- Hey, what's up?
It's me, Jessica Jane.
I was just wondering
if you've ever sat and thought to yourself
what are some little signals I'm giving off
that I'm not confident, Jessica?
Well, if so, I'm glad you asked.
So this is something that I've seen plenty of men do
wherever they are in their lives,
however great things are with you,
however capable you are of carying conversation with women.
It's these three things
that actually make women unsure of you
without them realizing
why the fuck they're unsure about you.
And it really deals with these subconscious signals
we're giving off
that tell her that we are not pound town material,
or even partnership town.
And to make sure you never miss out
on another opportunity to find out the submissive signals
you're actually giving off to women
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Okay, so like I said,
these are things
that you might not necessarily catch in other men.
Women might not even necessarily catch it in you.
I have so many girlfriends that come to me
and they don't know why they are not attracted to these guys
who are just super great on paper.
They have a lot of fun with these guys,
and yet there's something.
So just a heads up,
these three things are things that can only come up
if you're actually in a conversation with a woman,
if you are able to interact with her.
So if you're out there
and you're not interacting with any women at all,
check out my Speak to Spark Arousal System
which is gonna show you
how to not only get your foot in the door
but your peen in the vageen.
And as always, stay 'til the last one
because that is the number one deal breaker for us women.
And I don't want you to be losing out on any more women
in your life,
especially the ones that you absolutely want.
Okay, so the first one,
I always used to do this in the club in my 20s.
This is how I used to test men
to see if I wanted to go to pound town with them.
So if you do have my Speak to Spark Arousal System,
you're very aware that one of the ways
that I talk about creating sexual tension
is the three second eye hold.
It's been shown
that if you are able to maintain eye contact with somebody
for at least three seconds,
you will be intimate with them one way or another.
So the first hidden signal that you lack confidence
is you are the first one to break eye contact
from the three second eye hold.
So I used to go to the bars and clubs in my 20s
on Hollywood Boulevard.
And if I saw a sexy ass dude and we made eye contact,
if he broke eye contact first.
And sure enough,
if he came up and talked to me,
he usually said some dumb shit
that made him unattractive anyway.
But if I broke eye contact first,
he and I usually ended up hooking up.
Things we do and our youth.
So the reason this shows you lack confidence
is because the three second eye hold
is meant to create sexual tension.
If you are the one who breaks it first,
what you're doing
is you're submitting to the sexual tension buildup
as opposed to holding the sexual tension.
What this does is it shows women
that you aren't capable of holding it.
You aren't capable of directing it
and you aren't capable of directing us in the pound town.
Like I said in my last video,
we wanna come undone for you,
but we wanna come undone
for the guys who can facilitate that
and make us feel eager enough to do so.
If you're the one running away from a little eye contact,
how are you gonna handle us in the bedroom?
The second one is when you talk negatively about men
that are subjectively better off than you.
So are you the guy who's making fun
of all those dudes in the gym,
like oh, what a loser,
or even guys with Ferraris are so obnoxious,
get over yourself, bro.
You clearly have a small dick.
But I have a big dick I swear because I drive a Camry.
If you're talking smack about men that are above you,
it makes you look like you are not of high status.
And don't get me wrong,
you could be a high value, high status man
without being objectively better physically or financially
than other men.
Not only does it show
that you probably don't strive to be better,
but you're also probably not capable of growth either.
Now the third one,
I feel like a broken record mentioning this again
because I mention it all the time,
and that is not moving things forward
sexually or romantically.
In the group chat with my girlfriends
that we have been discussing for the past 48 hours
is why my girlfriend
should not go after this obvious red flag of a human being.
This is a 40 year old man who still lives with his mother,
still lives with his ex-wife,
is unemployed.
However, however he has the confidence
to be like, listen, girl,
I don't care where I'm at in my life.
I have to have you.
You are so fucking stunning.
I've never messaged anybody off this app,
but you bitch, you're that bitch.
And he's been saying this from the first text.
And sure enough, my girlfriend,
God bless her,
she's like, oh my God, fine,
he's like a total red flag,
but like he feels so passionate.
Bitch he is passionate of trying to move into your home
because he's a hobosexual
who's currently living with his mother
and he's only talking to chicks for a place to live.
So if you're that guy who is fantastic on paper,
not living with your mother and your ex-wife at 40
and you're employed,
but you don't know how to move things forward romantically,
we women are gonna pass on you every time
for a man who knows how.
And at this point,
you have no excuse in not knowing how
because in my Speak to Spark Arousal System
I lay it out for you step-by-step.
And it's only three steps and it's easy as fuck.
Ask anybody in the comment section, hey,
have you done Jessica's Speak to Spark Arousal System?
And they're like, yeah, bro,
bagging bitches everyday now.
Disclaimer, the results are not typical of everybody,
only for the guys who follow everything down to a T,
but there's no reason you shouldn't be able to
because I'm telling you that's what we women want.
That's what we're doing this dance for.
We're trying to see if we could be in each other's lives
and being in each other's lives
means pounding the shit out of each other in the bedroom.
Now, that doesn't necessarily mean
that's the only way you can flirt or move things forward,
which is what I go over in Speak to Spark Arousal
is how to move things forward
without being too persistent or weird or too forward
and without having to be blatantly sexual.
It's about finding the flirting that fits you.
So again, if you haven't checked it out yet
and you know that moving things forward isn't your forte,
speaktosparkarousal.com,
I promise you'll have it figured out before the year ends.
So check yourself for these three things.
I promise, this is something you can handle over night.
Thanks for watching as always
and I'll see you guys next time.