hey everybody I find myself getting bullied in comments and I know I've
opened myself to a whole nother group of people and that's fine and I'm an adult
and like if I have to block you that's what I'm gonna do because I don't have
to allow you to hang out in my pool like most of my viewers you know like
bullying or shit-talking or like harassing people it's never going
anywhere in the community and I'll just block you everywhere as many different
you know profiles as you can create who is a youtuber here on the platform just
did her video the dark side of Jake Paul with Shane Dawson and she's been getting
a few things to say so make sure that you stay tuned what is up everybody this
is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the problem but focus on the
solution and if you're new to my channel my channel is all about mental health
sometimes I take things from the YouTube community or just pop culture in general
your try to teach you how to improve your mental health but also a mental
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notification bell because I make a ton of videos so let's break it down real
quick for those of you who are in a cave and you don't know what's going on with
the scene Dawson series about Jay Paul basically Shane Dawson is doing a series
about Jay Paul she believes that Jake might be a sociopath in his first
episode he talked with commentary youtuber by the name of I'm Albert in
this second episode we talked with Kati Morton who has almost a half a million
subscribers she's a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist if you watch the
videos on link up in the info card I sang her praises she's a very smart
well-educated woman and like she she knows her stuff when it comes to mental
health and therapy and things like that so that's one of the reason she's so
popular on the platform now in the video she she talks about sociopaths in a not
so kind way and basically I was just going through in
Serbia today I follow Katie on Instagram and I saw her story and I'm like god I
need to talk about this so what I'm gonna do I'm gonna play you a majority
of her Instagram story no comeback no more breaking apart okay hey everybody I
had a video alive today and I want to talk a little bit about it because I've
gotten a few comments not a ton but just a few comments that I think it's kind of
important to address your concerns now those comments that I received were
people saying that they were like disappointed that I would say that
people that sociopaths or people with antisocial personality disorder can't be
fixed and that's not really what I'm saying what I'm saying is they don't
care to be and that's because if you listen to a whole video you have to
understand that people who are sociopaths don't feel bad about
themselves they don't want to get better and so it's not really that we're saying
they're unfixable and they're terrible and bull you should stay away from them
it's just like they don't really feel bad and for those of us who are not
sociopaths that's really hard for us to understand because we feel bad about it
but just keep in mind that they don't and I know that that's kind of difficult
to understand but I don't know all um you can swipe up here to watch the video
and listen but I'd love to hear your thoughts and also a lot of people are
talking about sociopaths and Psychopaths mean different words one's born with it
one's created and I know that there's a lot of information online that supports
that but diagnostically speaking from a clinician standpoint there is no
difference and that's just all I have to say about but as always you have every
right to have your own opinion my opinion is not the one and only thing
that is important that's why I love to have conversations with you in the
comments but I hope you found today's video interesting I did a ton of
research I read a bunch of books about this topic so I hope you like it hey
everybody I find myself getting bullied in comments and I know I've opened
myself to a whole nother group of people and that's fine and I'm an adult and
like if I have to block you that's what I'm gonna do because I don't have to
allow you to hang out in my pool because this is my pool but just to address the
people that are like how dare you talk about sociopaths as they are and like
dehumanize them I'm not dehumanizing them what I'm doing is telling people
what to look out for because if you haven't recognized this sociopaths
sociopathy you're antisocial or antisocial personality disorder
they don't have empathy for other people and often utilize other people to
further their own gain which can be really hurtful to a lot of us and that
means that if there's only four percent of the population four percent of
population otherwise known as one and twenty five people have this I don't
want any of us to fall victim to their manipulation and sure those people that
can make them sound like they're bad people but if you're using people for
your own gain and not in a thoughtful manner and if you're not helping people
in a loving manner that I'm sorry but I'm gonna protect the ninety six percent
of people who might be negatively affected and if you are the four percent
then you should get help but we know statistically speaking that those with
antisocial personality disorder don't get help and when they do get help they
actually use the information that it would gain from a therapist such as
myself as a way to hurt others and this isn't meant to stigmatize other mental
illnesses you guys know me I've been putting out videos forever about all
sorts of mental illnesses and so if you feel upset or hurt by that that actually
means you're not a sociopath and just know that we need to be more aware we
need to talk about it more nobody talks about it that's really the whole goal of
the video is just to educate and let you know that's it just know that like most
of my viewers you know like bullying or shit-talking or like harassing people is
never going anywhere in the community and I'll just block you everywhere
as many different you know profiles you can create because that's just not nice
and I think overall I'm just upset that people would think that I would want to
stigmatize mental illness more that just shows you don't know me and I think
that's sad to me and disappointing because I have like a thousand videos to
prove the opposite thing
because I definitely understand while I was watching the video you know it's so
difficult yesterday about me to
everybody all right understand here's the thing on the same day so yesterday
Kati Morton posted a video on her channel is his sociopath doctor Kent
