- This video, I will share with you
five ways you are chasing him unintentionally.
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that you could be chasing him unintentionally,
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So, my ladies, without further ado,
you are chasing him unintentionally
if you are constantly looking at him
in a way that it becomes a form of gazing.
You know like gazing at someone for a bit longer
because you think they are cute.
Ladies, when you gaze a man or you stare at him
by checking him out, he can feel it
same as you can feel a man and guy checks you out.
However, when a man checks you out,
well, it's fine because he is the pursuer
and you're a lady, right,
but if you do it, well, it's not great
because then you are copying his masculine behavior
and pursuing him.
Number two.
Every single time he posts on his social media,
you are there to support him, comment, like,
or mark your territory.
Or perhaps you even tag him in your posts.
You watch his every story.
You take the hint, et cetera, right.
Maybe you even announce to the whole world
your love for him via social media posts.
Ladies, this is a form of pursuing also,
as you are showing high interest and behaving masculine
by marking your territory like that.
Saying that, of course,
if you are in a loving relationship,
you can be there for each other on social media too.
That's all fine, as long as it's not too much.
The key is just definitely don't do it
in the beginning stages, as not only as it can be a put-off,
it can also come across desperate.
Anyways, ladies, the best relationships
are the ones that are off social media anyway.
Number three, keeping him on a call
by extending the conversation is pursuing a guy.
For example, when he calls you or you call him
and he says that he has to go,
but you say no, I miss you so much,
stay just a little bit longer.
Perhaps you keep asking him questions
so he will just be there on the other line for you.
Ladies, this is pursuing also, and trust me, he will notice.
And you might say well, what's wrong with that?
Well, ladies, nothing is wrong
if it happens once in a blue moon from your side.
'Cause it can even be considered cute.
But if it's like this all the time,
soon he will get bored and will start to see you
as needy or clingy, and will get put off.
Number four, buying him little gifts, splitting the bill,
paying for the bill, sweeping him off his feet
by giving him a huge birthday parties
with expensive presents and homemade cakes by your parents.
Again, if you are in a stable,
happy relationship or marriage
where this is how you guys just do things
for everyone's birthday, and you know that he loves you
and adores every single part of you
because he constantly sweeps you off your feet
by his huge generosity anyway, it's fine then, right.
You should give a bit here and there,
and giving him a little party with a nice presents,
it's all good.
He is the main pursuer here in general speaking, right.
However, if the relationship just started
or you are experiencing troubles in your marriage,
going out of your way to please him or fix things
by pursuing him like this will not fix it.
It will ruin it.
Why?
Because this is a masculine behavior.
If you want to fix your relationship,
you need to focus on the problems that you are having
and try and find solutions for those problems,
rather than pursuing him by sweeping him off his feet,
which masculine man actually find very cringe.
And here comes the number five,
and it is moving to his country to live with him
is pursuing a guy.
For example, if you are dating long distance
and you are thinking that moving closer to him
will make the relation better, don't.
Not only that it's pursuing,
it's also your idea so it's like a double pursuit.
It's you going to a man from your own initiative.
It's you being a prince
and him being the princess in this castle.
Don't do it.
As the Bible says, it's a man that finds his wife,
not the other way around.
Remember it.
It's very important.
But now, what if he asks you to move to him?
Well, if you agree, you are actually still being the prince,
putting your own life on a hold and going to him,
so I would still not recommend that.
Ladies, unless you're married, don't go anywhere
you would not feel the need to move if you were single,
for example, and he wasn't in the picture.
So, ladies, these were my five ways
that you could be pursuing him unintentionally.
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