By the end of this video you're gonna know
what the five things are that a narcissist
does when they are done with you.
So that you will be ready for them
so that you can fight back.
So stay tuned.
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Okay.
So what happens when
that narcissist is done with you?
So the thing is that narcissist
see things in black and white.
You're either for them or you're against them.
I mean, honestly when
when things go downhill,
you become public enemy number one
whether it's you doing the discarding
or them doing the discarding,
you are now public enemy number one.
You're taking that supply away from them.
So it's going to be this war.
Alright?
So they wanna save their ego.
Alright?
So that's what's happening there.
You're taking away that supply.
So they don't want to be exposed.
Now becomes this game of war.
Right?
So the first thing that they're gonna do,
if possible I mean,
one of the things that they may do
when they're done with you
So if they if they see you out in public,
they may just like, totally ignore you.
You know, walk buy you like
they've never even met you before
because especially if they think that
that's gonna really really hurt you
they know what your achilles' heel is.
They know how to hurt you.
They know how to get under your skin.
They know what your trigger points are.
So if they know that that's one of those
things that's really going to cause you
pain then that's something
that they will definitely do.
Completely walk by you.
Completely treat you like a total stranger.
So that's one of the things that a narcissist
may do when they are done with you.
Another thing that a narcissist may do
when they are done with you is
And by the way, this will be even if you
did absolutely everything for them,
gave them everything,
gave them your life,
show them absolutely everything no matter
what whether whether it was business,
whether it was personal,
and you're over there going.
Wow, I did everything for you.
What about this?
What about thatM
Look at all this stuff that I did for you.
I did divorce law for a really long time
and I I know how many times
I sat through conversations with
clients who said
‘‘I did all of these things for this spouse.’’’
‘‘I put them through medical school.’’
‘‘I supported them through this’’
I did that
or even in business, you know?
I mean, I know for myself,
I was a business partner with a narcissist
and I did absolutely
everything.
You know, because narcissists
are inherently lazy
and it doesn't matter they will
punish you to the ends of the earth
and they'll go around and tell
everybody that they did everything.
I mean, you were horrible to them.
They were the victim.
They will show completely
disgust toward you
and they have no shame,
no scruples,
and no conscience about it.
They'll put you in jail,
whatever it is that they need
to do to punish you for it.
That's another thing a narcissist
will do when they're done with you.
Another thing a narcissist will do
when they're done with you
and tell everybody that that was all your fault
and that you destroyed everything
and then try to make you feel guilty for it
and then the crazy thing is
after they do all of that,
then they'll say, but if you want
to continue in the relationship.
Here's how you know,
you can continue to do that.
Even after they've done all of this,
like horrible stuff toward you
but if you wanna
continue in the relationship,
here's how you can continue to do that.
I remember this happened in my business situation.
It was like, after all this like,
horrible stuff, it was like,
but here's how you can
continue in this relationship
and I was like thinking,
I don't even wanna see your face ever.
Like, I don't even ever wanna hear your name.
They're so delusional but yet,
that's what they say.
And by the way,
it's during this discard phase that you
see the birth of the smear campaign
and sometimes it's even long
before the discard phase
and I do have an entire video on
How you can shut down the smear campaign.
You definitely do wanna check that out.
Check out that video on
How to shut down the smear campaign.
and put in the comments right now,
‘‘SHUT THEMM DOWN!’’
because you do
wanna shut them down.
Okay?
Number four.
Whoever that is and they're gonna
hope that they got better supply
or whatever it seems like is perceived
to be better supply than you
Because they wanna make it
seem like they've moved on
and they've moved on to
better supply than you
and they're gonna pretend like they're
so much happier with
their next form of supply
and try to rub it in your face
in any way that they can,
through their flying monkeys,
through social media,
through third parties,
in whatever way possible or sending you emails,
sending you pictures,
sending you texts,
through your kids,
in whatever way possible to
make it seem like they're
so much happier without you
or even tell you in person,
look at me so much better off and so much
happier and in such a better place without you
and then the next thing is
with full force,
full on in every way possible
using the court system,
using people,
themselves,
every form of communication.
The kids, absolutely everything they've got.
Police whatever they can to punish you,
to use their animosity,
their disrespect to be as brutal
and horrible as possible to punish you
and go after you in every possible way
and so that's the last thing that they'll do
and depending on how malignant
and horrible they do they are.
They may stock you.
I mean, whatever it is that they need to do.
A fraudulent charges.
Say that you were a child molester or whatever
I've seen that, say that you beat your wife
or husband.
You know,
I mean, just about anything I've seen.
So that's the last thing that they may do.
That's, you know, super unfortunate but
I mean, if they're a covert narcissist and
they want to appear like they're fine
upstanding people in the community.
They don't generally tend to
go through the stocking route
or things like that because they don't want to get arrested
but they will definitely line up flying monkeys
and they will lie to people
and things like that.
I mean, they will use gaslighting and they will
go as far under the radar as they possibly can.
They will definitely try to make it
look like they are the victim of you.
A hundred percent they will do that.
A hundred percent
but they will just go about it in a different way
that's for sure.
So I would love to know what your comments are.
You know,
as far as the things that you guys have seen that
narcissist will do when they're done with you.
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