so I got quite a few messages requesting me make a video because Tana Mongeau's
ex-boyfriend Brad Sousa aka fake Justin Bieber just had an entire
exposed documentary made about him by his former editor Otto and right now the
internet and Tana Mongeau herself are rejoicing but this might not be the good
thing that we all think it is what is up everybody this is Chris from the rewired
soul where we talk about the problem but focus on the solution and if you're new
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before I get started real quick because we are going to be talking about cancel
culture and your reputation and all that stuff real quick announcement until the
end of the month for those of you who don't know my brand new book cancelled
is available now and until the end of the month you can get a free copy of the
ebook pinned down in the pen comment as well as in the description below alright
I take a deep dive into YouTube cancel culture my own experience as well as the
experience of some others Tana Mongeau was actually mentioned in the book a few
times in some of the situation's that she's been in alright so anyways yeah
but so this editor Otto and I guess there were friends too
they yeah they parted ways and I first was introduced to Otto Hans like many other
people when I saw his last video where he like pretty much stole breath so sis
yeah so don't get me wrong Brad Sosa is he's a d-bag and I made a
couple videos just wheatena was going through that breakup I found out she was
cheated on so if you want to check that out like I feel really really bad from
Fort Anna so we're going to be talking about Tana but then we're also gonna be
talking about the pastor Otto situation so the first thing that
we need to talk about it see what we can learn from it like even though like I'm
not like a massive like Tana mojo fan like I feel for that girl like this this
whole video that came out with Otto Hans showing the DMS and everything like that
like I feel bad for like this is something that I think a lot of people
who have something to offer have to deal with right like for example like we're
talking about Tana Mongeau who has a massive following on YouTube and
Instagram she's you know all this stuff right but also for some of you out there
like maybe you come from a rich family maybe you have something you write like
us having to worry about like is this person only dating me for this or are my
friends only hanging out with me for that like maybe you're the friend who
always buys you know rounds at the bar or you buy people stuff or whatever it
is right and we always have to worry about like are we being used does this
person actually like me and it's difficult because trust me I grew up and
I had a lot of trust issues and I've been screwed over many at times so those
trust issues have gotten even worse but I've had to learn how to manage them
because I can't just close myself off and isolate from the world right
so part of what we need to start doing is just doing our best to be a better
judge of character like something that Otto talks about in his video is like
noticing the red flags right because when you get screwed over especially if
you're cheated on or something like that it's easy to start thinking that
everybody in the world is a bad person and that is a lie that our brains
telling us it's a lie that our brains telling us to try to protect us from
being hurt again in the future but again it can block us off for the rest of the
world so what's helped me immensely is just trying to be a better judge of
character and I still have screwed up in the past like my girlfriend makes fun of
me because like I am very friendly and if someone's like cool and nice to me
like I open up to them and stuff so I've been trying to manage that because it's
bit me in the butt in the past right so anyways um yeah like the most we can do
is just try to heal from it and move forward in regards to like Tana mojo
specifically I have no idea what the hell is going on with her
Paul right look hot seems like a whole cloud chasing situation in and of itself
but it seems like it's mutual rather than the deception that Brad Sosa did
but anyways the bulk of this video I want to talk about the editor otto and
brad and when this video was requested by a few people i debated on doing it
because i have opinions that some of you might not agree with and that's that's
one of the difficult parts about doing like commentary and things like that
like you could either go with you know the masses right like with what
everybody is you know thinking and believing and whose side they're on
right now and everything but if you speak kind of what your opinions already
that goes against that might hurt you but anyways I really just before I dive
into now I want you all to think like all of the adults out there who have
ever had any type of job in your life before I move forward I just want you to
ask yourself one question would you ever get away with what Otto just did to brad
Sosa now don't get me wrong don't get me wrong
Brad Sousa is not a good dude but when we when we have this this thirst for
revenge it can make us do things that hurt us as
well like let's just kind of run down the list real quick first off auto took
Bradshaw says plaque right because auto feels that he didn't deserve it and
something like that is all subjective but if we look at this as adults like
that is theft okay the other thing that I was looking at was just like kind of
the immaturity of the video and I know the audience is just loving it and
eating it up like I got some chuckles in there too Auto is a funny dude
but from a professional standpoint I'm like oh this might not be a good look
