I’m gonna break this video down into 2 major categories.
Category 1 is the practical dating advice, such as how to talk to the girl and things
to say, and Category 2 will be practical advice for improving your profile and making it so
girls are attracted to you and receptive when you do talk to them.
Simple enough right?
Let’s get started with category 1.
#1 Responding to girls stories is 100x better than cold DMing.
I know a lot of guys will slide into the DMs with all of these crazy thought out pickup
lines with the hope that it will make the girl respond.
Newsflash buddy, it don’t work like that.
You could have the best line in the world, but if you send it to an averagely hot girl
on Instagram, you’re just getting grouped in with all the other guys who DM her all
day.
Sliding into the Dm’s is largely ineffective because you’re giving away a lot of power
when you do it.
There’s a certain element to it that makes you look like a thirsty motherfucker cat-calling
girls on the street.
You are showing up in her inbox and basically saying, I like you, I’m interested, let’s
have a conversation.
And it creates very little chase or back and forth.
There are ways to cold DM in a way that’s high value way but it’s difficult.
I do have some lines that have a much higher success rate than normal methods of sliding
into the DMs, but I’m not going to get into those in this video, just because responding
to a girl’s story has such a higher success rate, it’s better to focus on doing that.
It’s way more natural and organic if you simply respond to her story and make a comment
about what’s going on in it.
It gives you an easy way to start the conversation because you’re just making a comment on
her story, and this commentary setup makes it really easy to tease the girl and establish
a flirty vibe.
It gives you something to tease her about or make fun of and is way easier to setup
the vibe than if you were to send a cold DM about nothing.
This brings me to the most important dating element of all of this.
#2 Create callback loops with girls you’re currently talking to or want to talk to.
Let me explain the concept of a callback loop, specifically on Instagram.
What you want to do is respond to a girl’s story and tease her about something she’s
doing.
This creates an open loop so that if she posts another story or photo doing that thing, you
can continue to tease her about it on future posts and stories.
This makes talking to her really organic and non-try hard since you’re talking to her
in reference to something you joked about in the past.
These open loops are the PERFECT way to set up future dates with the girl.
Here’s an example…
If you respond to her story and tease her for being basic for drinking starbucks, the
next time she does it you can respond to her and make the joke again.
And the next time you do it or something even remotely like it, you can message her or send
her a picture of it.
So let’s take the starbucks example, if you tell her starbucks coffee sucks, the next
time you make your own coffee or go to a different coffee shop, you can take a picture of it
and send it to her with a message saying something like, “Look how much better this is than
your basic bitch drinks.”
See what I mean?
You can even leave a comment on her pictures making fun of it.
It creates something to callback to and makes it really natural and easy to start conversation,
makes her more comfortable with you, and once you’re in conversation, leading to a date
is the natural next step because you have the perfect reason to take her out.
In the coffee, example, it would be you taking her to try out “the best coffee” or something
along those lines.
Now that you understand the dating advice aspect, let’s talk about Category #2 and
improving your profile.
#3 Here are some rapid fire picture taking tips.
Don’t tilt or lean your head back Jut your head and chin forward to create separation
from your jaw and your neck to avoid a double chin and looking like a fatass
Mew in your pics.
No i don’t mean moo like a cow.
I mean push your tongue up against the roof of your mouth to make your jawline more pronounced
and face more structured.
Easy enough right?
#4 Make sure your style is on mothafuckin point.
I can’t stress this enough.
If you’re gonna be posting stories and pictures of you doing cool stuff, you have to be well-dressed
in them.
It’s non-negotiable.
It’ll boost your profile attractiveness SO much it’s ridiculous.
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#5 Don’t fake flex
You shouldn’t go out of your way to lie and flex on instagram.
Your life should already be awesome and badass, taking a picture of it should just be something
you do as an extra thing to help you get some pussy.
You should not live your life for your instagram profile that’s what stupid people do.
It’ll also be really obvious to the girl that you lied or flexed your lifestyle once
you guys meet because she’s gonna see and meet you for who you really are.
Be authentic to you and your personality.
A girl will see your profile and evaluate it like a resume, so it’s best to give an
honest and authentic representation of who you are and what you do as opposed to lying,
flexing, or exaggerating.
If you want a good example of an instagram account that is high value and girls find
attractive, I HIGHLY suggest you checkout my manager Benjamin’s Instagram profile
since he absolutely crushes it with those Instagram models.
His profile is set up PERFECTLY to get laid with hot girls consistently.
I don’t know how he does it haha.
#6 Post stories or posts regularly of interesting shit
You want to be top of mind for girls.
If you post once every 3 months, she’s not gonna remember that you even exist.
The whole benefit of using instagram or social media in general is that it creates a small
circle of people who you know or kinda know, and it establishes value without you having
to explicitly tell the girl “hey look i have value!
I’m cool!”
Now don’t take too much time out of your life to post on social media, that’s silly.
But, you should just keep in mind the fact that taking a quick picture or story that
only takes 5 seconds can have a positive effect on your game and results with girls.
And that, you horny bastards is it.
In summary:
Respond to stories Create callback loops
Position your head forward in pictures, not backwards
Make sure your style is on point Don’t fake flex
And post stories and pictures regularly
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