Kiehl published a book in 2014 of his findings from doing research on male
inmates and I know yes it's just males and yes these are only people in prisons
now he was able to compare the brains using structural MRI data of inmates who
had scored high on hair psychopathy checklist meaning that they were already
Psychopaths that's what that checklist tells us and he compared those brains
with those who did not score high on that
checklist so they're not a sociopath what they found was astounding
sociopaths showed reduced gray matter in the orbital frontal cortex amygdala
hippocampus insula temporal lobe and the int anterior and the posterior cingulate
meaning that the entire paralimbic circuitry was impaired rewired soulless
because I talked about how science has proven neuroplasticity on how it can
rewire our brain so Katie through her extensive research she learned that
sociopaths actually have different brain chemistry than the average person so
like when you look at that when you look at that I look at it in the realm of
mental illness like this person's brain is not functioning properly right with
these different parts of the brain interacting with each other and how
there's decreased grey matter grey matter like they're not experiencing
empathy in the same way that somebody should right so what I would say what I
would argue is that we need to do more researchers to see how we could fix that
you know because I don't like the idea like every one of these people you know
obviously every human being has a mother and a father right a lot of them have
brothers sisters you know and stuff like that so even criminals like I'm of the
belief that criminals should be rehabilitated but if people are
biologically different where their brain cannot empathize or how the conscience
you know the good and bad and stuff like that like I think we need to fund some
research to figure out how do we fix that
you know lock it away forever and then they're separated from the families and
all that kind of stuff so again when I can see where some of some of the people
were kind of offended or disagree was she said like I'm the drug addict an
alcoholic in recovery okay watching her video with shame about
yo paths like so many addicts so many people in active addiction have
sociopaths sociopathic tendencies right like everything I did was to get I would
manipulate Allah I would cheat steal I not only did it to get and use drugs or
get and drink alcohol I also did it you know to women I did it to friends and
family otherwise I would say exactly what they needed to hear so I could get
what I wanted right but I am six years clean and sober if you ask anybody who
knows me I am rehabilitated so like I don't believe that people are lost
causes when it comes to the sociopaths though it's difficult because we know
their brains are different and I don't know if science has gotten there but I
don't think anybody's lost cause okay now now the pro Katie Borden side I get
it I get what she's saying okay for those of you who don't know I I'll link
down in the description below shameless plug I wrote a book called
caught in the crossfire a book for anybody who's been affected by a drug
addict or an alcoholic right because most people they want to know how do I
help them how do I help this person but in the book I explain why sometimes you
got to cut that person out of your life right anyway so I get what Katie's
saying like it's tough and like as mental health professionals we got to
tell you that tough stuff that isn't always so nice and it's not so warm and
fuzzy and lovey-dovey and stuff like that
like for me personally I did not get clean and sober and people until people
cut ties with me they had to let me go my mom was ready to let me die because I
was killing myself and refusing to get help you know what I mean so so like
it's difficult like now that I'm in recovery and I've worked at treatment
centers and things like that I have to tell people when they get so blind you
gotta cut your best friend out of your life you gotta cut your mom we have to
tell people that and that's where I see exactly where Katie Morton's coming from
like in her Instagram story she stays that you know one out of every 25 people
right or socio so review on this is trying to protect
the majority of people and yes like it's true so as mental health professionals
we are stuck in this tricky situation you know so I will say this like Katie
ended her video by saying like those of you who follow me and you know me like
you know better than that right okay this is where I talk about how you know
people have like black and white thinking this is a symptom of borderline
personality disorder but a lot of people struggle with black my thinking even
though you don't have borderline personality disorder
that's all Katie saying those things like my brain because I struggle with
black I think you wanted me to put Katie from the whole good pile into the call
myself down and say wait wait look what does she believe who is she as a person
and let me tell you one of my favorite videos by Kati Morton which as many
views as should have is she made a video dedicated to the fact that California
years ago California passed a bill to get a ton a ton of funding for mental
health right to help the homeless in California to provide better mental
health care they got a ton of money but what they're doing is is they didn't do
anything with that money another reallocating that money and Katie took
time on her channel to stray away from her normal content and basically do some
mental health advocacy right there shows me as a person who Kati Morton is and me
and her we're fighting the same fight to try to get more awareness out there to
help people get better mental healthcare and all that kind of stuff so so please
if you're watching this like like if you don't know Katie Morton very well like
goes check out some of our videos you'll learn to understand her as a person I
hope my video and my voice on the subject kind of offered you some insight
and like I said I'm torn on it like I don't know if I would necessarily have
worded it the way she did Shane Dawson is
so is his hand true you know so there might have been things cut out but I
know Katie loves all people and hopes for the best but like she said it's very
hard with sociopaths because they might just be pretending to get help so in my
opinion we need to fund research and see how we can help those people you know
what I mean but anyways let me know your thoughts down in the comment below
comment section below I hope this offered you a new point of view
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