because here's the thing like what I was thinking most of the time while watching
that video because auto was talking about how Brad Sousa is probably not
going to be able to you know work with any major brands or anything like that
again in the future partially because of this
huge exposed video that he just made on Brad but I'm sitting there and I'm
asking myself too I'm like alright well is anybody going to work with OTO in the
future like if this is one of his biggest videos right and his claim to
fame how many other creators are going to want to work with him see what he
just did now don't get me wrong this dude OTO like holy crap he is one
of the one of the best editors I've ever seen like I I suck at editing that's
what my videos are very minimal when it comes to editing but like for his style
and the effort he puts in like the dude is phenomenal but I'm kind of looking at
this not only as somebody who's been an employee but as somebody like I have my
editor Zack you know who edits for me sometimes he edits my audio books he's
edited some videos for me in the past and stuff but like if for some reason
Zack you know just left and said hey you need to find a new editor when you need
one like if I was looking at auto I'd be like uh what I want to work with this
guy right so when all of you are watching this like even though
everybody's getting some yucks in and laughing you know at the expense of Brad
so so like ask yourself if you would be able to get away with what Auto just did
because I'm thinking about Auto in the future and what issues he may run into
so something that he brings up is gary vaynerchuk's book Jab Jab Jab right hook
and some of you know me like I am a huge fan of Gary Vaynerchuk I got to speak
with him last year uh vid summit and everything like that I love that dude so
like Auto explains Jab Jab Jab right hook it's
keep providing value and then ask right like provide so much value that you you
know you're not just trying to get something from the other person and
something that's like this kind of you know there's some debate around it is
like working for free so when I look at all those situation he he brings up
multiple times that he offered to work for Brad for free right but when things
went sideways and Otto felt you know entitled
to some compensation and everything I get what he's saying about the the the
music that he used and that accounts like I do think he should be reimbursed
for that but what I'm getting at is anytime Otto goes to you know trying to
do work for free just for exposure or for experience in the future whatever
creator he works with is gonna have to ask like is this guy only gonna work for
me for free and then eventually get upset and try to expose me because I
wasn't paying him even though he offered to work for me for free and this is
something like I don't think Otto's a bad dude like the fact like he seems
like he is somebody on this path to try to improve himself and I I love that I
love when anybody does that it's something that I'm trying to do all the
time as well like I am NOT a perfect person but like I say like I always
watch these videos and I try to learn from them right but when I'm watching
Otto like since I you know I I watch a lot of Gary Vaynerchuk
I've read all of his books and everything like that sometimes I feel
and this is just my opinion that people kind of take they kind of cherry pick
certain advice from Gary Vaynerchuk like when I was watching Otto's video and
then when I saw that he's a fan of Gary Vee I'm like would Otto think that Gary
Vaynerchuk would endorse this idea to expose Brad Sousa and and do this like
the answer probably is no and this is something that I asked myself like we
all should have mentors in our life but some of them you know some of us have
mentors like Gary Vee like I don't talk together meta Matt did some and I got to
ask him a question during this Q&A that was it right but sometimes I have to sit
back and ask myself and say what would this person do in this situation you see
what I mean but the other thing is - with everything that Otto just exposed
and leaked like private DMS and all these other things
anybody who considers working with Otto in the future is gonna have to ask
themselves is this guy going to leak private information if I upset him right
and nobody wants to enter in a relationship where you already
feel like you're being held hostage and again all those editing skills are
insanely good but is it worth the risk that if you potentially piss this guy
off he's going to release a bunch of private information so I know that as
part of like the YouTube community and spilling tea and all this other stuff
like we're all like sitting back and having a good time watching the video he
just created but again I want you to kind of adapt this to your real life and
think about if you would ever get away with this right so like just my final
thoughts hopefully somebody liked animo general
hires auto but I can I can't really imagine too many like reputable people
working with Auto for a little while until this this whole thing blows over
like the dude has the dude has amazing skills that he could work with some
really big youtubers but again a bunch of big youtubers are gonna have to worry
about something like this happening to them and again I'm not trying to defend
Brad so so like did he deserve it probably you know hopefully broad you
know shapes up and learn from this and quits
being so scummy right but I am concerned about Auto because that dude has skills
all right anyways that's all I got for this video don't forget my brand new
book cancelled inside YouTube cancelled culture is out now and you can get a
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