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enneagram coach and today we're going to go over 10 signs that you might be an enneagram type 9 the
peacemaker but before we get started don't forget to push the subscribe button it's super important
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if i like it or not because i'm trying to find a new coffee drink well today i just had to make
one from home because i had no time like this week has been the busiest week ever but i am drinking a
coffee out of a mug i don't know if you can see it but it says peace i thought that was appropriate
for today's video to drink out of a mug um that says peace because we are talking about the
peacemakers today and without further ado let's get started okay so the first sign that you might
be an enneagram type nine is you don't feel like you're very important you don't feel like your
presence matters because what is the core longing of a type 9 that your presence matters i know for
myself i actually have to tell myself sometimes look myself in the mirror and go your presence matters because
it's a lie i've believed since i was a little girl and i want to speak truth over myself and so that's really
important if you're in you grab type 9 to believe you are important and your presence does
matter okay so let's move on to the second sign and that would be you'll do almost anything to avoid conflict
the core fear of a 9 is conflict and so a type 9 conflict is the worst thing for them they don't want to do it
they'll do almost anything to avoid it and so if this is like to you like one of your core things
where you're like oh conflict is the hardest thing
you might be an enneagram type nine the third sign is you find routines very comforting
this is a big one for me um a lot of times type nines like to do i don't know like to have the
same routine every day the same morning routine evening routine i know for myself there's only
two types of things that i eat every morning for breakfast i either eat oatmeal or greek yogurt i
don't know why i find comfort in knowing my body knows how to process that it does well with that
um i don't know i'm just weird like that i'll eat a lot of similar items almost every single day and
then also i like to go to bed by you know eight or nine every night um but those are my routines
if you're a type 9 you might you'll probably have different routines but and actually let me know in
the comments below if you are a type 9 or whatever type that you are does any routine just pop in
your mind right now that every day you have to do this routine or you want to do this routine and it
brings you comfort i'd love to know that okay so the fourth sign is you're very stubborn and this
one actually is super surprising to people because they're they're like no the type nine they're the
peacemaker yes but they're very stubborn they're the most stubborn out of all types
i think it has to do with like there's certain things that we won't budge on where you know
certain morals and beliefs and and structures and whatever that looks like there's no budging
us and so we can be really really stubborn if we want to be all right so moving on to number five
you tend to procrastinate now i know a lot of other types probably do procrastinate too
but the nine is a big procrastinator and usually has to do with uh things just feel overwhelming
they don't know where to start um that you know like it just is just a lot for them and so
they'll procrastinate a lot of times but i will say once a nine gets started they will finish they
will do a really good job and they will finish it and they will go all in it's just getting started
can be hard for a nine sometimes all right moving right along to number six you go along to get
along the type nine usually is very go with the flow easy going yup you wanna do that no big deal
um they kind of just go with the flow and don't mind doing what everybody else wants to do
i know for myself i'd rather everybody else make the decision on where to go for dinner and stuff
like that i'd rather be easy going about that kind of stuff it actually feels like a big decision
anytime my husband's like what do you want to do where you want to go i'm like ah
that's a lot of pressure can you just throw some ideas out there and i usually actually know what
i don't want to do um if you're a nine let me know in the comments below do you resonate with that or
i know what i don't want to do but a lot of times i don't know what i want
to do but anyways at number six is um they're very easygoing and they go along to get along
so let's move on to number seven a type nine they love the outdoors i don't know
any type nines though don't love the outdoors whether it be the mountains the ocean taking a
walk just breathing in the outside air and i was thinking about this earlier and i thought i wonder
why why is that and i think the outdoors is very calming and very peaceful for a type nine and
you know it they don't have to deal with conflict or people's opinions or anything it's just a place
where they can go and they can breathe and relax so a type nine they love the outdoors usually okay
so number eight is this is a big one for me you put off all the hard tasks and you do all the easy
things first and what this would look like is if you have like a project or a paper to write or i
don't know something at work that needs to be done or anything anything that just seems overwhelming
and hard a lot of times the type nine will go well you know i think i need to do the dishes or the
laundry or fold the clothes um vacuum or whatever that is i know for me when i have something super
overwhelming that i need to do all of a sudden i feel like i need to redo an office or something
so i will do something easy so for me that's easy versus the hard thing which is usually building
a course or or something along those lines uh redoing my website or anything like that that
i'm like it's so overwhelming where do i start and so a type nine usually will put off all the
hard tasks and do the easy ones first the ninth sign that you might be a type nine is it's really
hard to assert your opinion um that wound entitled message of a type nine is it's not okay to assert
yourself and so for a nine it can be very hard for them to insert themselves in a conversation
if they're with a group or with anybody or at any time it's just it takes a lot for a type nine to
assert themselves because they're constantly fighting that that voice that they heard as a
child and um that it's not okay to assert yourself so and so that is a big sign that you might be a
type nine if it is really painfully hard to assert yourself into a conversation a group or anything
like that all right so the last thing is can you guess it it's a type nine can see all sides that
is right they can see all sides and you know they're at the top of the circle the enneagram
circle they can and they can merge with all people therefore they can see all sides um they make
great mediators and and different things like that they they really love to bring people together
and i would say this is a gifting but i do get in trouble sometimes because i will have a friend
come up to me tell me an issue and then you know assume i'm going to take their side and usually i
could totally see their side i totally relate and understand but i also could see the other person's
side which like i said could get me in trouble but that is a gift a nine could do is to see all sides
and help bring people together so okay so that's all i have for the 10 signs that you might be
an enneagram type 9 if you guys found value in this video please give it a thumbs up and push
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speaking of that i if you are watching this video and you're like gosh even after all ten of those
i'm still unsure what my type is or if i am a type nine i do offer a discover you typing session it's
a one hour session over zoom skype facetime and we get down to the bottom of what your type is and
usually we can figure out not only your type but your wings and your subtype and so that is like
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