- Are you really acting high value in your relationship?
What do you really need to look out for,
and what are the signs?
Hi ladies, my name is Ieva Bereisaite,
and I am one of Greta's High Value Women coaches.
And today in this video, I will be sharing four signs
that you are acting high value in your relationship.
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Without further ado, let's jump into sign number one.
That is asking yourself, is he taking action,
or he just talking, and promising?
A lot of men like to love bomb women with their words.
Words are lovely and nice to hear,
especially if they are compliments.
However, you always need to ask yourself
if the things that he's saying and promising,
if they're actually backed up with action.
Always remember that action also needs some time
to take place.
Whereas just saying something lovely and beautiful
can be done at any time.
So also, give your guy some time
in order for him to take the action.
Compliments and lovely words can be given at any time,
and they're perfectly fine,
but it really comes down to the action
that the guy takes towards you.
An example of a guy taking action
is firstly telling you, for example,
that he's going to take you to this amazing restaurant
the next time you guys see each other.
And the action behind that is
is that he actually books a date,
or books a reservation for that restaurant.
Another example is when a guy tells you
that he really does see a future with you,
or that he really wants to spend his future with you, right?
That's a really nice thing to say.
So an action that would naturally take place in a way,
in accordance to what he has said
would be for him to let you meet his parents, okay?
So for you to meet his parents
would be the action that a guy would take
if he says that he really does like spending time with you,
and he sees a future with you.
If a guy, for example, says that he really loves you,
he cannot wait to build a family with you.
If he mentions any of that,
or you can see that he is really really into you,
and says it as well,
then, and you've been together for a while,
then the action is the actual proposal.
So as you can see, without the action,
the words are just empty words.
It's really the action that needs to take place.
And in order for this action to take place,
depending on what it is, some time needs to pass.
A man pursues a high value woman
through the action that he takes.
He would back everything up with action, okay?
Or at least the most important things
that he says persistently,
he would back them up with action
to show you that he really does mean what he says.
A man would sense
when it comes down to being with a high value woman,
that words are not enough for her.
Words are not enough for a high value woman,
because a high value woman
looks at the action that is taken.
A woman who wears her heart on a sleeve
will fall in love with the words,
and will believe the words
without seeing the action behind it.
A high value woman would listen to the words,
and appreciate them,
but she would check if they are also backed up
by some form of pursuit or action.
So if your guy promises, or tells you a lot of things,
and he pursues you,
and he takes some form of action towards you,
then it is a sign that you are in a high value relationship.
Sign number two is that he invests in you.
When I mean invest,
I am not only talking about the money aspect.
Of course, when a man invests in you, he pays for the dates,
and the actions, or the activities, better say,
that you guys take part in during the dates.
A guy also invests in you when he takes time out of his day
to call you, or to check up on you.
He might buy you occasionally flowers,
but he might also offer help.
He might be there for you when you're feeling bad,
or when you need some support,
or he would just reach out to you,
and make you feel special in some way, shape, or form.
He would be excited to see you,
and to arrange dates with you.
He would invest in you by giving you his time,
his attention, his opinion, his help,
and his love in all shapes and forms.
He is basically happy when you are happy too.
Remember, at the end of the day, when a guy invests in you,
it doesn't only come down to the materialistics.
It also definitely definitely comes down to
the emotional investment that a guy makes in his girl.
So it's not about how big the bouquet is,
but it's moreso about the whole package
that he has to offer.
So don't be fooled by a rose.
Instead, keep your eyes open,
and look at the whole package that he has to offer.
When you are acting high value,
he will invest in you in multiple ways.
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Sign number three is he treats you with respect.
For men, respect and love go hand in hand.
So if there is basically no respect, there is no love.
A high value woman, of course, respects herself,
but she also respects the people around her.
When a man really loves a woman,
especially a high value woman,
he will treat her with respect,
because he knows that if he does not treat her with respect,
she'll be gone, and she's not gonna take disrespect.
He knows that respect is a value to her.
And if he does not treat her with respect,
there will be consequences.
If a low value woman is not treated with respect,
she would most likely complain, or nag about it.
If a high value woman, however, would not be respected,
her consequence would be to set a boundary,
not take it, or just leave.
And because the consequences of a high value woman
are so different, it makes him fall in love even more.
He will treat you with respect by listening to you,
letting you speak, and not interrupt you,
hearing you out, and treating you like a lady,
and showing you love and appreciation.
And of course, he's going to be nice to you,
because he wants you to be happy, because he loves you.
So if your guy treats you with respect, and treats you well,
it is a sign that you are in a high value relationship,
or that you're acting high value with your guy.
Sign number four is that he is able to trust you,
and you're able to trust him.
There is basically no relationship without trust.
And when you are high value, you trust your partner.
You don't do things like stalk him on social media,
or check who he's texting.
As a high value woman, you don't do any of that.
You don't stalk him.
When you are acting high value, and you trust him,
he will not mistreat your trust.
He will fall in love with you even more.
Because when a woman shows a man that she trusts him,
it shows that she is not insecure.
Of course, you don't give your trust away
just blindly or naively.
You act high value, but you also show your guy trust.
Also, a high value woman gives trust.
And if that trust is misused, the woman leaves,
and a man who is dating a high value woman
would sense that straight away
that she will not stick around if she is misused.
A high value woman also does not view other women
as competition.
If you are acting high value,
your guy will not want to mistreat your trust,
because he will not want to lose you.
When a man feels trusted, he will give you more love.
It is extremely important
for a man to feel like his partner trusts him.
And it's the same way around with women.
A woman wants to be trusted as well.
If your guy trusts you,
and you can genuinely say you trust him,
that is a beautiful high value relationship.
A man who is not trusted
will not feel good in a relationship,
because respect and trust also go hand in hand.
If a man truly believes that you trust him,
and you act high value,
he will give you more love than he normally would
to someone else who would not trust him.
Trust is fundamental in a relationship.
It is extremely, extremely important,
especially if you want to have a high value relationship.
When you're building a house,
the first layer should always be a good layer,
so that the rest of the house will be built well,
it's the same with a relationship.
The first layer needs, the trust needs to be established.
Of course, it doesn't just happen,
like a good relationship doesn't just happen,
it builds up, and it grows, right?
But trust is extremely fundamental, and is important.
And when you're acting high value,
and the guy falls in love with you,
and the way that you are, right,
and sees that you are trusting him,
he will not mistreat that trust,
because he will be afraid to lose you, right?
You don't have competition when you are a high value woman.
It just doesn't happen that way, okay?
And so this is one of the reasons
why being high value and trusting your guy
goes hand in hand very well.
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