- Is he talking to other girls and you're wondering why?
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So, and just before I share with you five reasons
why is he talking to other women,
why don't you take my free self awareness test.
Are you a woman of high value
or low value which you will find down
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So ladies without further ado.
Reason number one,
he enjoys the attention.
Men who are constantly texting girls
or receiving private messages
on their social media platforms
and chatting them up are definitely in it
for the attention it is bringing to them.
These type of men have infant or childlike behavior.
And all they look for is that extra praise
and immediate gratification from these women
without all the investment.
Please don't worry,
they are not texting them in order to make them
into their girlfriend or a future wife,
as most of these girls who are giving them the recognition
and praise or ego stroke are low value women.
And what is a woman of low value?
Please watch my video right here.
So let me explain more in my next step.
The second reason is insecurity.
When a man is insecure,
he feels a strong need to seek validation
and attention from others especially women.
Please if you think about it,
it's exactly the same with girls.
And with all those women texting him,
he may seem to you that he is such an important man
but all of these women are surrounding him,
giving him attention, compliments.
Ladies do not let that fool you
as this is a very needy behavior
and he is only fishing
for a huge void he already has in him.
A real confident man doesn't need approval from others
and seeking an enormous amount of female attention.
The third reason is he is not ready for a relationship.
Guys feel the need to play the field and be free.
Not to be tied down by a low value woman that is.
Don't forget to watch that video.
What is a woman of low value?
If your guy is very cheeky and the charming type,
and he will know how to charm the hell out of most women.
A charmer will always have many options
and many women he can try to impress.
These type of men have the hardest time committing to women,
as women fall too easy for their charms,
and when they do, the man gets bored.
The man needs to feel that he is falling in love first.
And if she starts to wear her heart on her sleeve,
pouring all her emotions and how she feels for him,
he will get turned off and then will give the excuse
that he is not ready for a relationship.
And you can find my video right here how men fall in love.
And then so off he goes to look
for another hoping there will be that girl who will keep him
on the edge of his seat.
The fourth reason he may be cheating.
You cannot accuse a man of cheating just
because he's texting or talking to the other woman.
If he works with many females and needs to speak
to them about work and he is very open about this
in front of you,
you have nothing to worry about.
What you need to watch out for is, be careful
when he has a sudden change
of attitude, behavior, schedule.
Such as, he is suddenly more on the phone,
more texting than usual,
or you notice he always puts his phone down soon
as you come near him.
However, with the phone down this can also be a game.
But to find out more about the games men play on woman,
I would really recommend you just to get my game package
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Anyway, continuing, he suddenly starts
to put way more effort into his appearance.
He is not interested in being intimate with you,
he is working longer hours.
Ladies, be very careful not to assume cheating
if he demonstrates one of those behaviors.
It usually is a combination of all.
And again ladies,
sometimes this type of behavior can be a game
to make you feel insecure on purpose.
This is why I have again the games video
for sale which I'll drop down in my video description
below so you get the knowledge, feel safe
and don't fall into his trap.
So the fifth one.
He wants to make you jealous.
Men test women all the time.
And this is one of them.
Trying to make you jealous.
The following are the main reasons he would do this.
He's testing you to see will you go crazy, or act insecure,
angry or cry.
Or he wants to check if you're a woman
who is comfortable in her skin and not threatened
by the other women.
Another reason could be is to see
if you really care about him and how much.
For example, if you start reacting and pulling a tantrum,
he will feel flattered that you care but at the same time,
he will know that you are very insecure.
And last reason he is a bored, little boy.
And he desperately wants attention from you
even if it's a negative attention,
it's still attention.
He is trying to show you
what a great catch he is to other woman
and how lucky you should be to have him.
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