- See I can't get her wine,
but I can get her a wine shirt.
(techno music)
- Hi!
Good day, I'm Avalon.
- Good day (both laugh)
(loud beep)
- Hi there, I'm Avalon.
- And I'm Jazzmyne, and today we're gonna be making
break-up kits.
Break-up survival kits are really popular,
on Etsy and Pinterest, and apparently you just
like help your friend out, and give them
a little kit to get them over this break-up,
and something else to focus on
and make them feel good and loved.
Wait, first of all, can I ask a question?
- [Woman Of Camera] Yeah.
- How many break-ups have you gone through?
- (giggles) I just got my first boyfriend two months ago.
- (giggles) So you have haven't even gone through
a break-up.
- No
- Ohh.
- I've kinda felt heartbreak before.
- Okay. - I've had animals die.
- Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's similar.
- Yeah
- I've been through quite a few break-ups.
(laughs) It's okay.
I am going to try to make this kit,
exactly what this girl needs,
which is gonna lean more so, on the empowerment
side then the grieving side.
But there will be some grieving side in there.
Ya know, like, we all need Oreos and
like a bottle of Moscato.
- Hmm
- Maybe you don't (laughs).
- This Miss Destinee, I have never met her,
but based on her story, I've looked over her case,
I've read it twice.
I just want her to feel loved.
- Yes.
- I want her to feel comforted.
I want her to feel happy and joyous.
- Hey y'all, I'm Destinee and I'm here to get
my break-up kit, 'cause woo child!
- Jazz gets it.
She's-- - Ohh.
- She was there for it.
- I was here for it.
You are in great hands, I feel confident with
me and Avalon. - Oh, yeah.
- (chuckles) We're coming at this from different sides,
but I feel like, we're gonna get you some good stuff.
- Okay, I'm excited.
I trust y'all.
- Yes - I'm putting full faith,
in you guys. - Trust us.
- So I started out being like,
alright we're gonna go straight for the sexiness.
Like, what would I wanna do?
I would wanna put on some lingerie,
take some body pictures and let them see 'em.
So I'm thinking like lingerie,
I'm thinking like, a perfect night to herself.
I know nothing about Destinee and what size she wears.
- We're heading to personal care and beauty
because that's like, literally amazing.
I think Jazzmyne went the other way,
which is where I think the alcohol is, so.
As soon as I started going around,
it was one thing to another.
Complete and utter chaos.
Face masks, a must do.
(gasps) Sports bra!
(singing) Da da da da!
I found the candle section!
This makes me think of the boy I'm currently dating,
he loves Poo-Pourri.
- Then I walked around some more, I found like,
a candle that was also cute, but it just felt,
like what I would get anybody, type of thing.
So, I was like alright, maybe I need to change
this up a little bit.
I had an idea, what I wanted to give her,
like sexy stuff, but then I realized no.
So I'm going to get her this mirror,
and I'm gonna write positive affirmations on it.
Then I'm gonna get her this little book
that I got for Christmas, my mom got it for me.
And I'll get it for her to called, I Am Enough.
- Amazing.
(woman talking over speaker system)
No.
They're trying to distract us.
Usually I'm like, crazy good with time management
and this was just like, time was gone.
What's going on?
We're gonna have to do something completely different.
Just switch it up in mir moments.
Green pants, green pants.
(check register beep)
(upbeat music)
Oh my gosh, they have mugs.
To toss in a little blue might be very pretty.
But then we need tea if we're gonna get that!
Oh my gosh, we gotta go!
(upbeat music)
Sweet cinnamon it is.
'Cause it looks the best.
Okay, we're good to go, that's everything.
- Alright we are back from shopping.
Our kits are all ready for Miss Destinee.
(Destinee squeals)
- [Avalon] So the theme based on
how it turned out, is tranquility.
- Mm-hmm, mm-hmm (Avalon giggles)
Can I open 'em? - Oh, open it!
- We got a chocolate latte. - Ohh.
- If she's, ever she's feeling like,
(sighs) don't think I can do it today,
like take that coffee and then boom!
- We got some sweet cinnamon--
- Check out the mug that goes with it.
- This is the mug.
The mug--
(Avalon laughs) - What does it say?
- I have the vocabulary of an educated sailor.
- [Jazzmyne] Oh, that's cute!
- That is, that is true.
- I remember when we were chatting before,
like our interviews, there was some cursing
going down, I'm like, she'll appreciate this.
This will make her smile.
(Desiree laughs)
- After my now lonely (beep)
(Avalon cackles) I have Poo-pourri.
- What inspired that? - Love it!
- It's about making the dirty beautiful.
- There we go. - The worst of you,
the best of you.
- See I am here for that, yes,
to your face scrubs, 'cause sis..
- Ya - Personal care.
- Yes - It's the best care.
(Jazzmyne yelps)
- Avalo--
- It's like loungey, to be cutes around the house.
- Oh, this ain't no be cute around the house lounging.
- That's the fabric that like, pops the booty too.
- Maybe I will pop some booty in it (laughs).
- What?
(beep)
- This is a really healthy survival kit.
- Yes - I think,
I will get through this for sure.
You did that, huh team, yes girl!
(Jazzmyne woots)
- [Jazzmyne] So for my break-up survival kit,
the theme is empowerment.
I hope she looks at these items
and remembers that she can love herself,
regardless if she's in a relationship or not.
- Can I open?
Can I open? - Yeah, yeah, yeah.
(rattle noise)
- Look at my mir--ah!
(Jazzmyne laughs)
Yo, and the thing is, I'm pretty sure
you didn't buy it like this.
- No (laughs).
- So this means, love was put into this.
- A lot of love.
- Going right on my desk, and nobody can touch it.
- Oh, yeah! - They're gonna be like,
touch it, look at me, no, no, no, no Pam, look at me.
Nobody touch my mirror!
(clicks tongue) That little black girl do,
huh look at her. - Yes!
- Look at her.
I Am Enough, oh she's so cute.
- I found this book that's called, I Am Enough,
and it's this like, little kid book
but it was just like, really beautiful to like read.
And it was all little girls that were like, woman of color.
This is dedicated to a year of loving you.
- [Jazzmyne] You know me.
- Look at this! - Yes
- Jazz, oh your stuff is so personal!
She went in and wrote stuff.
Every month I wrote empowering statements.
So at the top of one month it says like,
write three things that you love about yourself this month.
- Oh thank you Jazz! - Of course.
- Aww, I appreciate you. - Always.
- Well the gifts were very thoughtful
and very nice.
I think what I appreciate most of this experience,
was the fact that I knew somebody was there for me.
I appreciate y'all.
- We got you.
- Believe me, I wanted to get you like,
chicken nuggets and tequila but is that
really going to help you in the end?
- Yes. - Yes.
- Yes it would have.
- Well..
(laughter)
You can have the best of both worlds.
(everyone laughs)
(upbeat music)