Hello, it's Mark here from Make Him Yours and today, we are talking about
how to ask a guy if he's single. How do you do it smoothly and subtly without seeming
desperate, one little bit. That's what I'm going to demonstrate for you next
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Okay. Today we are discussing the top five ways to ask if a guy is single smoothly
and subtly. So number five is ask his friends. Now, it's not the most direct way to go about
it, but there's going to be a lot of social situations where you're around his friends
and it's perfectly reasonable to ask them. The other cool thing about this is that they
will usually then tell him that you've asked, which means the guy will know that you're
interested and yes, it is a good thing if the guy knows that you're interested because
he's going to believe that his chances of success with you are higher.
Jermia: So Matt's pretty cute, does he have a girlfriend?
Mark: No, he's totally gay, has a boyfriend.
Mark: No, I'm just messing with you. He's available.
Jermia: Excellent.
Number four, ask relative to his past adventures, so when he's talking about
somewhere he went or something he did slide it into the conversation and come from a place
of curiosity. As long as you come from that place of curiosity, it's not going to come
off weird at all?
Jermia: I just got back from a trip from London.
Mark: Oh really? I was in London about six months ago.
Jermia: Really? Oh my god!
Mark: It's so nice.
Jermia: Oh, it's beautiful. Who'd you go with? Like friends or a partner?
Mark: Yeah, no, just just went solo. I figured while you're single you've got to do some
traveling on your own.
Number three, ask relative to his current plans, so this is even better because
it gives you an even more accurate read onto his current status. When he brings up something
he's about to do or somewhere he's going to go very, very soon, you can slide it into
the conversation and again come from a place of curiosity so it isn't weird.
Jermia: What do you got planned for the weekend?
Mark: Yeah, not too much. I'm just heading off to Kings for a bit of a surfing weekend.
Jermia: Ah yeees! Who are you going with? Like friends, partner, solo?
Mark: Nah, no girlfriend. Just heading up with mates should be fun.
Jermia: All of this so good. You have to Snapchat me pictures of the surf.
Mark: Yeah, definitely. I will.
Number two, make fun of him. So this is a playful, fun, cheeky way to ask
if a guy is single and it adds flirting to the conversation as well. You just have to
make sure you're nice and affectionate with it because if not, it can come off insulting.
Mark: You ready? So look what I can do. I've learned, I've taught myself this at home where
I can tap my hands and my feet all at different rates.
Jermia: Are you single?
Mark: Yes.
Jermia: This is why.
Okay. And number one, the best way to ask if a guy's single, honestly, is
to just ask him. Imagine the high value woman of the world. Imagine the Megan Fox's. Imagine
the Scarlett Johansson's. How would they ask a man, if he's single? Do you think they'd
beat around the bush? Of course not, right. They'd ask him directly and with confidence.
And you are capable of doing the same. Yes, it takes practice, and yes, it does tell the
guy you like him. And yes, sometimes it leaves you a bit vulnerable, but you know what, that's
okay. That's why it's so strong. And this is the way that ultimately, you should be
aiming to ask a guy if he's single.
Jermia: So do you always hang out on your own or are you trying to get away from the
crowd too?
Mark: No, I just had to send a message so I ducked out. How's you're night going? I'm
Mark.
Jermia: Mark? That's the same name as my dad. We can never date. Ah, my name is Jermia,
yeah. Yeah, my night's going pretty well. Um, how about you?
Mark: Yeah, night's been good. We're out celebrating my friend's YouTube channel. He's a dating
coach or something. I don't really know what that's all about, but he seem to enjoy it.
So good for him. We're gonna have to bail soon. I've wrap it up.
Jermia: A dating coach? How ridiculous. Yeah, we've got to go soon too. But tell me, are
you single?
Mark: Yeah, I am. You want to sit down for a second?
Jermia: Yeah, I'd love to.
Now look, that does take some confidence and you're not always going to be able to
do that straight away and that's why the four other strategies are there, but ultimately,
aiming to ask if a guy is single can come from a place of confidence and the more you
act as that high value confident woman that you know you are deep inside, the more that's
going to come through to men and you're not going to have to worry at all about seeing
needy or desperate when you ask a guy if he's single. Well that's it. Thank you so much
for watching. I hope you enjoyed the video. Let me know your thoughts, comments, questions,
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