- May I ask your name is? - My name is Nut
- Can you speak English? - Yes, I can
Like a little bit?
- I can speak fairly well - Okay
Let's say someone likes you. Let's say it's me, what should I do?
(K): How to start flirting? (Nut): You mean someone I don't know before?
Actually, you can just do a simple greeting like saying hi, or like giving me a smile
I don't know. Men who likes to smile are my kryptonite. Being playful could also help too.
(K): Well, I am already lost because you can't see me smiling under this mask (Nut): That's fine
It's okay I can use my imagination
(K): So you imagine a lot, huh? (Nut): No, I don't do that often
Let's say if we met each other in a cafe or something, that could be okay
What if I saw you on the street? Let's say if we met each other in a cafe or something, that could be okay
What if I saw you on the street?
Can I be like "hello"? Or do I need a better pick up line?
Well, actually, you can just do normal greeting
(Flirting) is not something that is fixed. If you can get me talking, that would be even better.
We could start talking and start as a friend. Because sometimes, if you approach me and start with the pickup line directly, it would be like "huh?"
(K:) That would be coming out too strong? (Nut): That's right
- If you have a chance, would you date a foreigner?
(Nut): Actually, I dated foreigners. (K): Where are they from?
I used to date someone from England and Slovakia.
(K): Have you ever dated Thai people? (Nut): Yes
Is there anything different between Thai and foreigners?
Yes, I think there are a lot of differences
Maybe that's probably because of the mindset and the culture
I feel they are quite different
Is it a good thing, or?
In each culture, there are good things and not-so-good things
Let's put it this way: there are something that could be improved
For example, for foreigners
They are great at how direct and open they are
Thai people are more likely to "greng jai" (politeness/considerate)
(K): So, it's not like they are 100% good or bad, right? (Nut): That's right
Do you have a type?
If what you meant a type which will trigger "love at first sight" for me, then no
Like you need time to absorb?
Yes, because mostly I attract to people I already know
starting from being friends and develop from there. It took a bit of time for me to be attracted to someone, not fall for someone at first sight
Sounds like a friendzone
Won't a lot of guys stuck in your friendzone?
There might be some, but not a lot
Where should we go for the first date?
For me, I like to do something chill. It could be a walk in a park
sitting down in a cafe or something like that. It could be doing something together
anything that is not in a nightclub or in a bar
Like, walking in a park is fine?
(Nut): That's right (K): That's good. No need to spend the money
It's quite chill, just getting to know each other
(K): So, it's about the quality of conversation? (Nut): That's right
(K): If it's the right person, anywhere is fine? (Nut): That's correct!
Let's say I take you to dinner. Who should be paying?
For me, I feel it's the decision of two people (the date)
We spending times together, so going dutch would be the best way. This is my personal opinion
(K): How about your previous dates? (Nut): I always try to go dutch but
Some men would insist on paying, so I'm fine with that. I don't want to force them.
It's true. If it's me, I would pay the bill. Ain't that looking bad? Men who wants to go dutch?
Going dutch is fine because that's the way it's supposed to be. But if they really insist on paying
I wouldn't reject his generosity
How long should a couple be in a relationship before you get married?
How long should be in a relationship before getting married?
Maybe you don't want to get married?
I would rather say that I don't have a dream of getting married
I don't want a wedding ceremony. I don't want an extravagant ceremony at all
I like the idea of keep on staying together. But if you really want to ask me how long should one be in a relationship
before moving in together or getting married
I think there is no fixed timeline for that. It's really up to how both of them are feeling
how compatible they feel toward each other, how much they went through together and how ready they are.
- Does it mean that you can stay with someone forever without getting married? - Yeah
Like forever forever?
Sure, I don't mind
but at some point, we have to make it official like completing the civil marriage registration. No need for the ceremony.
That's is quite progressive mindset! I got both kind of responses in my past interviews.
For you, what is "living"?
(Nut): What is living? (K): Is it too difficult?
It seems difficult, but not that difficult
(K): It could be "what are you living for?" (Nut): What do I live for? For me, I think
"Living" (life) for me, is
being able to do things I want to do
like it does not have to be huge. It can be something simple like being able to wake up and have a cup of hot chocolate
and then take a walk outside. Something like that
That is quite a simple life! Do you have a favorite food?
Everything I can eat
(K): Is there something super special that you want to eat? (Nut): Thing I specially want to eat?
(Nut): Whoa! (K): Seems like you like a lot of food
I like eating a lot, I can't choose which is my favorite
(Nut): I'll choose Tapioca tea then (K): Okay, tapioca tea
If you are at a karaoke machine, which song would you sing?
Too bad. I don't possess a good voice. How about "ABC song"?
Just a name of a song is fine. I'm not asking you to sing.
I don't know why I think of this song, but maybe because we are talking about this.
"A Way Back Into Love" (Hugh Grant)
(K): 🎵 "All I wanna do..." right? (Nut): Yeah
Damn! That's a classic song
Okay, I'm out of questions now. Thank you so much!