eighty percent of your financial success
comes down to this your words shape your
reality change your language I was a
single parent and I was absolutely broke
at one stage in my life because here's
the choice I'm having it I'm never
having it because your word shape your
reality
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hey this is Marissa pear and today I'm
going to teach you how to train your
brain to attract world to make more
money because that really is possible to
teach you in four different parts and by
the end of it you'll be amazed probably
delighted too that you can acquire that
wealth mindset faster than you ever
realized because you just have to know
what to do and I'm going to take you
through it step by step right now so
here's part one and I want you to
remember this because it is true true
your words shape your reality if you
don't like your reality the first thing
you have to do is change your language
you see you can be in a wealth language
state or a poverty language say what
does that mean well a poverty language
State means you say things like I'm
never able to afford that look at those
rich people they don't know they're born
I don't know how to get the money I'm
never going to get that I wish I could
afford that I'd only gonna ever get I'm
gonna have to save up so much it's out
of my reach so when I hear certain
people talk they are blocking their mind
they're right in their own way I can't
find the money well here's the thing
nobody finds money I don't know where
the money is coming from I'll never be
able to afford that looking at people
with wealth and going oh God that's just
a distant dream that's out of my reach
that's out of my league people with a
wealth mindset say I'm having that I'm
getting that that's got my name all over
it let me explain to you how that would
work let's imagine you're going to a
store but you're flipping through a
magazine this isn't you really want you
go oh I haven't got the money I can't
afford it I'm dirt poor I'm absolutely
broke I'll never have it now get it you
haven't got the money I was a single
parent and I was absolutely broke at one
stage in my life but what you do and you
look at an items to go I'm having that
next year I will have that I will have
that item that is going to be mine and I
taught this to my daughter at a very
early age of being associated Mommy I
want that I go okay darling you can have
that you'll have that for your birthday
because I didn't have money so I
couldn't go oh sure let me buy it for
you right now I didn't want to hear the
words no I can't afford it mommy hasn't
got any money don't shame even asking
for stuff I want never get I said to her
you want that then you will have it
perhaps going to be for birthday or
Christmas or Easter so you all have that
occasion I'd make her own stars and I
did that myself I'd look at how to say
hey I'm having that house I'm having
that life I'm having that engagement
ring even when I had no money I would
focus on having it it's coming to me
because here's the choice I'm having it
I'm never having it have immunotherapist
my entire adult life one of the things
that affects people so badly is this I
want something but it's not available to
me I want it but I'm never going to have
it that is literally a block wanting is
good but add to that and I will have it
I am having it this time next year next
month don't really quantify when just
say I'm having it listen to your
language take note of how you talk and
erase erratica eliminates stop using
can't find the money don't know where
it's coming from slips through my
fingers there's never enough I haven't
got enough to go around I don't know how
to get the money ban all those words and
change them it's not very simple it's
coming to me the money is coming to me
it's coming to me now see how does this
work well if you say I can't remember a
thing I've got such terrible memory
you'll have a terrible remember if you
say I've got a great memory All Coming
Back to Me Now like that Celine Dion's
on it's all coming back I mean you'll
have a great memory because your word
shape your reality don't like your
reality change your language first it's
the first step and the best step to
changing everything including your
ability to attract and maintain wealth
because here's the truth what is wealth
if I use the words wealthy rich or
abundant I could say I'm rich in love I
have a rich life I have Abundant Health
I feel so wealthy because I have so much
love in my life and when I was had a
small child and I really didn't have any
money I was almost in debt it was a
struggle to pay my mortgage my daughter
would say mommy are we rich again
darling we're so rich we are really
really rich we're incredibly well
healthy we've got so much I never talked
about money I just say we're rich we're
wealthy we have so much because I wanted
her to believe that and of course
because I said that everyone are going
to be wealthy we're rich Beyond ours we
have so much we're so abundant I
actually moved very quickly into
abundance from a struggling single
parent who was really struggling to pay
the mortgage to someone who had two
homes fully paid off mortgages I
realized I was using that mindset for
her but I was also using it on myself
and so I want you to think about where
are you wealthy are you healthy have you
got your house do you have friends
because that is wealth are you rich in
love are you abundant because it's a
choice as oh I don't I don't have enough
or I've got everything I've got so much
one day I took my daughter on Christmas
to feed homeless people in the Streets
of London I came home and I felt like a
billion I walked him I was like oh my
god I've got a fire I've got a sofa I've
got clean sheets I've got food in the
fridge and I felt him and see well what
people do is when they haven't got money
they look at rich people and think
they're not like me and they tend to
stay with people that have less and
they're in a poverty mindset and of
course when you hang out with very
wealthy or not you can think oh they've
got what I haven't got a few weeks ago I
had lunch with a billionaire I actually
