stinking in no time.
So love has to keep flowing like a river. Our job is to love, whether the other person responds or not.
If they respond, well, good, you have a good life. But not all are on the same page.
So we have to respect that and understand the reality of life
I will get hurt. That does not mean I should stop loving.
Well, extrovert persons are generally very jovial
They do not think too much about themselves; not in a negative way, but they are not very selfish.
Introvert person can be selfish and you can never judge an introvert person in life
Introvert persons are very reserved. They are not an out-going type.
They are reserved because of whatever reasons.
There could be millions of reasons for one being an introvert
But is a person born an introvert or an extrovert from day one?
I think, if you analyse this further, you will stumble upon such beautiful theories
to establish why this person is an extrovert and why this person is an introvert
It has mostly to do with a life which was led before this life
Because, in such a short span of let us say, five years or six years, or eight years, or ten years
nothing remarkable has happened that can make a person so introvert that he does not speak to an outsider,
or that makes a person so extrovert.
Nothing that flamboyant that happens, happened in that family to make this person almost like an actor
So the roots of this extrovert or introvert nature lies in other previous lives that we have lived
Now, extrovert nature and introvert nature, they have nothing much
I would say, they do not have much to do with the mind. It has everything to do with the heart Heart controls it.
Heart, if it is hurt, will tend to remain an introvert.
Heart, when it is joyful, there are moments when it would try to express itself
Some of us can be an introvert at times and sometimes extrovert
That also depends on our heart’s condition.
emotional status of the heart.
When a familiar person comes to you, when a person whom you love has suddenly appeared in your life
you start sharing so many things. Person might say, “Oh, you never talk like this.”
But you see, the person who has come has changed the way you behave and the way you talk
She or he has made you an extrovert. Now, similar things can happen, where you are so extrovert, jovial,
but meeting someone or having a certain situation in life can make you totally opposite
So there are possibilities that an introvert can become an extrovert and that is quite natural
Now, how do you justify that with the past lives?
There are patches of ‘introvertness’ and there are patches of ‘extrovertness.’
That also depends on the past karmas that we carry. Life is not uniformly sorrowful, or happiness
It is full of these mixed things. And again,
these mixed patches of garden or desert that we have created in the past through our thoughts and actions
and which again get reinforced, if we do not use restraints in our life.
There are times when you say, “I am so jovial”, and you feel like sharing so many things with the world
But if you are careful and apply restraint in your life, you will create a wall so that you do not overdo extrovertism, you see
Likewise, an introvert, the moment you become aware that you are so introvert
and you have the capabilities of getting out of this introvertness, you can spring out of it
use your will power and then you can become just fine , we can say.
So the idea is not to be too extrovert or introvert, but to somehow balance it. As needed, we should act up.
In a theatre or if you are acting on a stage and you say, “Oh, I am going to remain an introvert,”
it is fine if you are acting as an introvert. But a romantic scene and you become an introvert, your acting will fail.
So one has to know whether you are acting, or leading a real life.
Leading a real life, balancing both, is the best thing