went out with him and his armed guards
and driving home my husband said wow
they've got so much money I said yeah
but they haven't got what we've got we
changed people's lives we've saved so
many lives that is priceless and that's
the mindset oh I'm so jealous I'm so
envious they've got so much but I've got
so much too you see you have something
to offer the world and you can monetize
it but you've got to go to go to
understand that wealth is a feeling I
have so much I've got so much wealth is
a feeling it's a mindset if you get over
and go hey I'm wealthy I'm wealthy I'm
abundant I'm rich look at everything
I've got because you know if you went to
a third world country you would feel
like a billionaire you already are rich
by someone else's standard focus on the
feeling tell yourself I'm feeling
wealthy I'm feeling Rich I'm feeling
about I've got so much I've got so much
of everything and the more you get into
that feeling of being grateful for
everything you've got being really I'm
super grateful I've got this and this
and this because I promise you your
problem is already someone else's
fantasy dream come true have a job you
have a home you live in you have a car
you're already way ahead of half of the
world so really get into the feeling of
how much you've got and how much has
come into you more is coming more is
coming more is coming don't hold until
oh I can't spend it no more is coming
more is coming so much is coming get
that feeling but also think about how
are you going to attract more it's not
about going on money is falling from the
sky it's about the feeling of hey I'm
smart I have a gift everyone has a gift
I have a gift and I'm going to monetize
that gift and so much is coming because
I'm worth it
and I deserve it you see when you feel
that you're worth it you attract it when
you have that fear I don't know where
it's coming from I'm scared to spend it
whatever I don't get anymore that's the
wrong mindset it's the wrong feeling
because you're living you've gone back
to living in fear I can't tip because
I've got enough I've got to hold this
money so tightly I don't want to let it
go no circulate it send it out let it
come back your next part is to focus on
the feeling of being wealthy right now
imagine how far you've come tell
yourself you're wealthy you're rich and
you are massively abundant and you are
Master Manifesto manifesting more wealth
more riches and more abundance and the
more you do it the easier it is until it
isn't what you do it's who you are
that's what I did you go from being a
single parent owning a home in London a
home in La buying my daughter a home
outright and really living in that
wealth mindset because I made it
available that's the only difference
between you and me is is I made
available and I said it's available to
me I don't have it today but it's coming
it's coming really fast I I always made
myself have a wealth mindset and it's
done wonders for me there's actually
wonders for you and so here's the most
important part of all you must must must
sit with yourself every day and do this
I'm worthy of a lot of money I'm worthy
of what I'm deserving of wealth I'm
worthy of riches you might know that 70
of lottery winners are bankrupt in three
years why is that because they never
felt where they got ready but I've
worked with millionaires who got rid of
all of their money for one reason only
they never felt worth it so this is
actually the most important step every
day when you're in the shower cleaning
your teeth getting ready to go to work
when you're on a commute start to say
over and over again I'm worth it I
deserve it I'm attracting wealth because
I'm worth it I'm attracting abundance
because I'm worth it I'm a attracting
rich is because I deserve it I'm worth
it I'm worth it eighty percent of your
financial success comes down to this
having an abundance mindset so again
it's using that abundance language not
the poor language and then step two is
to imagine you're looking at your phone
and on your phone is a picture of what
you really want look at what you want
look at it look over it look around it
what do you require I don't even like
the word one I think wanting is wanting
requiring so I could say hey I'm looking
at myself here and I can see this great
business I've got an image of myself
selling something amazing
but when you really look over and around
and through what you require you'll see
something else you've got to actually do
some work the best plan in the world
won't work if you don't work you might
say well you know I'm an artist and
that's not in my nature to be marketable
sorry you got to do both you might say
I'm a spiritual person Wayne die was
spiritual he understood marketing you
know I write books but that's the easy
bit but I also had to learn how to
Market books talk about books become a
speaker go on podcasts and talk about my
books go to book signings and sign books
and if you're Angelo I don't like that
bit you can't have part two unless you
do part three and you can't have two or
three unless you do part one part one
sit and do this every day I'm worth it
I'm worth it until it isn't what you do
it's who you are look very clearly at
what you really really really require
and then decide what are you going to do
to make that happen what are you going
to have to learn any goal of
significance or has you to learn
something you do something new go
somewhere new learn about marketing or
speaking today if you want to be a
writer unless you can learn to be a
speaker too it's not going to work if
you want to have a business you don't
understand marketing I've trained 15 000
therapists and we teach marketing as
part of our course because it isn't
enough anymore to have a gift and a
talent but also go out there and learn
how to Market how to sell it how to make
people invest in you and again here
comes the language you don't say would
you like to buy this you say your
investment is so get into that wealth
mindset wealth language wealth visioning
and you'll become wealthy faster than
you ever imagined see you next time
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